Yimpa

Violence isn’t just physical. Even communication can be violent. Consider nonviolent communication as a way to address these issues more openly. At its core, nonviolent communication is choosing not to engage in dysfunctional behaviors. After all, that’s what you want ended in the first place. Choose not to throw water onto a grease fire. This allows more mature and creative solutions to arise naturally. This is key to addressing complex issues in the long-term.

Love.

Be mindful of your intentions for doing this. Doing it with the intention of looking for a problem is what keeps you stuck in fear. Ideally, your intentions should come from a place of self-discovery; not self-deficiency.

Gotcha. This Leo episode may be useful for you. Contemplate the similarities & differences of body awareness & awareness during social interactions.

On a more serious note, God is in control. Well, God can also be funny as well. Ain’t that fun?!

“I know words, I have the best words.”

I personally see a specific number repeatedly throughout my life when I’m not expecting to. The numbers are 37 and 420. Seeing numbers repeatedly can be fascinating or intrusive. Enjoy it if it’s the former, seek a therapist if it’s the latter.

Listen to these two Weezer songs back-to-back. Notice how Rivers Cuomo (lead singer) went from being tired of chasing women to actively wanting to be with all of them. 1994: 2010:

Consider that everyone is making shit up.

Unconsciousness is possible since Consciousness is Infinite.

Own your uniqueness. Modify how you do things to fit how your brain works. Perhaps you suck when you try to do things the normal / expected way.

The Onion.

Courtesy of DALL·E 3

And there is no rule saying that you have to care, let alone pretend to. You can learn to pretend in a playful way. Socializing is a chore when you take it too seriously.

That is the first time I’ve ever seen wisdom spelled that way. Very clever!

@Thought Art a synergy of both, like a healthy relationship, is ideal

Be careful with stereotyping relationships. Relationships can certainly teach you a lot about yourself, especially when you stop having a rigid idea of what a relationship even is.

Dating is a journey, not a destination.

Remember, there is a difference between following a teacher who is speaking to a broad audience, vs having a teacher guide you one-on-one. In either case, the end goal should be to not depend on the teacher to tell you what to do. You are your greatest teacher. Derive the solutions for yourself through massive experience, trial-and-error, and yes, many failures.

There’s no you to begin with; no you to disappear. Only you exist for eternity, so how could you ever disappear? Both points will be contended for eons in the human domain. Hence, you must come to the direct realization yourself.

It is tricky when you deny yourself God. The paradox is that there is no difference between you and God, despite infinite differences.

You can get to a point where your love surpasses any kind of porn you can find on the internet. No amount of porn can equate to this love I speak of. Why? Because it’s Alien Love.

Handling rejection gracefully is a sign of maturity. Women love testing you implicitly; you being selfish is what pushes her away.

Immaturity is when you stop trusting your intuition. There are different degrees in which you can be in touch with your intuition.

The reason why you keep failing is because you are expecting something out of a relationship. You need to realize that your partner is fundamentally a reflection of you. They’re not someone you own or control.