Sandhu

Sorry, but it come with loaded bullshit. I seek truth and then harmony. Not the vice versa

@Letho you're a wise man. I can see what you're pointing to. Thanks

I use AI to refine my thoughts and keep my message clear, straight, and easily comprehensible while strictly maintaining my original voice and perspective.English is my second language and vocabulary limits my expression.

I know. But then you live a half life.

I'm 20 yrs old, currently working and earning enough to live comfortably on my own. However, cultural expectations weigh heavily here – as the only son, family responsibilities fall squarely on my shoulders. My elderly father contributes minimally, leaving me to support my mother, sisters, and grandmother. Abandoning them emotionally scars both sides – leaving isn't just about my freedom, it's about ensuring theirs too. Your point resonates deeply: earning enough to support them while living separately might be my path to freedom.

Honestly, surrendering to religious rituals feels like living a lie, even if it's just on the surface. My heart rebels against pretending to believe something I don't – compromise like this would eat away at me, no matter how outwardly peaceful it keeps things with my family.

@QandC exchanging familiar family bonds for authentic selfhood isn't akin to awaiting a exciting weekend date; more like relinquishing lifelong roots for uncertain solo growth

@Letho Thank you for sharing your profound insights. However, I feel your words, though wise, gently miss the mark – my conflict isn't entirely internal illusion vs truth, but a heartbreaking external dilemma: choosing between embracing my authentic self and potentially losing the family I love and owe so much to. Their influence shaped me positively before our ideological rift. Can one still honor truth while navigating beloved family ties, or is separation inevitable? For me, family isn't just a bond – it's a core value that resonates deeply. Leaving them would mean starting life from zero, erasing decades of love, support, and shared history. As important as growth and truth are to my soul, family is equally essential – can these values coexist peacefully, or must one surrender to the other?

I'm trapped between my true self and family ties. Raised in a traditional Pakistani Muslim household, I've intellectually escaped religious ideology but still feel emotionally bound. My family knows I've changed but thinks I'll return to faith – unaware of my inner turmoil. Living with them means living a lie – forced to participate in religious rituals like offering daily prayers, fasting, and observing traditions that suffocate my soul. Every gesture feels like betrayal to my own beliefs, yet outward conformity maintains family harmony. Living this double life exhausts me: outwardly polite, inwardly rebellious. Revealing truth would unleash outrage, fury, and irreversible relationship damage. Yet continuing this facade suffocates me – cognitive dissonance tortures my soul. I'm torn between two unbearable paths: suffer shattered relationships by revealing truth or slowly die inside maintaining this illusion. Desperation whispers: abandon family to save myself. Am I selfish to consider this, or necessary for self-preservation? **Note:** This post was drafted with the assistance of AI to ensure clarity and accuracy of emotions.

I had the same idea. But I never really tried lucid dreaming coz I wasn't sure it'd work and I was afraid that I might freak out. Don't think/worry too much. Try out new things and then see how things go.

Books are not blueprints for success and they can't be. Ultimately whatever results you want to generate. It boils down to your capabilities + opportunity + luck

I've watched his videos and read his articles. Just standard rudamentry advice. Nothing of extraordinary value or deep understanding of things.

Do conscious focused thinking, you will feel becoming more intelligent and effective in an instant. Almost everyone do unconscious thinking. It's difficult but if you can master it. This can be game changer.

Amazing

@Buck Edwards your constantly changing profile pics distract me.