Basman

Sexual harassment is about more than just sexual frustration but uneven power dynamics. It is much more unsafe when a man flashes a woman than the other way around due to size difference. A woman flashing men openly is asking to get raped. Priest molesting kids is an authority preying on vulnerability. A misogynistic culture is going to take sexual harassment of women less seriously. Raping your wife wasn't considered rape until recently.

I always felt a sense of fate to how our lives play out, as corny as that might sound. Like there is some kind of plan steering your circumstances that you are not quit privy to. Whether or not it's actually true, it feels good and is arguably necessary to have some faith in the process.

I'm in a similar situation in terms of needing to handle survival. I've read every single post and lots of good advice has been shared so far. The need for being realistic about your passion, being willing to make sacrifices, accepting the costs, making a long-term plan, etc. are all things I need to hear, which I'll process over the coming days. I've actually haven't been quit sure of what to do after dropping out of university, so this came at an opportune time. This thread actually made me quiet excited for the potential future, as I feel I finally have some general direction. It made me realize the need for a stronger work ethic. The biggest thing holding me back has been avoiding hard work. I've also felt pessimistic about my ability to live off my passions in my past, but I realize that everyday you can live at least a crappy version of your dream. There's really no excuse. Even if it's only 20% percent of your vision, it is still fulfilling and progressing you towards your desires. Have faith in the warm up as your mind enters flow with the creative process and that you will enjoy it. You have to push yourself a bit. Consistent daily practice will tend to make it easier to break into flow and improve the quality of your work.

The seemingly lack of dialogue is kind of telling. It's a good thing you are aware and independent thinking.

Your therapist sounds reactionary. If anything, you should exhaust that desire. There is nothing inherently wrong with wanting to be loved for your looks and it is good for survival. You'll know if your being overly neurotic about it.

Isn't Joseph Campbell a literary anthropologist? I don't think you should take him too literal.

Capitalist consumerism is actually the first time in human history that the predominant ideology aligns with human nature. Compared to religion, consumerism has been embodied flawlessly from its conception.

I don't buy this doomerism. Your more free than ever for the most part. Society is more fair and opportune for the average person than ever before. In Rome half the population where slaves. Just the fact that you weren't born a slave or even have the opportunity to become one legally is an enormous improvement. Not to mention that wars are at an all time low. If you lived during the middle ages, you'd be going to bed worried that raiders would kill you in your sleep. The conditions of modern life are utopic compared to the conditions of most of human history. Just the fact that as a society we believe in progress is a revolutionary new social technology. For most of human history progress wasn't even a thing. Exploitation isn't inherently evil either. The issue often is a lack of leverage for employees, which is something better policy can improve. But fundamentally, labor exploitation is the alternative to running your own business and most people don't want that responsibility or risk or have that ambition. It's a fundamentally a trade. I think the more important factor for economic exclusion is a shrinking job market. There's just less and less jobs (for employees) due to outsourcing and technological advancement. We'll have to rethink the system as the scales tip on economic exclusion.

I used to be a soy boy about conscription but now I don't think it's a big deal. Most 18 year olds don't have that much going on where a military experience is going to be too disruptive VS gainful in terms of experience.

Conscription is relatively common in Europe. This is just a light version of full consctiption. Denmark also has a lottery system, but even if you get a pull your unlikely to get conscripted since volunteers make up the bulk of the military. A lottery is more fair than conscripting based on whether or not your in college, like they did in the US during the Vietnam war.

Page count: 464 (about 400 excluding notes, etc.) A biological/evolutionary perspective on what humans are as a species. The book makes a relatively brief overview of humans history, covering pre-history, the agricultural revolution, religion and the science, while drawing several general conclusions about human nature based on these four major human revolutions in history, as per outlined in the book. The core concept of shared fictions/imagination and the power of imagination are enlightening and give context to human behavior and the main takeaway from this book if nothing else. It makes several conclusions for how humans, and by extensions society, function at its core, such as the notion that humans are a species that function of shared fictions (intangible constructs that are only real because the populace treats it like real, for example money, the state, religion, etc.), which is one of the major core concepts of the book and if nothing else the main take away in my opinion. It contextualizes human conduct in a materialistic way that that you can appreciate in your own daily life, down to the micro, all the way to the macro. It is however anthropologically shallow, opting rather for a broad overview. You have to be careful with how you apply the ideas of this book to the real world. The concepts of this book can be overly simplistic when you take into account why for example patriarchy has been the norm for human civilizations or why exactly only homo sapiens are the only surviving species of human. More academic texts can give you a more nuanced and rigorous take on specific questions relating to human history and nature, but it is in the broadness where this book shines. It is a challenge to present the entirety of human history within 400 pages. This book is pop-history/science/anthropology, if nothing else by virtue that no academic would make a book like this in the first place. It is something which a lot of people like to criticize it for. Sapiens seems to be popular to hate for supposed many inaccuracies, though I still find this book to be broadly insightful, even if the finer details might be glossed over to a certain extent or it makes specific errors. It contextualizes human activity in real time, which is rare and valuable. I think people are to a certain degree being contrarian, as Harari was heavily praised during his 15 minutes of fame. I find the criticism of Sapiens overblown ultimately. It is not meant to be academic. There are "so many errors", but they never make any specific examples, at least which substantially undermine the conclusions. For example, the conclusion that currency is a solution to the exchange of value which enables commerce isn't undermined if he was wrong about how the Aztecs counted goods using rope. Or if he was wrong about the exact nature of Mesopotamian written language. Nevertheless, this book has been fundamental in my understanding of how humans work and what exactly they are. It is something we tend to take wholly for granted. We tend to not see ourselves as a particular species for one who are the way they are for relative and particular reasons. 8/10

Animals can offer a lot of value besides as food. Like for example sheep/goats are often used to keep grass area clear, like for example for a solar panel farm or for historical monuments that are located on grasslands. I think European farmers dealing with the now resurging wolf population should experiment with guardian dogs for livestock for example. Not to mention the immense value that pollinators provide. We should think more creatively how we can harness animals for distinct purposes. They present solutions that works without the need for expensive machinery that drains resources or technological development. Just needs creativity and understanding of how these creatures work. We already have a past of employing animals to great effect.

What's the ratio like? You go full burger?