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Ok, I think I know the answer but I won’t share hahaha.

Ok, so the planets are living and conscious, and their energy is affecting us. How do we know how each planet affects us? How do we know that they are predictable? How do we know that one planet affects a specific aspect of our lives and not another planet? Astrology maps are very detailed, where does this information come from?

It’s a mystery to me. How can physical planets affect human affairs and personalities? Why would they care? On the other hand, what if they are not just physical planets, what if they are more than that?

I like it. A good scientist is a mystic. When I think about it, being a mystic is a superpower in any field, art, politics, psychology, literature, mathematics, etc. @Leo Gura I am happy to see posts about aliens. I would love it if you shared more about the societies of the advanced ones, what their relationship is to spirituality, truth, beauty, love, intelligence, life, death, war, survival and suffering, and how you think these integrate into their societies. Every insight you may have about the way they perceive reality and think would be appreciated. Being at the human-mystic, Jesus-like spiritual level may be something that the children/adolescents of advanced ETs already master. While we are stuck worshiping the Jesus’s in the world and literally misinterpreting what they taught by creating a religion, instead of becoming mystics ourselves. Just a thought.

I see. I agree.

I don’t know, it may vary, but I guess it is okay to have high standards if the person is willing to offer the same value to others.

You talked about regular guys being so desperate for women’s attention that they would date a woman who is in such a low state in her life, like being a drug addict. Which is BS, because they have standards, and many times very high standards for women, but they complaim about women having standards for men too and play the victim for that. This is actually a double standard.

I know the answer. I just wanted you to admit that women don’t have it easier, but you insist that men are the ultimate victims just because they can’t get casual sex. The sad truth is that there are plenty of women who are invisible to men, and if they ever get partnered, it is very likely to be an abusive relationship. Many women in weak and vulnerable positions in life, like being traumatized and drug addicted, attract abusive men who many times also end up killing them.

She is desperate, like the guys you mentioned. She would accept any guy who gives her attention, with the hope that he would fulfill her need for unconditional fatherly love. Assuming these guys are looking for motherly love, they are also willing to offer the same to women, right? What would be the rate of her romantic success with regular guys?

She wants first and for-most love, fatherly love. Same like those guys you have mentioned want with the motherly love, she want them to accept her as she is, without needing to perform. Sex is included but has to be not selfish sex (like-most men offer). What are her chances? Be realistic.

Hypothetically, if there is a drug-addicted woman with tons of trauma, she is slightly overweight, she was just released from prison for stealing, and she also has 1 broken tooth from a fight there, she has basic hygiene (like brushing her teeth, washing her hair, wearing clean clothes, brushing her hair) but nothing more. She has had the same clothes for 10 years and no money to buy new ones because she’s broke and a drug addict. But she is nice and polite person overall. If she uploads her picture to Instagram or any dating website, how many DMs from men who would treat her like a princess should she expect?

I see. But they also have standards, don’t they? They want women who put some work into themselves, who are aesthetically pleasing, who are kind and emotionally available. They don’t want women who neglect themselves, are addicted to alcohol and cigarettes, or have some emotional trauma. They want motherly love, but do they offer fatherly love to women? Do they accept women as they are?

Yes, but aren’t regular guys’ standards for women too high? Especially when it comes to appearance? And what do you mean by crumbs? What type of women would a regular guy consider as crumbs?

Do you think that men receive platonic attention from women? This is interesting, because while men often crave sexual attention from women, women tend to crave platonic attention. Many women feel disrespected and ignored by men unless these men find them sexually attractive or available.

Yes, that’s important to mention. Thank you for the clarification.

Hahaha

Many times, especially in more conservative countries, the women who hold power in society tend to be the ones who internalize masculine and patriarchal values. They see themselves almost like men with different genitalia. They are emotionally detached from their femininity, womanhood, and other women. They even may see themselves as superior to other women, not all of them, but I believe this is a large portion. They usually don’t try to shake the boat. There are women in positions of power who intend to shake the boat, but there are not enough of them. They are still expected to conform in order to hold these positions, depending on the country. I agree that restricting social media access under 16 is a great move in Australia! Australia is a developed country with almost 50% of women in the government, which gives women more power to make decisions, but countries like Australia are the exception rather than the rule.

I actually do accept that there is toxicity among feminists; I certainly don’t deny it. There is a worldwide increase in narcissism, and it doesn’t skip women who are identified as feminists. Narcissistic women tend to justify their immoral and dysfunctional behavior in their relationships, workplaces, and motherhood with feminist arguments, while they actually have no compassion or real concern about women’s and feminist issues, and only use them when it serves them. This, of course, hurts the legitimacy of the fight for women’s rights, because when anti-feminists want to discredit feminism, they use those narcissistic feminist women as the example. They never refer to feminist literature, for example, or to real feminist discussions. But I also think that many things feminist women say are misunderstood and taken out of context. For example, let’s take the sentence, “incredible men are just average women.” This can be easily seen as misandry or female supremacy, because it implies that men are inherently broken in comparison to women. But what if it was taken out of context? I believe that the original discussion is about men being praised and seen as exceptional for doing standard things that women do without being praised as exceptional. For example, emotional labor and caretaking, parenthood, and house labor. Women are expected to do these things, and no one sees them as doing something special or exceptional, while men are praised for it. But again, this is my assumption, because I don’t know the source of this claim.

@CARDOZZO I don’t know about cyborgs, so I will not talk about it. My intuition says that this is just a distraction from the real issue, but again, I need to study this more. And yes, I am aware that what I am talking about is something that is more advanced and will not happen soon.

All humans from all races are still very genetically close. They are more similar than different. Even if there are some genetic differences, they are small and irrelevant and do not mean that one race is superior to another. We can accept the differences of each group of people without categorizing them into some artificial hierarchy of power. We can accept the biological differences between men and women without discriminating against each other. Yes, I am probably idealistic and I expect too much from society, but I think that this is possible in the future. Regarding the distribution of material resources, it is not a problem, because there is no scarcity.

By getting along with women, do you mean romantically? What about platonic relationships with women? Do incels and red pillers exist because of women? What can women do now to make them not exist? Men in power influence younger men and dictate masculinity. Young men admire men in power and look up to them, even if they misleading them, which is mostly the case.

Exactly.

No, this is not what I said. The first victims of white supremacy culture were white people, their indigenous religions, which connected them to nature and their humanity, were erased in favor of becoming white. Then they imposed it on the rest of the world. If white people are aware of the way their attachment to white culture is hurting them snd disconnects them from their humanity, and hurting the rest of the world, we can start to heal and create a better world in which everybody would benefit. (more about the deconstruction of whiteness: https://christianortiz.substack.com/p/you-werent-born-white-you-were-made ) Same with patriarchy. In order to become a patriarch, a man has to erase part of himself, his femininity, even though it makes him whole, complete, and happy, he traded it for dominance and control. And now he is miserable. No amount of money or power will fill the hole.

I don’t have suicidal ideation, I have too strong an attachment to life, but I can understand why people choose it, especially when I feel at my lowest. I love listening to this video, and I believe it can be helpful to people with suicidal ideation. There are some good arguments there.

Clarice Lispector: https://miscelana.com/2025/07/12/clarice-always-her/