Rafael Thundercat

I am making a side research on Identity Shift. Because if we notice in ourself and other the truth is that a lot of what we do, or the way we behave is connected to what we belive ourselfs to be and all the baggage connected to it. For example, long ago when I was Indentified to be a Mórmon, many of my behaviors, the stuff I used to buy or care about were totally different than what I do, buy and care today. Today I drink coffee when I want, I drink Vine, Beer sometimes, I dont care about converting people to any ideology not even to the things I belive to be True today. But at same time there a lot of things I want to deconstruct in my present Indentity that are guiding the things I do, the way I speak and the things I care about. I am aware that there are a limit to removing layers of identity because there are parts of me that I dont want and dont need to change. for example I dont want to remove from my identity the fact that I Value good communication, spacial organization, cleaningness, that I can be around smokers, drunk people ect.. This values limits me from some activities? Yes they do. I am not able to be in a Bar full of drunk people, the smell of alcool is disgusting and I like to be around sober people. But there are other aspects that I still want to shift in my Identity. I looked online for some ideias on it and the first thing that came was this article on shortforms from the book "Awaken the giant Within" Tony Robbins style hehe Based on this below : the Core to change is to change the Belief system. Is that accurate or we can go deeper and sharper. Imagine you meet an NPC on a game and you need to make him aware that his whole world view is wrong. He is a clerk on a shop but he is only stuck on that role because he dont know any other way to be, and that by helping him to shift his inner algorithim he could become the very Protaginist of the whole game instead of just a NPC. -«the text below is from this link https://www.shortform.com/blog/identity-shift/ What is an identity shift? How can you successfully change your identity by changing your beliefs? An identity shift is when you choose to change your identity, moving closer to your ideal self. In doing so, you can become the person you want to be and live a better life. If you want to change your identity, it’s a good idea to change your beliefs about yourself first. Identity Shift: Avoid a Crisis If you take actions that conflict with your identity, it can create internal confusion that leads to an identity crisis. Identity crises cause you to feel disoriented, question your beliefs, and fear the pain of the unknown. For example, if you identify as an honest person and then you lie to your spouse, on top of your guilt for lying, you may be in disbelief that you lied because it goes against who you are, and you may start to question whether you truly know yourself. In other cases, identity crises are triggered not by actions you take, but by experiences you have. One common example is the midlife crisis, which results from a struggle to transition from the identity of a young person to that of an aging person. A midlife crisis is usually triggered by something that conflicts with your perceived identity as a young person: You reach a certain age, you notice your body aging, or someone says something to you that they wouldn’t say to a younger person. Anytime you adopt an identity that’s tied to something that changes—such as your age, attractiveness, or job—you’re almost guaranteeing an identity crisis at some point down the road. How to Have an Identity Shift To avoid an identity crisis, if you want to change your behavior, change your identity to fit the behavior you want to maintain. Since your identity comprises your beliefs about yourself, use the strategies we’ve already discussed for changing beliefs to do this. For example, if you want to lose weight and become stronger, you need to shed the identity of an overweight person (and the belief that this is fundamentally who you are) and adopt the belief that you are a healthy person. With your new identity, when someone gives you the choice between a donut and oatmeal, you’ll be less tempted to indulge in the donut because that’s just not who you are—rather, you are someone who values your health and longevity, and the way to support those values is to choose the oatmeal.

I was invited to watch this one on Movie Theater. Is a good one or can I pass? Interesting idea that is 300 years after the War so Apes basically became to Power and seens like they repeat the same as Humans.

Infinite Solopsismic Tetris Game here. Shaking the grounds of Being

The grid model is unascapable but is nice to see it represented like this.

Only to Yourself

All good with making connections, is a gift, some people would love to have this hability, but at same time if things start to get too much is very good to get to the ground and have a good Nervous System Regutation, that is the base to be able to let all flow with ease and embody the insigths.

If the way out of the crazy we see in the world would have a solution we would be out of it very long ago. The main reason for all the Suffering is called Survival, dont need to observe only in Society, go to a Forest and you will see a lot of Suffering too. The same reason is hard to find people who cares about deep Truth. Because Deep Truth undermines the Survival of who opens himself for it, shatters down all fantasies and let one naked facing what is rigth in front of him, in other words, is rigth in front of you rigth now. I am incorrect? Dont you see Truth rigth now? This is my perspective, and I am writing and at same time realizing that I look around and all I see is Truth.

No, mostly Leo content help me to see how full of shit I am about my life. A good friend spell the shit out of you. Some motivation here and there but a lot of Truth callings. Wrong, I dont Worship Leo, I worship this bubble of my Reality, that is full of all I Love and full of Darkness too. Great, go and do it , than you can dance without acting out as enligthned anymore but for Real. Good, the path is slow and steady full of bumps and ups and downs. Watch the traps. By the way, Leo have a episode about it hahahahaha

Hahahahahahahah so good

Means God wants you to go outside and see the Sun and Hear the birds singing

Great @NineHfanbase so, What is God Way? I need to know it so I stop following my Ego drives and Let God to be on the Drive Seat.

I said "You are God too but his a Actualized sort of God" You dont need GuraGod you are your own. So, why botter coming to a Forum write stuff?

Leo dont claim any of that to himself and I also dont. This are all your prejudices. But Leo is better than you for sure.

Lack of Sense of Humor is rampant.

Sound like a deligthfull nigthmare with happyending. Like having your skin being taken out while you are awake, then being out on a pool of lemon juice but in the end you get a new skin and a ticket to Bali. Lol. Who would accept such offer?

