Lila9

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  1. Yes. Given the fact that women globally work twice as much as men and earn half of what men earn, using what you have as a young, beautiful woman as an opportunity to improve your survival situation is very rational. It is also amusing that privileged men who have never been in their position criticize these women’s character rather than criticizing the society that set the conditions for it to begin with. And then those women are seen as the predators who are scamming poor men, rather than the true victims of the system they really are. Men can do better. Young men should be held accountable for their lustful behavior and develop some character instead of consuming content that exploits the vulnerable position of women in society.
  2. It depends on SD. The foundation of a nation-state is Blue, and people in Blue are often the patriots willing to die for the state. Orange is too individualistic for that, and Green doesn’t understand what the point of wars is to begin with or why humans can’t just be one big family. The reality is that borders require sacrifice in blood to protect the inhabitants of the territory, with its collective identity and shared culture and values, from other hostile cultures. This is an inconvenient truth, but someone has to do this labor until humanity is more developed.
  3. Trauma survivors, especially those who have done inner work, are like a phoenix rising from the ashes.
  4. I think that people, especially conservatives, but not only, confuse sex with gender. Sex is a biological fact, there are literal physical and hormonal differences between males and females. It is mostly pretty obvious who is a male and who is a female. Gender, man or woman, on the other hand, is a social construct. It is a role, a persona, a performance. The characteristics of the role depend on the society. Women and men are not born women and men, they learn it, they are socialized into it. If we talk about masculine and feminine energy, both sexes have both. Every individual has its unique combination and balance of feminine and masculine energy.
  5. This is indeed legendary.
  6. In my opinion, depression in this modern, stressful, meaningless, and nihilistic society arises because it is not aligned with our emotional, psychological, and spiritual needs as human beings. It is something most people experience at least once in their life. I think depression is a normal, rational, and healthy reaction to this type of society. When society is sick, it is natural to feel depressed and anxious. This is not a personal failure but a systemic issue. The scary people are those who can live in this dead environment without feeling depressed or anxious, probably because they delude themselves, cope in some way, or due to genetic factors. Delusion in particular can be a great help in surviving such an environment. Narcissistic people are very good at it. However, not everyone can delude themselves to that extent. The most depressed people are usually the most realistic ones. I think that if society were more ritualistic, valued play as much as work, and embraced more feminine qualities, people would be less depressed. Highly intelligent people are often socially isolated and misunderstood, which can contribute to depression. But I don’t think high intelligence alone causes it. Anyone can become depressed if their basic needs aren’t met, humans and animals alike. In my opinion, the best cure for depression (besides sleep, exercise, nutrition, etc.) is to find ways to meet the psychological, emotional and spiritual needs that the system fails to provide.
  7. Yes, I live in the north. Thanks for the advice, I’ll give it a try. I like tea 😊
  8. What if from an NHI perspective you understand Love as much as this orangutan understands what he is doing 😊
  9. From my observation and study of my dreams, I see them broadly as portals to information/inspiration. I try not to dismiss them and write down every dream, because it may contain something valuable, no matter how silly it seems. Different dreams carry different kinds of information. Some are simply the “junk” of the subconscious, parts of our psyche we are mostly unaware of which can be valuable, especially for shadow work. They can reveal repressed feelings, needs, desires, and even fears that appear as nightmares. Sometimes dreams place us in situations where we must make decisions or solve problems related to real life, as the subconscious never rests. Some dreams seem to predict future events. From personal experience and stories of others, these dreams usually occur shortly before the event and are relatively rare. Some dreams are messages from the deceased. People often dream of loved ones within a year of their passing, and these dreams can feel especially vivid and real. Some dreams feel like spontaneous out-of-body or astral experiences in other dimensions of reality. In these people may encounter unusual beings or entities (NHI). These dreams often feel extremely detailed and vivid, almost indistinguishable from physical reality, and may carry spiritual messages. They can resemble a DMT-like experience. There are also lucid dreams, which are less about receiving information and more about consciously influencing the dream. This requires practice, as it’s easy to forget that you are dreaming. Other dreams unfold like well-crafted stories in entirely different realities, almost like watching a movie. Some dreams are more literal, though most are symbolic. Understanding dream symbolism both collective and personal can be helpful in interapting them. This is why in my opinion it’s important to track dreams. it helps reveal patterns and recurring themes and is a powerful tool for self-understanding... perhaps the best one. Dreams in general remain a mysterious phenomenon. What your personal dreams are like?
