Rafael Thundercat

This videos are pure gold. we know that relationships are survival. Yes there is no way to avoid it since we are social animals. So better understand how it works.

And who is making all this happening since there is no subject? Looking objectivity, who,when,why ,how it is all this happening?

Ok, this maybe only one side of the whole story, and of course is survival. But to understanding of macro economy it may bring some insights. Mainly because the game is not ended, maily about Oil.

If you want a woman bragging about you in her groupchat, master one skill: high-level banter. Banter is her biggest kryptonite (especially if she's neurospicy) ok fine, I'll explain.. Most men try to impress her with the obvious: status, money, intensity, deep stares, heavy compliments. That can create interest in the short term, but what actually sticks is the combination of tension and playfulness. Status can be googled. Money can be displayed. Intensity can be faked. Real banter cant. Its live. Its calibrated. And when its rlly good, she feels safe while still being kept on her toes. Banter is what disarms the masculine shell a woman is forced to wear all day. With good banter, you make her snap out of performance and into presence. its a playful back and forth that draws her into a world that requires her to stop overthinking and planning. to even play along with you she must drop into her body bc for banter to be any good it must be embodied not intellectual. she must commit to the bit fully. Its all improv. so in these moments you find a shared rhythm, and create a shared world, with several characters and inside jokes. Its an intimacy between your inner childs and she exhales, "i can relax around him." relaxation is incredibly SEDUCTIVE. bc youre also providing direction youre holding your hand out and telling her "follow my lead, turn off the interview mode and step into my world." this hits deeper than any credential ever will. Neurodivergent people rlly crave and excel at banter bc for some reason their minds refuse to tolerate the dead air of small talk. Their attention isnt wired for social scripts. they want stimulation, novelty, pattern jumping, and play. most dates get stuck in predictable conversation scripts. neurodivergent minds instinctively want to leap sideways. bring unexpected ideas, create a random bit outside of the structure and challenge them to speak from intuition instead of convention. A man who can bring play, spontaneity and lightness to something filled with tension is free. free from performance, free from the pressure to impress. that is erotic. This playful back and forth with you might be the most free she gets to feel all week. once the mind drops its guard, the rest of her tends to soften with it. Most men have no idea how boring they are on dates. stuck overthinking, self-monitoring, and trying to manage her impression of him. The woman across from them is there just waiting for permission to relax and enjoy the exchange. Leadership starts with your own presence. Banter is the most reliable way to do this. Use it everywhere until it becomes more natural, then you'll understand why it changes the entire dynamic.

Actualized Quotes #728 https://share.google/6pkat4tACJ7VHTwNr

Judgment of Conformities are also conformitie. We are here confoming categories of confomities.

Maybe the guys who exploded themselfs for Islam are an example of Loving so much their culture. I would not explode myself for any culture.

No matter what style you look for. One thing is the same: I you relating with someone or some ones. So is great to have fundations Foundations on choice and foundation on the relationship if is supposed to be long term. There is no bypassing on this matters.

I think he is pointing towards the trap of becoming so emeshed into the parts that one keep imagining that some thoughts are coming from part X or Y and not realizing the thoughts may not need any part to rise up in our minds. Sometimes a sense of shame or guilt come up on me and I have no need to question myself if this is my inner child talking or whatever. Sometimes models become compartiments that cut us from acessing the embodied in the moment feeling that would be much more accurate as a feedback of what is acctually going on with us. I see this compartimentalization happening around me when I listen my peers talking. Every thing become intelectualized by the language in voga, like these people that use Astrology to explain everything for example.

As we know there are a lot of models do deal with the inner work. IFS is one of them. This video talks about the nuance using this models. Also, for many guys here,me included, the work of this guy can be a very good go for ego development. Yes, because while you dont realize God what you are going to do? INTEGRATION. with no integration this work becomes very swallow. So check it This guy have a body of work very complete.

Profound Quotes #135 https://share.google/vBuqJkWfYrvILKPhh What this Quote means? I dont get it

@Miguel1 If you would listen the convesations of the Non-Monogamic people around me you would go crazy. Listening them I realise why Monogamy is the rule in the world. Non-Monogamic Retoric is so full of Relativism, Nuances and Ambiguity that sounds like non grounded at all, and a fertile ground for disapointment nd hurt. People like to play around with relationship structures not aware that they are just investing in future headache. My questions for these so called free people is " What happens when a child enter the arena? When the woman get pregnant and there are this little being asking for all sorts of attention? Where all the Polyamory, Non-Monogamic Retoric goes? Do the group organize? Share fairly the duties?

A woman perspective on body count https://www.instagram.com/reel/DbyQ0xij_1i/?igsh=ZHlxaXNjdnB2cW9l&igsi=ZHlxaXNjdnB2cW9l

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