Yimpa

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  1. Not being in control sounds scary, yet notice how the need for control severely limits your openness to experiencing reality with clarity. It’s actually scarier to keep the door only partially open, as you’ll endlessly keep speculating and assuming what’s right in front of you. So open the gosh darn door and let the light in. Go from “I wonder if…” to wonderment! And if your door is a doorless door, cool. Approach and open that too!
  2. (I like your word, persist. It’s like the opposite of resist.) Here are some of the points I’m working on: stick to my values surround myself with those who share similar and compatible values identify those who don’t, and create appropriate boundaries to minimize their influence experience discomfort with compassion and flexibility for example, if I share a piece of music that I really love, but my closest friends aren’t into it, let it be. Don’t try to convince them to change their minds, or even make adjustments to the song just to make it more appealing to them seek personal guidance from those who’re much more experienced, and foster a healthy relationship with them daily practice with an open and mindful state
  3. @Sugarcoat came up with a fun title: Semi-Awkward Mystic Autistic
  4. One of the biggest traps is trying to explain all of this to your “family”. They’re in the business of maintaining a rigid idea of who they think you are. And you’re trying to convince them otherwise. It’s a never ending cycle, so watch out!
  5. What’s truly scary is convincing yourself that you’re powerless to the dysfunctional circumstances in your life. Getting out of that requires dropping garbage thoughts you’re holding onto in your mind. The rest will follow.
  6. That’s lovely, but please don’t don’t suck on my !
  7. What do Anna Brown and Teal Swan have in common? They’re both artful (and awwful) teachers! Now that I have your attention, here’s a brown teal.
  8. We’re all experiencing insomnia cus of her. Someone call her a sleep doctor!
  9. You realize you’re imagining everything, including your body and physical death and infinite more stuffs.
  10. What does enlightenment have to do with gender and identity? Nothingness at all!
  11. To All Struggling Females: Stop Playing Victim!
  12. Always with consent; conscious communication.
  13. And I’m a unicorn attack helicopter.
  14. Sad, but not so much when you see the broader picture of someone’s evolution.
  15. Neurodiverse folks tend to do things the wrong way. It’s in our jeans,
  16. Think of someone who mastered a video game. Do you really, really think that this person was able to master the game all on their own, or did they also have someone else guiding them and helping them work on their blind spots? Yes, even masters have blind spots, no matter how small they are.
  17. To clarify: The type of people you found attractive 10 years ago can be significantly different compared to now, especially if you’ve done the work to broaden your life experiences and values. This is not merely about age or race, but also personality, life experiences, values…. (wait I’m just talking about myself now lol)