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The dude has had a shitty past and does not have a strong support system. Let’s give him a chance, but if he continues the hateful comments moving forward then he’s OUT!

I can relate to a lot of what you said. The fact that you’re self aware of this is a step in the right direction. You have what it takes to move forward, but it’s not going to be easy whatsoever.

Same here.. Let’s go!

Whenever a toxic man enters your life, this is what you immediately need to do:

Masochism.

Nathan’s Famous Hot Dogs *Nathaniel Branden

I am as skinny as a twig and have attracted beautiful women.

Yes, please lock it at the 420th post

If you want to be social, you’re going to have to open up some parts of yourself; it can’t be all private.

Women will find you irresistible when you take on a leadership role that creates solutions and empowers them, rather than barrage them with endless excuses and pity parties. Doing the latter will make you more irritable to them.

You can’t avoid that completely. For example, if you’re a musician in heavy metal band and play at live shows, you don’t control who wears earplugs or not. Clearly you wouldn’t be out there intentionally causing people to lose their hearing.

People who are chronically abused and exploited aren’t even aware that they’re being abused, sadly. At best they have a vague idea that something is off. They deal with it by using coping mechanisms that they’ve been ingrained with, which further keeps them stuck in the cycle of abuse. Abusers are then able to take advantage of these victims, and it makes the abusers even stronger. It can take decades to even realize one is in such a situation. And getting out of it won’t magically fix the damage that’s already been done. It’ll still take additional decades of inner work to heal all that trauma.

Respect women as you would respect psychedelics. You can have a bad trip on a psychedelic and not blame the psychedelic; rather, you turn inwards after that experience and see what needs to be addressed in your own life. You can have a bad argument with a woman and not blame the woman; rather, you turn inwards after that experience and see what needs to be addressed in your own life.

Beautiful Also consider hanging out with women casually, just as friends. Being open to understanding women from different perspectives / angles is key to long-term success. As with anything else you want to master.

Wow, my psychiatrist asked me if I wanted to try her coconut water last time I went. She asked me twice, yet I refused both times because I had a slight allergic reaction when I tried coconut water a looong time ago. I’m going to actually ask her for it next time I go. Life’s too short to be hung up on past bad experiences!

Fapping is Love. Best to embrace it fully and enjoy. You are literally showering yourself with pure love. The mind is a powerful sex machine! Now imagine showering that same love with another.

A deeper dive into the life of the Proud Boys leader

Those kinds of groups and leaders propagating their cause are a cancer to society, so it’s only fair. He should be even more proud to be an American. Other places like North Korea would’ve easily sentenced him to death by public execution for interfering with serious government processes, no questions asked.

I had a profound mystical experience one time, and I happened to be watching people walking down on the street. Both of your questions have merit to them, but exploring them further will bring clarity. Let’s break them down, from the point of view of a mystical experience: Do you think that I have an experience? : There is no “me” and a “you”. A better frame would be Consciousness connecting / being aware of Consciousness. Do you think that I'm just an image of your imagination without real experience? : I am you. But wait… didn’t I just say that there’s no “me” and a “you”? Is that a paradox? Certainly. GOD deceives GOD in order to experience GOD.

There is no such thing as Kentucky Fried Chicken Until you were made aware of it

Being authentic with my suffering has been beautiful. I used to think that suffering was something that needed to go away completely in order for me to be whole, but that’s simply not true at all. That’s actually a deceptive form of avoidance. SUFFERING IS LOVE when seen clearly!

Ah, yes. My finger accidentally got injured a couple weeks ago. The side got sliced by a tiny piece of hard plastic. The healing has been slow, yet watching it daily has been like seeing a child grow and blossom throughout the years - with all the ups and downs and such.

Simple litmus test: If you’re unable to hang out and meet attractive people IRL; instead of seeking those connections, you’re constantly going back to PMO to avoid that, then yeah… make a conscious effort to work on your relationship and communication skills while also reducing your PMO habit.