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Everything posted by Israfil
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This is so bad in so many different ways. I think listening to this entire song is impossible.
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Man, analyze the way you speak. You are completely lost in a distorted worldview. You have no experience in relating with other people, yet you feel capacitated to pick and choose the parts of advice that suit your framing. Be more open to the world, man. You're trying to shield yourself from the pain and that's hurting you even more. As I said, if you have the illusion that you must play this bad boy character to achieve what you want, go ahead and do it. Life will teach you through your experiences. Understand the two most important things in my advice: first, you don't know yourself. You haven't developed enough to have the true confidence and presence to attract people to your life. You say "be yourself is horse shit", but you are miles away from understanding what "being yourself" is. And second, if you still refuse to do advice #1 and go ahead and try all the different bullshit people tell you to do on the internet, follow advice from grifters, keep having these daydreams about abusing women, etc. you'll only find yourself more frustrated in the end. The physical act of sex won't do anything to fill the void you're feeling. You will actually be more frustrated, because the hope you placed in "having sex will solve my life" will prove to be the illusion that it is. You're traumatized and misogynistic. Sex won't solve this. You seek the validation you were denied in your youth and you feel entitled to. Unless you face this trauma head-on, no amount of different stimuli, including sex and forum discussions will take you to a place of satisfaction.
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A doctor from Australia just signed the first legal prescription of MDMA to a patient with PTSD resistant to other available treatments. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12990163/MDMA-prescription-psychiatrist.html
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Here in Brazil, I can buy a month's worth of high-quality ground coffee for 6~10 USD. It's one of the best things of my day.
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I had a very strong sugar addiction when I was a teen. I quit cold turkey around 5 years ago. I don't miss it as much. It helps that I love the taste of coffee, so I don't have to put sugar on it. I swapped soda for sparkling water. I eat salty snacks over candies when I want to eat something "bad".
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That is not remotely true.
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If a girl told me that I'd be heavily inclined to think that she is attracted to me.
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Israfil replied to Danioover9000's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Usually in his interviews, the guests speak way more. I usually watch his shorts when I see an interesting topic. -
He's great, especially if you want to traffic people and abuse women.
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Bears have always existed, man. Just chill.
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You can try. But you'll probably humiliate yourself. It can be the last straw to detach yourself from her, or you could succeed and get her back. Who knows? Just, please, try not to harm yourself in this process. Try going out with friends and vent a little bit. Do pottery or gardening. Keep your mind busy and find ways to express the pain you're feeling positively.
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The three traditional paths are: become a fuckboy, become a gym bro, or become an alcoholic. Jokes aside, you wait. You mourn. You allow yourself to feel shitty. You express your pain creatively, and, in time, the pain subsides. The average breakup affects people for three months. You were crazy about the girl. Last time I was like that it took me 18 months to completely get over her. Give yourself time.
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Israfil replied to StarStruck's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I got a crazy visual once while on LSD where every single letter was mirrored, but I could read perfectly fine. It was beautiful. -
Well, it's not about your calorie intake, but how much you can reduce calorie consumption. A car is a calorie-saving machine. It reduces the calories needed to travel significantly. Essentially, money is simply that. A token that gives energy or reduces your energy consumption.
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The fundament of money is calories.
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Doesn't mean she can't perpetuate racism, man.
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Actually racist and xenophobic comment.
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Crack pipe philosophy. More crack pipe philosophy. Richard Dawkins and Jordan Peterson are very overrated in general.
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How many people can openly oppose it?
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And as I said, getting validation from someone you essentially don't care about leaves you resentful. That's why they're abusive. The frustration comes from being with someone and expecting to feel validated, but as they despise the very source of said validation, they cannot obtain it. This frustration and repetition of unconscious patterns eventually leads to anger and that anger is outwardly projected into abuse. That's what I meant when I said you don't have to fix your trauma to have sex with women, but if you don't fix it, the sex won't deeply satisfy you. You'll be in the same mental space, and maybe even demonize sex and women further. It is a recipe for a shitty life.
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You can deal better with the feelings with some knowledge too. The trauma is the root of the feeling. Work on it as hard as you can.
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I hope this is a joke on the background of the pic hahahahaha
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I live in one of them. I know it exists. But people from large cities are as developed as people from the western world. There's not that much of a difference between São Paulo and Buenos Aires to Houston or LA. The US has more money, but people are similarly developed and dare I say, more educated in some matters than north american people.
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It is way harder to have and keep relationships when you're an asshole, man. Every guy I know who is misogynistic very quickly wears through their social circles and ends up alone. I'm advising you a sustainable and satisfactory path. You can try to be the asshole and see where that road takes you. I almost killed myself by doing so, but hey, maybe you're a special case. It doesn't matter if you have the sex you so long yearn for if in the end, you're still as miserable as now. You think you want physical intimacy, what you really want is validation, and that validation will mean nothing if deep inside you resent the person giving it to you. You will unconsciously resent that person and yourself. You will hurt her and hurt yourself, and the backlash of that will be depression. Probably a worse depression than the one you are currently experiencing. I lived through this and see old friends living through it right now. Some patterns are very similar in life. I'm not holding you back from doing pick-up, being a fucked up person, or hating women. I'm the universe warning you that it won't work, and will probably make your situation worse. But hey, part of learning is breaking a few bones. If you're so confident that your worldview is correct and that all you need to do is have sex to stop being miserable, keep looking for it. Life will show you the path you need to learn the lessons you need to learn.
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This is highly debatable. I live in Rio de Janeiro. I constantly meet foreign women. My city is touristic, at the end of the day. European and North American women can be as underdeveloped as women from my country. I find that, although formally educated, 1st world women can be as unconscious as people from my country who never set foot in a university. If you're not in an extremely impoverished or war-torn country, you'll meet, on average, people in the orange/green stage. This is the reality of every major city in Latin America.