Schizophonia

No she is wrong. You only believe her because your ego is too afraid of an alternate reality where you don't have the privilege of your advantageous physical and economic status. People are led to think this because they can't get women at all; not because their physical standards are too high. Take an interest in the people concerned.

This is true online because by looking at your random selfies women can easily see that you suck, it's even worse if you go on a Tinder-alternative dating site where people come because they know they're ugly/suck, lol. In any case, it's easier and more enjoyable in real life, in a context where you can offer something. What's paralyzing next is learned helplessness. There isn't much of a solution you have to go through this feeling, but yes it's not natural to be abandoned by your social group; it's normal that it's infuriating/paralyzing.

Lots of introspection, and videos on Freud/Lacan during my insomnias.

Karma is identity, the sense of self as you call it. That's not true, well being isn't priority of humans otherwise there wouldn't be self-destructive behaviors. The absolute priority of human's ego is survival, conservation of the self in general. Well being is a symbol of survival yes but it's not survival in itself, The gap is the reason why people have behaviors that seem irrational from the outside, even from their conscious point of view; because unconsciously their behavior allows them to survive; they are not sure of surviving in any other state even of "happiness" and they are so attached to survival that they will choose the state of not happiness. This is the tragedy of the human ego, which makes people allow themselves to be exploited, belittled in various ways, and to exhibit neurotic behavior in general. Yes. I wanted to say that spirituality is ultimately not so non-normie after all, eheh, and above all that it is an object of choice for our neurotic part; like all scrupulous subjects (religions, nutrition, politics...). I'm not saying that we shouldn't be interested in these subjects "because otherwise it's neurotic"; I'm saying that they are fertile ground. When I watch a sad movie, when I don't have access to my Paris Brest, when I learned about the implementation of a boring age verification system for pornographic sites in France. Negative affects 😾

In obsessive-compulsive neurosis, due to castration anxiety, there is a pleasure in shitting in the wrong place as a response; excrement is used as a substitute for the phallus. That is, you will "hold it in" most of the time and exhibit mixed, non directed, even masochistic behavior; this is due to unconscious processes. And sometimes you "release the excrements" and become aggressive/sadistic, and say, "Oh, what a pain in the ass those cuckolds pencil necks, me, virility, me, me..."). But excrement still isn't a real phallus; the true phallic position doesn't occur when you rebel, but when there's nothing left to rebel against. If you've adopted the phallic position, then there's no longer any competition (unconsciously the father/father substitutes, power holders, since the Oedipus complex or individual scenario of the transition to the phallic stage in general) to rebel against, by definition. So right now, you'd be a stoic doing whatever you want, rather than going on Actualized and making a thread complaining about your gay (non-phallic) mirrors who are afraid to lift heavy weights.

I'd rather have "pencil neck" than end up with a herniated disc, a torn muscle, a torn ligament, etc. The guy who made the video may be angry, but Mister Olympia contestants often have accidents.

These are begin the questions so i'm not going to respond to that, It would take entire topics. You are essentially a product of your culture/tradition. Even if you're an unsociable autistic person hiding in a cellar, all the activities you engage in and your way of thinking—language, as Lacan would say—are essentially a social inheritance. Look, why do you have your psychedelic avatar found on Google? To say, "Look, I'm the guy who takes psychedelics and is spiritual." You're attached to the social body. Everyone here does that, even if one is neurotic and claims to be "above all that." "Being above all that" is still a character, haha, a stupid character to ultimately gain power and place oneself in society. Tradition is a bundle of symbols that the libido can invest in and that facilitate social cohesion. Without this, you end up in an atomized society where people are bored and/or their sexual energy is poorly harnessed. Rather than pretending you don't have a dick, you might as well take care of it.

The "collective unconscious" Jung is proud of you Because of karma. Hre what the ego believes is good too "gain power". For me, the only sign that someone is open is the absence of negative affects. Then, whether a subject is marginal or not doesn't matter. And spirituality isn't unconventional, it's average as hell eheh.

You attract what you are, if you consciously want something but it doesn't happen then it's not you.

Title. My new year of studies begins soon and i choose sanskit as an option, I read the Wikipedia page and it cited a book that said it's like a "mantra language," like a song where the sounds directly echo a frequency basically; that sounds interesting.

