Schizophonia

Of course eheh.

I like being kissed huged etc because it makes me feel strong, but in your sentence it seemed about being at the fragile place. If you see what i mean.

It seems keto diet does the same btw.

Ahah. Too late 😏

There's nothing left to reduce if I already allow myself to strive for nothingness. I don't need someone to push me into submission; that would have the opposite effect (being submissive seems boring/demanding to me most of the time). On the other hand, the other (the maya in general, not necessarily women) becomes something that will systematically narcissify me, that will prevent me from returning to my emptiness. So I must ensure that the objects I'm exposed to are submissive, to eliminate the separation. Dont know if i'm clear.

To sleep well

I would say that sex (and love) is a karmic game, it's based on limiting beliefs; so looking at it objectively, it's just "raw chicken," as you would say, who do moves together. For example, we can imagine two people who play at "life is brutal" and therefore get together to have gentle, romantic sex that, for a limited time, puts an end to the evidence (libido = "death drive") that "life is brutal." "Life is brutal, "so" let's unite against this brutal world with a bouquet of roses between our teeth, blablabla..." Or, on the contrary, two people who have the belief that "people/the world are weak and mediocre who slow me down" and who get together to have we guess a more brutal sex. And so on in the infinity of the spectrum of belief that constitutes an ego.

@soos_mite_ah @RendHeaven I contemplate my fantasies a lot; the more detached and pragmatic I am in everyday life, physical and in the present moment, the more I can have very dominant or even sadistic kinks. I clearly noticed this correlation.

Yea i I suspected it 🤔 Pornography acts as a safety valve.

Yes i see well, i do that to ofc (👺) The realism of the video and the precision/personality of imagination.

Pornography may not be very ethical, but it doesn't change much. Maybe it could even prevent more rapes and other sexually related incidents.

Imagination is better but it's less easy. Just like watching tik tok instead of reading a book.

No, because it's not true. Most men don't need a "hug or a kiss," unless they're homosexual. What lies behind these kinds of allegations is the desire to victimize oneself, and what lies more subconsciously behind the victim position is its opposite polarity, which is the "hero"; it's a fixation on infantile narcissism. The goal of military service in some countries is to break this fixation in men. If you allow yourself to whine and victimize yourself because it's hard, a nasty corporal will come and humiliate you, or at least attack you in front of everyone, and punish you. Because you don't want to be "castrated," you will therefore agree to abandon the idea of victimizing yourself, your infantile fixation, and adopt a more rational and proactive phallic position. Unfortunately, military service has been abolished in most Western countries. Typically, without going into detail, subconscious reconfiguration techniques, typically within the framework of the Law of Attraction if you're into that, are basically a process of masculinization. You can't have a better life by assuming victimization; it's fundamentally contradictory; to be more powerful, you will therefore have to concentrate on the narcissistic rage you may feel by preventing yourself from emitting the idea of victimization; whether to yourself or others (which is the same thing, mirror effect all that). In fine it's all again about detachment.

lol

Because it's false. Most of mystics had sexual relationships apart from an ascetic minority.

Israel and the United States are clearly aggressors

Yea, I had lost my keys and called a random person on Google. He charged me almost 500 euros for a lock that was worth like 50, and when I realized it wasn't normal, I threatened to file a complaint over the phone for abuse of power; it wouldn't have led anywhere, lol, but apparently it could work. He simply said that "it was his job" and that we couldn't see each other because he was far away. I later learned that it was basically the Albanian mafia lol. My father knows this well too and a normal lock is actually easy to replace, I could have actually broken my lock myself and replaced it with a random one. I should do this as a student job ahah.

Yea but most of the time it's not about coping with torture, cluster headaches, or problems like that.

