felixk_priv

Lol , I am your Uber driver is funny though

I want to say that getting clarity changed everything for me . This is how I have sorted things out in my life , and In dating it's been THE FUCKING SAME . I think if you are out doing pickup but you are not clear on core things or doing the process to get it , red fucking flag . I feel this is the core , the core of the process . GET CLEAR . I wasted lots of time ' doing pickup ' without getting clear on things . Big mistake , except for that fact that it taught me the importance of getting clear which is : questioning , processing , contemplating I spent time getting clear and now my dating life is fucking fixed and pretty .

Tbh I am insecure about texting a girl fast back I have been texting back faster but I think I might come across as well more invested I suppose . It's early on , I don't know if it's a turn off for most girls .. or if it varies or if it comes across as needy or soemting

I know I got you . I think my social calibration is perfectly fine . I am more concerned about all the letting go I am doing and being unaware of new territories but just confidently walking in lolll , but no joke

So I have had it where I have approached women I have found very attractive with 100 confidence and it is an amazing feeling . I didn't realise that , that could be a permanent implementation . My dating life HAS FUCKING TRANSFORMED . ITS BEEN INSANE . Well everything else in my life has so this was the last dragon to slay . What happened was I implemented letting go / going outside my comfort zone to a certain standard every week . IT IS Fucking CRUCIAL FOR THAT LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE - in terms of me naturally just approaching a girl at the cafe I work at because of the amount of letting go I do in my life . Like I just fucking knew I would do , I could just tell , I felt the emotions and that's when you know . The thing is when you do this system of letting go , you naturally face your OLD fears . You just naturally do and effortlessly . It's incredible . it's powerful . It's wonderful . To me it's fucking magical . I love it . Thank you , thank you . Thank you so much Leo for all the influence you have had on me . But anyway yes the feeling I have had about myself has been amazing . So part of the letting go was that it helped me reach a level of high integrity that myself has really wanting to get to . And man with this level of integrity for me , I have really gotten more self worth from it . So yes with a catalog of positive traits to choose from to build my self esteem and self worth , that was the starting position for me to try to slay this final dragon . And also , from the fucking confidence I already had from letting go . I was already confident but there are levels , which I think is to say more so that there are things you aren't confident about . For example with all the letting go , I stopped resisting the things I wasn't confident about hence more confidence reached . But yes also my approach came from just contemplation / telling myself the truth of the situation and trying to figure out the truth of what I can do and actually change . And eventually I was processing my own perspectives and my relationship of low self worth to women , and then my intuition said you can have her , you can have all of them , which was a statement of self worth it . And also it wasn't just for women , my inner voice said you are worth all of them including just people ( not as in am worth more than others ) . So this self worth I have now , this this this this this this this this . This.. this self worth in relation to people is what has given me that extra level of confidence in socialising . And it really is extra , it's incredible . As someone who has always been perceived as very confident socialising , I really had no idea this new level of confidence + socialising even existed . It's also fucking amazing and I cannot believe it . So my dating advice yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes and my advice life in general yes . Is - be high integrity - look at your self worth in relationship to people and in everything and what it hinges upon - doing letting go to a certain standard every week

Lol , maybe it would have been good to feel my emotions instead of posting this out of insecurity bahahh

@Inliytened1 hmm indeed and not just women . Do you think the women with men who's self esteem isn't high but not necessarily low , don't feel secure ?

@LordFall too far down the route of showing sexual expression ? As in being uncalibrated ?

@Olaf Thank you Mr Olaf

Approaching women now comes from authenticity and naturalness . I see her and I naturally want to approach and think something could happen and then because of the letting go I fucken do . So natural . Whereas before going around in pickup A) sometimes that desire to approach wasn't there , but the expectation was B) I wasn't doing enough letting go C) I didn't actually think something could happen weirdly enough because of how unconscious my process was , and my lack of processing and contemplating anything . Before it was coming up with my own ideas of what to do , getting excited , having expectations , trying them . Succeeding and failing , but being completely unaware of what I was actually doing and why . I didn't realise that what I wanted all along was this . A healed relationship in terms of this self worth yes yes yes yes .. and that's it , well and the ability to escalate , which is the same as letting my sexual expression out . My sexual expression wanted to come out to be seen .

