Yimpa

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  1. My lowest is my highest teacher. Of course! No more avoiding the shadow. There is gold there. Most are blind to it. I’m not.
  2. you’ve got the Dalai Lama. beetch , i’m the Drama Llama.
  3. This is a temporary L. Pressing the brake pedal is OK.
  4. i’ve got multiple tools in this toolbox. time to experiment with them all. each tool has a purpose.
  5. The issue has not been resolved sufficiently yet. No amount of being playful about it resolves it at the root. We will discuss this in therapy. K
  6. No one is projecting. I am the projector.
  7. I’m right when i’m wrong.
  8. iReddit and instantly fell back asleep
  9. Love is Infinite Maya It is Ah-Maya-Zing!
  10. Make Tripping Sexy Again MTSA
  11. Scheduling Beans’ ketamine therapy session meow. Planning to hang out in nature the day before.
  12. Tested out a new cannabis strain today. This one has chill and contemplative vibes. I feel more compelled to understand how my mind works rather than ignoring it.
  13. Thank you for clarifying. I misherd you the first time.
  14. Man, I miss Jersey. Born and raised there. Beans, we gotta visit someday and also NYC. Beans has never been outside of Texas!
  15. Nooo… Put me in my place
  16. Me taking too much weed:
  17. The state you’re in (calm vs. chaotic) changes your relationship to the pain, but it doesn’t necessarily stop the pain. You might still feel hurt when Mom misunderstands. However, from a grounded place, you can feel hurt without spiraling into “I’m broken” or “I’m a bad daughter.” The question isn’t really about avoiding topics or timing them better. It’s about: can you stay with yourself while feeling unseen? That’s the work. Family therapy helped me build that capacity. Not so I’d stop hurting, but so I could hurt without losing myself. hurt without losing myself. And advocate what i truly want to communicate rather than what i expect Mom to hear. tl;dr I am discovering what it’s like to not perform for acceptance, but instead speaking from clarity.
  18. i also have a habit of reaching out to Mom when things spiral out of control. i am learning to let go of needing her help and BAM i am able to resolve it all on my own. i realize my own Mind is self-deceiving itself. then i can love and relate to Mom without all the baggage
  19. Oh yeah I introduced this song to Beans and they dislikes this song. I love it tho! Especially on super bass speakers
  20. How do you add one to your forum profile page? Is this a mod-only feature? I’ve only seen @Carl-Richard and @Osaid‘s profiles with one. It’s the banner that goes horizontal.