I got scammed by a locksmith the first time i had a home 😂

Hi mirror n°1789, thanks for asking my divine opinion. If someone bothers me, I just stop talking to him/her; i just don’t care I don’t will do a topic ask advice or something. It seems it works given that nobody tries to humiliate or intimidate me, it doesn’t exists on my maya. To affirm something is to generate it, by imprinting it on the subconscious mind. And the energy configuration that pushes others to seemingly humiliate you is the same one that pushes you to make a topic and even ask my advice, to generate the affirmation in general. There's not really anything to answer you other than things you already know, the real unspoken goal of the thread is to assert your persona. Would someone who doesn't get humiliated make an actualized thread? Would they even give a damn about our opinion? The reconfiguration of the subconscious and by extension of maya, which is a projection of it, is done through affirmation; it's hard to stop saying our difficulties, ruminating, because there is a narcissistic rage to abandon our usual identity even if it's a shitty identity, but that's how it works; you can real neville goddard; there's a little book of about forty pages called "feeling is the secret", the thinkers of the Christian "new thought", or if you're not into that stuff simply content on the reconfiguration of the subconscious. I can already see that there is maybe some patronizing energy and perhaps a little humiliating in my message, but that's because you asked for it; you made a thread that says you are humiliated and then give me overlordship. If you had married the roleplay of someone who doesn't get humiliated, you wouldn't have made this thread and/or asked my opinion because you would be overlord enough to not care, and therefore I would never have returned this message.

Insomnia is about attachment Sleep hygiene is not effective in curing insomnia because it doesn't address the underlying psychological cause. You don't want to become dependent on sleep hygiene and sometimes medication. You want to be able to have an easy relationship with sleep; to be able to go to bed and fall asleep even when conditions aren't ideal (late exposure to blue light, stress, caffeine, etc.) To be able to nap in the middle of the day like you did when you were a child. Contrary to popular belief, stress in itself isn't necessarily a sleep deterrent; it can even make you want to sleep as a way to "take refuge somewhere." The main cause of insomnia is the tendency to maintain an ego, a particularly dense self-concept that requires a lot of energy and therefore alertness and prevents the triggering of the VLPO system, the urge to fall asleep. You have to imagine that your consciousness is like a "clamp" that clings to concepts through your imagination. Thoughts arise, or rather tend to arise, and you have the choice between clinging to them and sinking into the process of constructing a thought, or, on the contrary, "letting them slide." The more you let them slide, the easier it will be to fall asleep and the more naturally it will come. You must imagine that your attention is a clamp, and that the thoughts (it could be sleep anxiety, philosophical or sexual ideas, the recipe for an apple pie; it could be anything) are too heavy for you to cling to. "I'll give up, I'm lazy." However, this can be difficult, because accepting a de-densification of your ego when you're used to "clinging" too much can trigger narcissistic rage. You must therefore train yourself in your daily life to "not cling" and to face life's challenges (work, relationships, etc.), and this will become your new identity. You can't on the one hand "cling" to things in everyday life, and at the same time become morbid enough to sleep easily.

I've been contemplating, and the biggest obstacle to happiness for me is the fear of the pain of losing it sooner or later. It's repressed, and it would require more introspection, but I think I'm reaching that place. Happiness is indeed a state of mind, we can choose to be happy especially if we are in good health.

I know, but it's not necessarily about the kink. I mean the fact that the girl is acting out to boost my ego can seem overwhelming in general, and it seems weak because you're giving a lot of weight to her approval. I'd prefer maybe a quiet girl, so I'm the one who can grunt as much as possible, "take up space."

It's already very good, you are clearly not in the worst possible situation. For the rest, you can get rid of your electrical devices in such a way that you can no longer use them anyway; you give away your phone and replace it with an old Nokia without internet, you give away your headphones/headset, you make sure you can only use your computer once a week, or with parental controls managed by someone else... Generally speaking, you give yourself the option of no longer having access to it, the same goes for food. Recently, I read an article about seminal retention and acetylcholine; a guy had used this article as part of his promotion for his chastity cage, to prevent people from masturbating and preserve their masculine strength. As long as it works, ahah.