  10. All good, as long as no one plays Light Yagami. Sometimes people don’t know how to handle God realization without it becoming an ego thing. It’s never about identity or dominance or control over others, it’s a deeply internal and private process. Once one “finds the Death Note” (metaphorically) and “see the Shinigami’s face” they don’t go around harming people just because they can or because they are bored. They observe.
  11. Yes, the judiciary is unlikely to approve it. Some days there are four or five a day, and other days there are none. On average it’s one to two per day. I suppose it’s more frequent in your area?
  12. There was already a death penalty carried out against a Nazi in Israel, his name was Adolf Eichmann.
  13. The pup 😍 I'm genuinely tried of waking up to alerts in the middle of the night with cortisol levels of 9000000. How are you? What do you think about the recent law passed in the Knesset today?
  14. I'm an INFP 4w5 too (also called the Bohemian). I haven’t been diagnosed with ADD, but I do have a problem with focus. For me I personally find that it’s best to consume as few substances as possible. I do drink coffee in the morning though. It helps me start the day more focused and be more organized at work. I can’t work more than five hours, because after that my brain becomes like glue. Some days I really struggle to work because of boredom, mood, etc. I think this is just part of being an INFP 4w5. It requires a different strategy from other personality types. We need a structure, but it has to be flexible and non-rigid, with breaks, based more on devotion (to meaning, beauty, art, truth, or whatever we value) rather than robotic discipline, and include small rituals to ground us in reality/body.
  15. It seems that due to some ideological reasons you view Israelis and Jews as purely evil, rather than as humans trying to survive in a complex reality. You don’t see Chinese people the same way, even though atrocities are committed by their government (an actual genocide). At this point, nothing Israelis do will satisfy you unless they cease to exist.
  16. CNN and BBC spread lots of misinformation, and there were multiple times when they said something wrong that painted Israel in a negative light, which later turned out to be false, as admitted by themselves. So Israelis don’t trust those channels because of their obvious bias and perceive them as untrustworthy. On the other hand, the local channels they do trust also have bias, which leaves people very confused and misinformed, even on social media. There is one post showing destroyed buildings in Gaza and another post showing well-fed and well-dressed Gazans opening a new restaurant or waiting to purchase new iPhones. Additionally, even if some Israelis are aware of it, the average Israeli is too busy, traumatized, and immersed in survival to do anything. People criticize Israelis for allowing Gaza to be destroyed, but in the same way Americans can’t control their government’s actions, even if they resist and protest, Israelis can’t control it either. Also, Hamas started the war on Israel without any preparation to protect Palestinian civilian lives. If you start a war, the reasonable thing is to make sure civilians are protected. Hamas (and Iran) literally spent so much time and resources building tunnels for Hamas and deliberately placing their weapons in vulnerable places like family homes, hospitals and schools. They could have built civilian bunkers and shelters instead, hidden their weapons elsewhere far from civilians, have their troops further from civilians etc. They could do so many safety measures to reduce the risk of killing civilians but they didn't. They knew what they were doing and did it anyway, so they are not innocent and clearly bear a significant part of the responsibility for the destruction and the loss of innocent lives in Gaza.
  17. My point is not that opposing genocide automatically makes someone antisemitic. People are allowed to criticize Israel, Netanyahu, and its actions. I agree that Israelis don’t fully know what’s happening in Gaza, partly due to media and political framing that creates distance and emphasizes real security threats. This also makes it hard to accept that Israeli actions have caused civilian deaths, even unintentionally. Especially after the October 7 attacks and ongoing threats from Iran and its allies. However, when parts of the Western far left condemn Israel while justifying the October 7 masccare (targeting civilians), ignoring other global atrocities, and promoting slogans like a “global intifada” (which basically means genocide) it raises questions about consistency. This rhetoric can feel deeply threatening to Israelis and Jews, for whom “intifada” is associated with real violence and trauma. So the concerns of antisemitism are valid. If genocide and human rights violations are wrong, they should be opposed consistently, everywhere, and by everyone, not selectively or for ideological reasons.
  18. Is it anti-genocidal when non-Jews commit genocide (Sudan, Myanmar, Ethiopia, China, Congo)? Oddly enough they are very quiet about it.
  19. I appreciate your nuanced and critical thinking. It is weird that people paint it as absolute evil vs. absolute good. There is a mob on the far right and on the far left that is heavily brainwashed by the algorithm and various antisemitic conspiracy theories. This is a lost case.