Rafael Thundercat

I know a friend, a woman who keeps declaring that she have a crush for assholes and badboys, but she keep in loops of wanting to tame down them to commit only with her and she cant. And when she push the guy to it he say " I am a free man!!" The guy in this specific situation end up having affait with one of her best friends. In the end people need to compromisse some fantasies if what they want is Happiness. But woman want the whole cake. And there is a reason for it. Delusion, yea, but a suble reason that even they have difficulty to explain themselfs. We all will have all we want one day, and this may be Awakening, or for some, when they die.

sometimes we create very strong intellect as a coping mechanism to not dive deep into our fellings. To avoid where it hurts. The thing is, when a wound is not treated it dont vanish, it pesters. Yes, there are enviroments that are better to our brilhance, but never forgeting that wherever I go, I take myself with me , my guts, body and all the things it carries, included traumas.

And this one is for the Ladies. I personally know one friend, a girl Who are frustrated that she cant get the Guy she ready had some sex to commit with her. I didnt knew what to answer to her what she could do about it, but I think this guy explained all. At least for me, I will not ever commit after the woman show that is worth in the long term and this demands that she have also some game, the commitment game

@Leo Gura speaking of Value, here is a analogy about the Men Woman Stock Market Value. Mating Game is Harsh.

You assume a Who and a time of creation. Who told you that there is a need of a Who, a subject? You project subjectivity because you are a subject. Where your subjectivity came from? Who created your sense of self? Time started with you, do you ever experienced any time that was not your time? Or the time of your life? The question is Who are "You"? Who created "You"? You want answers from others but yoi dont even know how of when or where you created your own sense of being a self

Distinction create this nothing, you created not only this distinction of something and nothing, your sense of self and a sense of another ones, dimentionality, colors, linear time, your storyline, memories and much more. Is a big mesh, almost like you are stuck in the middle of a muddy lake stuck in ball of silky hair, trying to get free from it and the move you move more you get yourself entangled on it. You will not get free by using language and symbols because you are trying to use the second order to understand the first order, the more you think more threads you add to trap youself in yourself. Distinctions all the way down, backstories upon backstories. Focus on your present direct experience free from backstories. But of course, you will just try to do it you probably will not really doing otherwise you would fall in the floor in total existential terror

MOAI – Connected for life https://ikigai-accessories.com/moai-connected-for-life/ excerpt from the link: MOAI – Mo•ai (/mo,eye/) Japan – connected for life . Moai is the name for a lifelong group of friends that look out for one another. MOAI, THE POWER OF DOING things together Elders in Okinawa, Japan, one of the original blue zones longevity hotspots, live extraordinarily better and longer lives than almost anyone else in the world. ‘Moai’ is a concept, from this region where people live much longer, happier and healthier than average. Moai is the name for a lifelong group of friends that share their joys and troubles, a source of support essential to their health and wellbeing. Moai, one of their longevity traditions, are social support groups that start in childhood and extend into the 100s. The term originated hundreds of years ago as a means of a village’s financial support system. Originally, moais were formed to pool the resources of an entire village for projects or public works. If an individual needed capital to buy land or take care of an emergency, the only way was to pool money locally. Today the idea has expanded to become more of a social support network, a cultural tradition for built-in companionship. In small neighborhoods across Okinawa, friends “meet for a common purpose” (sometimes daily and sometimes a couple days a week) to gossip, experience life, and to share advice and even financial assistance when needed. They call these groups their moai. Traditionally, groups of about five young children were paired together and it’s then that they made a commitment to each other for life. As their second family, they would meet regularly with their moai for both work and play and to pool resources. Some moais have lasted over 90 years! Members of the Moai make a monthly contribution to the group which is used for dinners, games, meetings or whatever hobby’s they have in common. Part of the funds are used to support members of the Moai that have financial difficulties. Having such a social safety net helps to prevent loneliness and maintain emotional and financial stability. The feeling of belonging and support gives the individuals a sense of security and helps increase life quality and expectancy.We believe in the power of Moai. Studies reveal that close relationships, more than money or fame, are what keep people happy throughout their lives. Those ties protect people from life’s discontents, help to delay mental and physical decline, and are better predictors of long and happy lives than social class, IQ, or even genes. With everything from losing weight, quitting smoking, exercising, studying, the support of others allows us to stay engaged and achieve more powerful results. Group accountability helps us to show up, and enables us to turn lofty ambitions into consistent routines. We do not have this kind of social life in Europe, but perhaps we can learn from it and look around us at who we might be able to help socially. Because more and more people are lonely and simply need a helping hand in the form of a cosy gathering.

@DreamCryX W hen you say "We have zero control over it, it's not our choice." you are talking about the average man of course, because Conscious men can Control themselfs and make concious choices of who they interact, and be aware to not hurt and use another person. I personaly when I see a woman wants me and I dont have genuine feelings for her I dont advance, I be clear and compassive. We can control ourselfs and not destroy peoples lifes.

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@Carl-Richard Wow, sometimes I think the universe just hear our talks and suggest related topics to disscuss. This video came to me and rigth in the beggining you can see how it relate to the topic of competence and autonomy and belonguin

I always had an Admiration for this Actor. Good video to get some life Wisdom.

This one is very pratic

This guy teach good articulation for relationships

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Here is where we are talking about frying our brains?

Of course they care, but they dont feel you feel persecuted or objectified because of it. I have a circle of woman friends that have no shame to speak their preferences in front of me and yes they like a good ass to grab and some muscles and a well grommed man that smell good etc. Is healty to like healty men. They would be crazy if they would love sick anemic man. Not even I like myself when I am sick, I heal feel better and then I go interact. Well, I love myself when sick but I dont feel some girl is obliged to feel attracted to me, as I also dont feel actracted for the lady with 60 cats in a old house. What the girl complain in the video is being treated as a disposable piece of meat.

Wow, very good.

Universe is mental masturbation. It self plesure itself inside of itself to make more copies of itself to make more copies of itself from macro to micro level ad infinitum because it have no where to go than to itself. You came from yourself and when you dream nigth you meet yourself and wake up and there it is self again and one day you die and you are back to yourself again an again. But in the end you must let go of this circular thougth and engage in life. Even after knowing that is all Mind, or mainly because you undertand that is all mind this is a good reason to engage in life. Whu not engage with yourself?

My grandmother

This section of this Forum is the worst section ever.

Dude do more psycadelics. People think psycadelics activate the whole brain but some studies suggest that actualy it work well because it shut down this useless intelectualization. Even I a moderate dose of mushrooms you would not need or even be able to construct all this house of cards. Existence is all there is, Infinite existence