Sincerity

Best channel on nutrition advice: Clear, professional and unbiased. I appreciate this guy a lot.

I've read some great essays by Derek Sivers today: I'm a Very Slow Thinker I really liked this article. I think I am kind of a slow thinker, albeit not a very slow one. Lately I've been thinking about telling people more: "I'll get back to you with that; I'll think it over", instead of answering some questions instantly. This applies both to work and to personal life. I realized that if I have more time to think something over, the answer will usually be more resonant with me. A LOT of my thinking is done during walks and my 8 PM meditation/listening to myself sessions. Parenting: Who Is It Really for? Wow. All of his activities with the kid really amazed me. Inspiring stuff. I doubt I'd have the willingness to be a father like that. I should probably not have kids. 🤷‍♂️ Maybe it'll change for me in the future. I guess I'll see. You Don't Have to Be Local This really resonated as well. I'm more of a global type too. And also this: I absolutely love short videos or pictures that very clearly show the essence of some dynamics and ideas, through real life examples.

Funny and insightful: The "importance of the first follower" point was especially interesting to me. I never thought about it, but it made me really appreciate the first guy that joined the dancing. It's courage and non-conformity to be the first one to follow indeed.

Maybe you could rent a room. If I were you, I'd do anything to move out. Yes, you'd have to hustle and sacrifice some comfort, but what option do you have? You live at your father's place. You're not equals with him right now, you're dependent on him. The way to overcome your situation is to become more self-sufficient. Put your anger into action and work towards becoming independent. That is a good use of your anger. In my opinion, it's not about emotional intelligence and forgiveness for you right now - it's about getting off your ass and solving your problem. You can forgive him for who he is and what he did to you later, when you're not dependent on him. That'll be the next move in your relationship with him. But first, gain autonomy. Everything changes when you stop being reliant on your parents.

Are you talking about something like platonic forms? And that these are absolute, in your view?

How old are you? Do you have a job? If not, have you ever had one? Are you studying? Why are you "not allowed"? If you want any sensible advice from anyone, you should elaborate on this. It's crucial.

Paul Graham's essays - p.3 Writing, Briefly I want to write clearer and better. I've been writing some essays/posts in the last days, just for myself. I noticed this week that the idea of being a great writer attracts me.

Here's an interesting essay I read from Paul Graham. https://paulgraham.com/writes.html The argument is that writing is thinking. And since writing is quickly being outsourced to AI, we will soon have a world of writes and write-nots, and little in between. To me, the conclusion is a bit too extreme, but there is definitely some truth to it. The ability to articulate thoughts is very important, and it could indeed be the case that a lot more people lose this muscle compared to today. Some might argue that eg. "The core ideas are mine, so I am still thinking. I just want the AI to put the idea into words for me." I think there's some truth to that as well. But also: this muscle to put thoughts into words is very important, perhaps even crucial to building a solid foundation of understanding. Inputting a core idea as a prompt and then AGREEING with the AI's elaboration of it =/= Actually fleshing out the idea yourself. The first one isn't thinking - it's moreso passivity and consumption of what you resonate with and reposting it. The second one is creating order in the mind; adding bricks to the wall of understanding. I think AI can be used intelligently, in a way that ENHANCES thinking. But most people just want to get things done with as little time and effort as possible, eg. have their idea beautifully developed or just consume something that resonates with them already, but said by "someone else". I guess a distinction could be made here between survival (productivity, getting things done) and pursuit of virtue & actual growth (exerting effort to develop oneself). To be clear: I think it's totally fine to pass on things that don't really grow you to an AI or a person. It's not that we have to do everything ourselves just because it's some kind of growth. Delegation is not inherently bad. But isn't organization of thought one of the things that deeply enrich the mind? And isn't having an enriched mind desirable? Articulation is hard, but it matters. At least to me. So let's not forgo it.

My forum signatures ✍️ If I remember correctly, I've only used 2 signatures on the forum for a considerable amount of time. I can't remember where I got this one from, but I love it. So powerful. This one I came up with myself. I think it's very direct. I appreciate its simplicity. I like both of these quotes so much.

Paul Graham's essays - p.2 How to Do Great Work cont. This last one hit me hard. I always excelled at school/college because I understood what to do, how to "game" the system. At least that's how I see it. Maybe I'm just intelligent. This whole essay is so good I'll literally go to a print shop to have a paper copy of it. Again, absolute goldmine. What You'll Wish You'd Known Having Kids The Top Idea in Your Mind

That's cool! Looking forward to reading it.

Hooooly shit, the channel posting Bashar videos that I've been watching was terminated. 😂 Well, it was fun while it lasted!

I've read some great short articles from Andrew Bosworth. I like his simplicity in writing. Honesty is the Best Policy Two Things Can Be True The Gift of Naïveté

Amazing essay by Paul Graham: How to Do Great Work. An absolute goldmine - if you had insights from this essay integrated, you'd be a genuine PROFESSIONAL in life. There's an AI text-to-speech for the lazy ones:

By „initiated by me” I meant I’m the one breaking up. I realized this could be interpreted differently. @Elliott It’s okay.