I learnt that for some reason ( fear , it was fear ) I have been hiding my sexual expression towards women FOR FUCKING YEARS . That is fucking unbelievable . So the first thing I mentally changed was always putting it on the table for everyone to see .

This . Is literally . A dream come true for me . I didn't even think this was going to happen and I wasn't even aiming for it and it suddenly came . I was experiencing a level of shock for hours . I experienced the internal change and all of the emotions of the change internally and I sort of knew it happened before I even had any external evidence . That's when you know ..

The way I found to become higher integrity was to sit down and tell myself the truth . It goes like this , tell yourself the truth , tell yourself the truth .. and so on . Now , because it's been so great to be higher integrity , it's what I keep doing. Now it seems like I am doing what Leo said , which was to tell yourself the truth of every moment of every day .. or something like that . So let's goooo Has anyone else implemented this ? And how is it going for you ?

@Rafael Thundercat thank you

So , back in the game . Unfortunately broke up with my girlfriend but it was best . I really want to know from everyone's experiences , how to simply approach 10 women in a set . Is there something to learn here to do this ? Can that be done consistently ? What is required ? Also if you do it by yourself is it super hard ( solo game ) ? And .. let's say I have a friend with me , that makes it easier ? Does it I don't know . How have people done it here and is it consistent for them ? Cheers Luvers

@felixk_priv but doing it when it is natural , no need to force it . Then you are assertive naturally

I think letting go helps on being assertive

Wow , this telling myself the truth habit . I don't know if there has been anything special about it , but there has seemed to be a change . Hmm maybe it's the integrity right maybe it's the integrity or , actually it seems like my contmepaltiom is more powerful . Right it seems like my contemplation is more powerful hmmm . Maybe more to the point . I swear to fucking god , I am constantly getting insight and seeing things maybe huh . Something is different , what is it right . Right something is different . More so to do with my experience , why the hell is it more effective oh shit . Oh shit oh shit oh shit another fucking insight

I just wanted to share a potential powerful truth habit for the newbies out here ( me ) .. That I think will be super powerful for me. It might have transformed me if I had done this sooner and everyday . We have feelings about what is true . I wasn't living by them . This system I think is helpful because you are becoming so conscious of these truths over repetition and processing that you will naturally start to live by these truths . spend ten minutes a day telling yourself the truth

Why would I not scratch every idea I have about something when contemplating a subject . The truth stands clear . The truth stands clear , ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . Clearer then if ... Then if ... Then if I were to not scratch every idea right or ? Maybe I'm tripping

Just noticed there is a big difference when one does this . It's like everything is so much clearer when you start . Remember that place where Jack sparrow is in the third film where he has ' died ' with all the other Jack sparrows , it's basically a Minecraft flat world but in ' real life ' , and everything is white and in the distance it's all white . That is how fucking clear it feels , like a breath of the freshest air ever by the ocean . O-m-g

For me no unfortunately :(((

Reality is infinite . Is this in sight for you ?

With all of this talk of the good life , is anyone here living the experience of a wonderful life ? Despite all this talk of the good life , I haven't noticed Leo expressing how incredible / wonderful his life has been . Its almost like there is a missing expression of how amazing it is , when I think about the amount he has talked about the good life . But this isn't just about Leo , so I invite anyone to express how wonderful their life has been in thanks to their process . ( Starting with me ) With all of the actions I take , I feel pretty good . Maybe my life hasn't been absolutely amazing but there is more time to come and my integrity is awaiting a nice little upgrade . Which is on my doorstep . So yes I have seen results and that is amazing . ( To the forum ) What are your experiences of life being incredible , having created that , and the wonderfulness going deeper and deeper and deeper .... And deeper ... Or is this actually just a thing that doesn't happen ?

@Olaf thank youu man for writing this . I love approaching I can't lie .