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Rationalists call it mental masturbation

I would argue it could be interpreted in infinite ways, but in order to not sound like an LG parrot, I will keep my mouth shut ? Fun fact: I have an LG fridge and washing machine. The products are decent, but the customer service is trash.

Not as ridiculous as stating that 1 + 1 = Love

Woah. I’m a newbie at contemplation and exploring how it works (which is what prompted my questions to begin with). When I first read your statement, I was automatically looking for faults in your reasoning, as that’s my bias and programming that I’ve become used to (like you say, based on past experiences). I couldn’t find anything to argue about, so I ignored what you said. But then I gave some space/openness to allow my mind an opportunity to gather new insight and to sit with the discomfort of not knowing. I was able to come back to re-read your statement with a brand new perspective after the short break! Instead of just looking for faults in your reasoning on the second read, I’m now aware/focused on the structure of how you responded! I see that you addressed the “How” and “Why” questions neatly: how: Logic and reason arise from our older beliefs and knowledge from our past experiences. why: So, it is not necessary for everything to function logically to be correct. (I may have messed up which is how and why is why, but you get the point. I’m just seeing it from another perspective, lol… wait, that’s me looking for fault again xD) It’s like we are teaching each other from a logic beyond conventional ways of communicating

Consider that something that seems completely illogical and unreasonable can be extremely intelligent. Ask yourself how or why this could even be a possibility.

Because I love my father. Consider that your love can expand so much so that even the ones that you used to hate can completely turn around. This includes anything that you hate.

Me too! I’m sure my father has autism, but he was not diagnosed as it wasn’t a thing back in his day.

Some of the best wars have happened on this forum, if you’ve been paying attention

I don’t suggest it either, because it’s extremely complex and dependent on the dynamics of the parties involved. It will happen organically.

The end goal is for both sides to come out as the winner. Now that’s an almost impossible feat to accomplish.

I recently joined a group for neurodiverse young adults. I’m neurodiverse, and for a very long time I’ve just been surrounding myself with neurotypical people. Surrounding myself with others who actually think differently like I do has been a game changer. (A quick overview of what neurodiversity is)

Sometimes that process doesn’t look pretty or functional, however (as I mentioned below). Sometimes you have to go through hell, but don’t stay there!

I went to war with my father a few months ago. We both came out stronger and healthier in our relationship after the dust has been settled. If you knew how much suffering we both had to go through, you would never want to even go there. I don’t want to minimize this point. Are you brave enough to go into war, with the intention of not dominating another, but to integrate them towards higher Love?

Science can never capture or grasp Infinity. But its understanding of itself can certainly evolve and expand.

@UnbornTao Haha, I just saw that video 30 mins ago.

I disagree that ego is a problem. It is, however, a serious problem to be pushing away your personal problems and to avoid facing fear. Convincing yourself that ego is a problem is a great recipe for avoiding actual spiritual and personal work.

Do it. I’m going on a date with a phenomenal artist tonight. I have a much greater appreciation for art because of her. I’m sure you will inspire someone as well if you put your all into it!

The problem with abuse is you can be stuck in it without even realizing that you’re in an abuse cycle. You may cope with it via religion, family, friends… basically distracting yourself from the abuse. Or not, as those systems can be core to the abuse. I used to go to a religious school that had a few abusive teachers; I had a few family members and friends who were bullies. A few may not seem like a big deal, but even one abuser can make a huge dent in your life.

What is logic? What is reason?

Oh look, I’m the 100th poster!

He’s also very bald… I mean, bold.

Lmfao. Wazaa!!!!

@vibv Ooo, music! Try speaking to @ivankiss about it, you guys may be able to come up with something great. If I recall correctly, he’s into making metal and wanted to share his music as well.

It’s RAW!!!

@vibv It’s fine to do psychedelics with others in the beginning stages, but if you want to go deeper then you’re going to have to drop that fantasy that you’re proposing.