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I’ve missed out on all of that as well. Instead of trying to fit a square peg into a circular hole, focus on appreciating the square for what it is (you), and discover square holes to fit into.

Before: After:

@Majed right… don’t want to let the shit hit the fan.

*sigh* Time to call in the alien carpet cleaning professionals… again 🙄

Damn… DALL·E 3 is hella clever with the double beak

Physical appearance is not as important as one may assume.

I have severe allergies to peanuts. I have a bias towards not being in anaphylactic shock.

I’ve been repressing my feminine side for a long time. Thank you for the reminder!

Notice how biased your mind can be when it only sees reality through one particular lens. Zooming out and seeing multiple facets of reality with greater clarity allows you to see that nothing is actually happening…. yet simultaneously, reality is expressing itself in intelligent ways to itself and as itself.

Probably a mixture of both. Text can make it more difficult to understand the nuances of communication. It’s truly a miracle when one can read text clearly, beyond the conventional senses.

The best dating advice comes from within. You break the rules you were given to have successful relationships, but with proper context. Follow your intuition; not a script.

Increasing my cannabis even just a little, tiny bit also leads to very different results. The experiences that arise are actually seen as welcoming, despite being really uncomfortable. It’s like being right in the middle of a conflict, and playing a role in it, without actually getting completely lost or identified with it. It shows you aspects of yourself that need to be seriously exposed. You can process it from a higher elevation. This isn’t a piece of cake. Making yourself uncomfortable, without outright traumatizing yourself, yields net growth in your consciousness.

There is a difference between being a victim of abuse and seeing how you are, in fact, abusing yourself. This requires zooming out and seeing what is happening more holistically. Love allows both.

Consciousness can express itself any which way it wants. Even the ways in which you disagree with.

It’ll be recontexualized. A simple/complex example is if you breakup with an abusive partner. You have the courage to let them go and not let them back into your life. This invites healthier relationships to be born.

When you stop bullshitting yourself.

Allow yourself to go through all that shit, and let it go. Literally.

Arguments, separation, depression, hopelessness. This is also Love.

Okay, enough ass-kissing, folks.

Love is never something you lose, as it is not something separate from you. All the pain and suffering we go through is not a punishment. It is a reminder to properly process that pain, and to inevitably let go of it. You are not letting go of yourself. You’re letting go of parts of yourself that no longer are serving you.

@Leo Gura Why did the chicken cross the road?

Notice how your mind creates all conflict. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. Seeing conflict clearly for what it is is the key to letting go of it.

Unconditional love paradoxically requires you to let go of the attachments that you love the most.

Don’t ping Leo Gura! He is currently asleep! 😴 🥱 💤