Well, you just basicaly told here your whole process with Leo teachings and yourself. All else are assumptions you have about how I relate with Leo Content. For me even previous finding Leo Content I was already super aware that nobody could do the inner work for me, not even a God somewhere. Finding actualize.org just served as a signal for me that all I contemplated previous in life was in alligment with Truth. The things you said to me speak more about what is going on inside of your psyche than mine.

If you wish to find out what God want from you better call Leo, he is God. You are God too but his a Actualized sort of God

The second biggest waste of time is to try helping someone who asked for help but doesn't actually want it. The biggest is to be that person who asked. Do you really want help or do you want attention and validation? Do you really want to help or do you also want attention and validation? How much more time are you willing to waste? Stop wasting time on people who don’t actually want it. Stop wasting time waiting for someone to give you what you don’t want to receive.

Men I am in this affirmoation just playing with the Irony that when I affirm or cognize that " I am the only sentient being in existence and all others that I call physical other are not but instantiations inside my self contructed dream" I at same time I reach this fragments of myself for helping me in my evolutionary process. If I truly reach the Full solopsitic realization the question is " Who for me to offer help?" Who to me for ask help to?" Who for me to interact,celebrate,eat, make love, reproduce etc...etc...? What I want to say is that no matter how you dabble with this topic in the end you must face the Reality of daily mundane life that in fact you feel physcial you feel pain, misery, joy, pleasure, and all that life includes and you will Die with pain or not but as far as you can see around you will Die. And yes, you will Die ALONE, the experience will be full owned by you!! In that moment all the talk will not help and there will be no other to call for help. So way not just enjoy life the way it is ? Call it dream, call it illusion, call it apparent, call it Tao,Oness, Consciousness, Name it , and than Live it. Is that Hard?

I am not arrogant, I will need to go cut my hair very soon and go to the dentist, and no amount of thinking about other being me and me being others or any philosopical arrangement I can do will help me to cut my hair by myself or treat my mouth by myself. I can dream all this up at nigth but here I need to accept I need others very much and derealize them calling them NPC´s or dream characters will not help.

I am the only sentient being in existence and all others that I call physical other are not but instantiations inside my self contructed dream and I cant prove the contrary since I am the only one who is dreaming this since I had awarness of it, and at same time I reach this fragments of myself for helping me in my evolutionary process that are evolving to embrace all of my self including others, but no matter how much I aim to embrace more there will be more to embrace and at same time is already all self embraced since ever because sense of time is also a contruction to give a sense o a personal story going on.

Ok, lets bring the issue to the ground level a bit. Not imaginary abstractions of infinity and all. yes we can go to see a nigth sky and see the imensitude of space and realise it dont limits itself to anything at all, is boundless and include all bounds in it. Sometimes the question for me is not to Imagine what infinity is but to understand on How such Infinity can reduce itself into something finite as for example a Man in a fast-food eating a very greasy burger. I did a image to help. Meditate on this next time you go to eat out. Find the Most horrendous scene of Glutonary and try to realise How can that too, be infinite reduced to form? And of course is moving is a process, since the man eating the burger is not static, all his being is a constant flux of inner operations, all to keep that creature alive. eating, drinking, shiting and doing all he do, infiniti reduced to a life that can go on till a limit of 40,50,70,80 years, well maybe not so long to that guy but still a short time inside infinity.

One may think that is impossible to be Handsome and Lonely. But I will tell you one thing: Once I was trying to atract a women and was all in Vain till one day she told me : I am atracted by ugly men!! Handsome man I despise! So couterintuitively in order to atract her I would need to become more ugly and carelss with my apperance. Maybe Handsome guys suffer the same tragedy of many Super Beautifull woman, of being judged by their looks and having a hard time to be recongnized by other qualities: These comments in the comment section say it all : In my early 20s, I returned to college after I going from 315 pounds to 210 pounds through years of training. I also got a solid tan from my summer job, quality clothes, kept/ built muscle and kept my teeth clean. I earned a reputation as a “hot guy” when I returned to college, but it then became the loneliest time of my life. Guys didn’t laugh at my jokes and it felt like more and more guys were sizing me up or talking shit behind my back. Women who I knew would look away and appear on guard when I was around, and people stopped smiling at me. Oddly enough, more women than I expected would start to look at me with a kind of insecure frown- like I reminded them of some high school crush they couldn’t date. Suddenly, since I hung out with the artistic crowd, I became a kind of target for everyone’s insecurities. Which is weird because I grew up as the funny fat kid with glasses. But imagine if Chris Farley suddenly looked like Chris Hemsworth in Thor- the jokes just don’t work anymore. It was a massive eye opening experience where suddenly I realized that attractive people get judged WAY more than the average person. So @DannyVera, I know EXACTLY what you are talking about

This deserves a episode on its own called : How to Survive a Solopsistic Experience The problem is for Who will you ask for Help in the How to Process and the Integration steps? To Others (Ironic)

@Breakingthewall Made your argument more readable: Limits are impossible, therefore reality is infinite. If reality is infinite, everything that appears in it is infinite, since any fragment of the infinite is in turn infinite. A snot from your nose, or a thought, are infinite. Absolutely everything you see or perceive is infinite, therefore, it is the totality and exists in itself. Everything you do not see, and cannot even imagine, is also infinite and exists as the totality. You are having an experience, therefore, limits are being created. Since you are infinite, the conclusion is obvious that these limits are apparent; they are a form. Therefore, the experience itself is apparent—let's say an illusion. If there is one illusion, there are infinite illusions. Therefore, reality is form and non-form at the same time, since form, even though it is an apparent limitation, is inevitable. Enlightenment is perceiving yourself beyond form, opening yourself to the total reality that is the substance of all that exists and that is the source of your existence as apparent concrete experience and your ultimate nature. The no-form is immutable; if there were any mutation, it would be form, appearance.