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The state you’re in (calm vs. chaotic) changes your relationship to the pain, but it doesn’t necessarily stop the pain. You might still feel hurt when Mom misunderstands. However, from a grounded place, you can feel hurt without spiraling into “I’m broken” or “I’m a bad daughter.” The question isn’t really about avoiding topics or timing them better. It’s about: can you stay with yourself while feeling unseen? That’s the work. Family therapy helped me build that capacity. Not so I’d stop hurting, but so I could hurt without losing myself. hurt without losing myself. And advocate what i truly want to communicate rather than what i expect Mom to hear. tl;dr I am discovering what it’s like to not perform for acceptance, but instead speaking from clarity.

i also have a habit of reaching out to Mom when things spiral out of control. i am learning to let go of needing her help and BAM i am able to resolve it all on my own. i realize my own Mind is self-deceiving itself. then i can love and relate to Mom without all the baggage

Oh yeah I introduced this song to Beans and they dislikes this song. I love it tho! Especially on super bass speakers

How do you add one to your forum profile page? Is this a mod-only feature? I’ve only seen @Carl-Richard and @Osaid‘s profiles with one. It’s the banner that goes horizontal.

Eternity is all there is.

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Yay, Mental Illness Awareness!!

AI video coming soon!

DUH!

When the weed hits

If the Buddha and Albert Einstein had a child, it would be ME!

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Oh hey! I don’t know you, but your name is my deadname. And now you’re/I’m resurrected. WOW!

Music made by real people

I invited Mom and Dad to hang out in two days to our home. We are going to eat food and talk about life, yahoo!

All Good

Gifting Christmas presents is conformity

Let the formless do you.