Rafael Thundercat

Holy God I was just today thinking that Ego use the power of God to sustain its own games. o mean, Ego unaware of where its capacity comes from. Like, every survival i see people doing and all the survival I do to keep being alive comes from God Intelligence. Because from Where would ego get all its capacity for Deception? than you post this https://www.actualized.org/insights/actualized-quotes-708

@Leo Gura concerning the topic of the train in India where unconscious people brush the trash out of the train. May we remember as well the historical sytemic reasons why this happens. Is not like a whole bunch of people just woke up and decided they would not give a fuck for environment. Even the Train didnt got there by accident. If we forget the force of colonialism into these countries we are forgeting a lot.

Basicaly if I can look into the Mirror and see God there Full blow is Done? I have sit under psychedelic effect in front of the mirror many times. Is not easy. Also had lucid dreamed looking into my own face in a mirror in the dream.

@Leo Gura with Recognition you mean that Realizing God is Remembering, since God need to forget its Godness and Sleepwalk as Human?

A Complete Knowledge Base Of HUMAN 3.0 - Dan Koe https://share.google/Brh9ogkO5wPLdjxVn We always can learn something new from perspectives of other people. I can see thar he made a new systesis combining from other sources but still bringing something new to the system thinking arena.

a great video as follow up of this quote: Actualized Quotes #704 https://www.actualized.org/insights/actualized-quotes-704

This one is for people dont hold illusions that attachment styes are easy to overcome It takes sometimes years to break the cycle

On Consciousness Hallucinating the brain. It is Literally Hallucinating the Very Physicality of the brain. But is weird that one drink a Psycadelic Substance that do crazy effect into this Brain and makes it goes Unhindged.

Some insight about how the nervous system can be addicted in doing more from a space of scarcity and fear of loss. https://lexyflorentina.substack.com/p/the-fear-of-running-out-will-keep?r=4nmlkx&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web&mcp_token=eyJwaWQiOjkyMzIxNCwic2lkIjoxMjEyMzQ1Njk2LCJheCI6IjcxZTIwNDhiZjEzNDcyYWQzYzYwMzdiYzI3MTc1ZWM4IiwidHMiOjE3ODQ5ODY2OTgsImV4cCI6MTc4NzQwNTg5OH0.EsldApS0uEzFqF82suYeqXVNXQER0C58iYERU7xMetY&triedRedirect=true&fbclid=PAVERTVgTRnUZleHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA81NjcwNjczNDMzNTI0MjcAAadirD5tQUhresR6Hv1KUWMgD2eX6SA2qYfNNAa1nIAWjt6e-esIDDdD2OYySg_aem_9lwBB_iPazjv1H5UBpFHdw Instagram from LexyFlorentina, great to follow.

https://www.actualized.org/insights/the-self-deception-of-being-good A video.episode with all nuances of this topic would be great. Every day I see a bit of my Evilness even if I think i am a good person.

Science gets mystical https://www.instagram.com/p/DaxsFWbGOqQ/?igsh=MXI1d3Z2MzNtZ2NwMQ== Indras Net. Wholeness comes from Wholeness

For the anxious attachment ones this one is worth watching. Normaly are the anxious attached ones who will go for self reflection and grow out of the patterns, since avoidants,well they avoid the inner work, they run.

This guy comes up with good points, even more than only attachment theory applied to individuals but some social tendencies that gives context to why it work how it work. @Natasha Tori Maru around the end there is a take on the topic of Love/Respect that you brougth up in the other thread.

Respect you now for me sounds more alligned.

True. I may not be fully Secure but my last relationship that ended recently was for me the proof that sometimes even secure people can lose their shit because they are humans anyway. This is a text I found in my research and I kind of did this process to end it. Not perfectly but the best gracefull way I could. Is hard to see someone sabotage the relationship but for sake of self-worth needing to let the person go. Knowing that she will repeat it again and again. How a secure person ends a relationship with an avoidant. Why secure people leave Secure people don't leave because: the avoidant needed space they struggled with independence they took things personally they need a tactic to pull the avoidant closer They leave when they're noticing that: the same patterns keep repeating their needs aren't being met communication never leads to real change the effort starts coming from only one side The warning signs they start noticing A secure person begins reconsidering the relationship when: promises never lead to real change the hot-and-cold dynamic keeps repeating plans regularly get cancelled emotional availability never actually increases At some point it stops feeling like a rough phase and starts looking like a pattern. What secure people don't do Even when they care deeply, secure people won't: keep having the same conversation over and over beg for basic respect or effort accept promises without real follow-through shrink their needs to keep the relationship going wait indefinitely for someone to become "ready" The decision point Eventually a moment comes where they realize: "I've communicated clearly. I've been patient. I've given this relationship a real chance." But despite all of that, the dynamic hasn't changed. That's when the realization sets in: this is who this person is right now, and that doesn't work for me. How a secure person ends it When a secure person ends the relationship, it usually sounds something like this: "I care about you, but this relationship isn't meeting my needs. I've communicated what I need and things haven't changed, so I'm choosing to move on." There's no dramatic scene, no blame game. Just a clear boundary and the willingness to stand by it. After the breakup After the breakup, a secure person typically: goes no contact to create real space doesn't check their ex's social media doesn't send late-night "I miss you" messages allows themselves to grieve and slowly move forward They don't keep the door half-open in case the other person changes. Why they usually don't come back Secure people rarely return because by the time they leave: they have already communicated their needs several times they have reflected carefully on the decision they trust their judgment they know their needs and boundaries matter they trust that the right relationship exists In most cases, the emotional processing happened before the breakup itself. What the avoidant often loses When a secure person finally walks away, the avoidant often loses someone who: gave them space without creating drama communicated openly and clearly set healthy boundaries instead of controlling them stayed calm and consistent even during conflict And many avoidants only begin to understand the value of that kind of partner much later, once the relationship is already long gone.