You're doing yourself a favor; alcohol is euphoric and stress-relieving. But it's actually better to limit your alcohol intake because otherwise, if you increase your intake, you'll vomit, experience various problems, and increase your risk of death; I don't consume any drugs these days. But the goal is always well-being/survival ;neurosis occurs when you begin to stray from this goal and start to think and function as if you were low-key, subservient to a dictator. Like you say "It's true that a person can have bad habits but can have goodness" lol; it's like you are not interested in whether the other person can make you gain something, if you can create something with it; it's as if there was a sadistic dictator up there somewhere and your priority was to please him. When I say that, I have nothing against you; it's a judgment and a projection I make here and there about people who talk about personal development. The more time passes, the less interested I become in these subjects and I prefer to see myself becoming a father, a politician, a member of a charitable organization, an athlete, etc. And when someone talks to me about personal development, nutrition, spiritual work, maturity, truth, etc it seems narcicistic, gay or something; triggers negative reactions in general.

@theleelajoker @aurum Let's say that having an attractive lifestyle is often concomitant with having a social circle, since we are a social species, but it is not systematic. 🤔 A woman can also introduce you to her social circle if you lack one; women are independent now and have their own social circles. Also, people work; in reality, it's already a significant investment of time to do things with your girlfriend, your entourage in general; so this whole thing is a bit of a fantasy. There are a lot of fantasies in pick up, I think. Rather than focusing on particular objects, which is anxiety-provoking and would distance me from myself, I prefer to create my cocoon which corresponds, is pleasant for me even if it is solitary, and if the cake is pleasant enough then it will be very pleasant for certain women too 😎🍰 🤏🥰🤏

It is a dye and retry; I loved Hotline Miami 2. Me I'm more a NPC I wait for Arma 4 and EU5.

No

You can have no friends at all and still have a pretty girlfriend; I know several people who are in this situation. There are plenty of ways to be attractive.

Yes ofc. Like every point of view in the universe.

He said he was not sociable at all, those were his words, not an assumption.

It's very individual. For example, cannabis keeps me awake, and conversely, a little coffee helps because it reduces stray thoughts; it's almost an anxiolytic for me thanks to its attention-enhancing properties. Masturbation helps a lot of people, but for me, it makes me more manic; having orgasms at night isn't good for sleep. Some people like total darkness, for others it's disturbing. In fact, many children sleep with a nightlight, and they forget about it as adults, but you're no different, and maybe you'd sleep better with it. Besides, in nature, darkness and complete silence don't exist; there's residual light reflected by the moon, the stars, and the atmosphere; the sound of the wind, animals, and other things...

That's what I'm talking about; "the problem isn't the problems pushing people to the right, the problem is talking about them." No different from far-right people who deny global warming or things like that.

He's right; the English must protect their culture, their very ethnic identity, and their security, which is at risk. If you're not male like many here (no children, no business, dysthymic, so no consideration for culture and security...), you don't understand anything and are going to say "right wing gnegne."

Because you want give love to people and things.

It's not true; they are open to psychedelics because they were matrixed by it, and I would even say that it is once again driven by neurosis given the useless justifications like "it's spiritual" or "it's more effective than therapy" when this is not true in the vast majority of cases. But otherwise there are many neurotic mirrors (obsessive as well as hysterical), who do not want to be sociable, who become aggressive or lie when it comes to politics, etc. Watching a video and even meditate is easy if you are matrixed by the topics covered, the problems I talked about would rather be the difficulty in doing new activities and being in a good mood. Yes

If you can do that you probably don't have attention problem eheh. When I spoke of taking care of oneself, I tacitly meant in the idea of making oneself and others happy; make happy ! That is to say lowkey phallic position. When you say that you are not in a phallic logic, you are in a neurotic/regressive logic. Because otherwise you'll see that any father who likes whiskey is more masculine/mature than anyone here who jerks off to psychedelics/personal development/spirituality/nutrition, etc. Because he's truly socially useful, he's phallic. Yes

Or because you are a woman, Leo said women are not made to handle the truth. 👺 More seriously, what is translated by good affects is individual yea, so maybe you are one of mirrors spectrum which is close to the opposite of "me", but it's unlikely; does the forum really make you more happy ? I don't only talk about Actualize's users but also the mirrors (including the version of "you") who is into spirituality and personnal developpement in general, this kind of egregor. I see a much greater inclination to these psychological problems.

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