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Lol you sound like my old housemate, unless she had problems he wasn't interested as he loved drama and the crazy sex that resulted from those turbulent emotions one of his exes said she was going to torch our house. I'm thinking i don't need this shit in my life ??. You'll be much less stressed with a level headed girl

@intotheblack They just go back to normal,no distress.

I know some farms near me kill the bull calves instantly as it costs more to rear them then they would make at market selling them at age. I grew up on a farm and i remember when u took a calf of its mother,the heifer would bawl for its calf for about 5 days come wandering round the yard during the middle of the night. That's like snatching a woman's baby off her in the street, cows soon forget though

@Leo Gura that seems incredibly anti spiritual behaving like that, being an arsehole isnt authentic to me

You can avoid this by avoiding women that play all the guys off against each other, you know exactly the ones im talking about

chatting to your coworkers is social practice

@knakoo Theres plenty of cute single girls at my workplace which is a common place people meet their partner. I don't like the term cold approach as its just forced, if u are somewhere where you're waiting or in a relaxed environment and and you strike up a conversation thats not forced. I'm waiting for someone to complain on here they got charged with public harassment for trying to do day approach. Thats why Leo needs his disclaimer.

@knakoo I dont think i would like it if strangers were bothering me in public if I wasn't in a situation where a natural conversation would arise. If a woman was pestering me for phone numbers etc I would think she was trying to tag team pickpocket/ rob me with a friend. Once someone was standing to close to me at a atm machine and later on down the street someone bumped into me, I hadn't realised they swiped my debit card , the person at the machine had organised this, with her friend to read my pin then get the other one to bump into me. Luckily though the atm machine wouldn't let them use it and swallowed the card up as they tried to withdraw £200.

I think day game is ridiculous socialisation happens when you dont try to make it happen, you could meet someone anywhere but the conversation has to happen naturally

Relationships to an enlightened person would be weird, you'd be thinking why is it arguing with itself

@Axiomatic wow these social games are mad, Buddha probably got sick of all this at the palace

I wouldn't say any of mine have been long term , but I know when to quit when things are not flowing. The great Tao does not struggle

I don't hate relationships, just how everyones dependency on them are lame. I know people from both sexes swing from relationship to relationship like a monkey on a branch. I just feel maintaining it , is that much effort then you're draining your life energy or your naturalness you could say

@Axiomatic just sharing our honest experiences

I have a few quiet ,sweet , women interested in me at work that the 'alpha males' find boring and they are more to my liking being a bit quieter myself. Most people don't seem to have happy relationships though; I remember at university my housemates would spend HOURS on the phone trying to work through issues, I wouldn't waste such time myself, I'd sort it out in person. I just remembered thinking god if this what a relationship takes then I can't be arsed. Its no wonder sex work exists

If I have to be a monster to keep a woman then I'd rather be single and dedicate my life to more spiritual purposes, being a brute is just disgusting to me.

Everything about ego is just annoying me, its all the social obligations I have to perform towards family, friends, coworkers. All the stupid meaningless small talk " how are you" "shit weather we're having" "hows the wife". enlightenment teachers say you cant surrender to truth voluntarily it comes when you are fed up of life and are no longer attached to it. I can't be arsed with a relationship I saw how miserable it made my friends who were constantly on the phone arguing with their partners, noone is happy yet they can't stand to be alone. Everyone just seems so fake and it annoys me its like who are you kidding with your fake politeness and pleasantries, the schmoozing , the roles they play, their rules. All of its just bullshit and I hate that I have to partake in it when its all a lie like any of it matters.

Yes I've seen Adyashanti too

I still have my family around and a job, If i spend more time with people though than is necessary I just feel like im just stuck in a stupid game

@Gesundheit I'm just not getting anything out of socialising , its not making me happy because no one is acting real,

its more than that peoples social games are annoying because of how fake it is, how can people stand bullshitting themselves?

@Yali if everyone had bitcoin it would be worthless , anyway it's set to crash soon , so you'd better cash out

Beats them living off welfare and being a burden , i think the government are secretly praying that covid kills all the old people off as social care makes up the biggest gov expenditure

Enlightenment is very simple, you don't exist the end, thats the truth. NOTHING HAS TO BE DONE, you cannot achieve anything beyond yourself, you're already it. I use to say I'll work towards enlightenment when I've mastered 'x' in myself. That is the ego trying to keep itself alive, you cannot be anything other than you because you are god and nothing is wrong, sure you can practice to get better at things, but you don't need to change who you are. You are already God you are Perfect. 5 MEO has revealed to me you do not exist thats the truth.