UpperMaster

I can be wrong but I want to voice my opinion on this. Generally speaking I don't understand or can't even imagine red-pillers even being massively successful with women. Like RSD people have a pretty okay rep on this forum for PUA skills, but I remember watching a course years agp and Julien was trying to get a girl home and so just started asking her several times to just bounce with him somewhere even when she didn't seem interested. Like that just doesn't seem like game.

I would be lying if I said that I did a deep search into the truth when it comes to evo science dating claims, but the video I shared covers many of the popular claims made by red pill. I remember watching it and being genuinely surprised by how ridiculous some claims are. In the video the youtuber covers studies ofc. Its a long video, but if you do watch it, let me know generally how you feel. I don't even want to have a big debate on this, I am just generally curious on whether theres anything she says that you strongly disagree with and why. Maybe this video on debunking the manosphere. Also books like the manipulated man (which I haven't fully read but I've read the summary), like I am sure many women in the past have weaponized their position in the relationship and extracted value, but to make the assertion that women had the upper hand in the relationship to me seems insane considering intermarital rape, domestic abuse among other things. At some point women couldn't even go to the hospital without a man. Obviously men suffered aswell, like yes men did more dangerous jobs and went to war but women did too. Raising 3 children is NOT easy, house work is NOT easy, especially in the past when we didn't have the machines of today. Its not like they were js sitting around. I asked my grand-mother about her experience back in the day, and man she barley had a choice in anything, especially in early life.

How do you know if any of the evolutionary psychology things you read is even true? I remember watching a video debunking popular evo psych claims made by popular academics (a lot of which has to do with women and dating).

I mean yea thats what I am doing. I'm gonna try to go through a lot of the recommended study. But yea I was just curious to how important it is.

I going through the core concepts part of the course. There are book and documentary recommendations. Should I watch them all? Its quiet a lot of extra material, thats why I am asking. I'm ready to do it if it's necessary.

Thank you for this response. I really appreciate it.

This is exactly why I'm asking. Getting into a relationship can come with a opportunity cost. Of course, it depends on the situation. I started this thread to figure out how big of an opportunity cost there is. Is it even worth taking into account. To have an amazing relationship with a wonderful and beautiful girl that loves me just as much. also ps. Personally when I get into a relationship in my mind its forever..idk if thats a good mindset to have, but I'm just generally a more serious guy. So idk if I can get into a relationship just to farm relationship experience, like the intention would be to stay with her.

Let's say you start doing cold-approach, get a couple of lays, you meet a girl and theres a connection. Should you get into a relationship, or keep focusing on approaching and building that skillset? Whats your experience?

@Leo Gura How much do you agree with Mark Manson?

Watching this right now..

What does that mean, you liked Oddysey? I lowkey liked Oppenheimer more I think

What movies would you regard has good if Oppenheimer and Oddesey is so bad? I feel like you guys are hating js to hate smh. The technically great aspects is what makes the experience amazing. Like yes I agree, the story is generic, but the way it is shown makes all the difference, watching in the theatre is such a thrill. He always uses this technique where he reveals the story somewhat unchronologically, which is great because the more your into the film the more you can appreciate the story, and if your more in the beginning of the film your so focused on figuring out whats going on that its a thrill of its own.

@Leo Gura @Vynce nuh uh, his films are great. glued to the screen for 3 hours.

@Schizophonia lmao bro I know it is so based. Now I have to live up to my pfp and actually give value in the forum.

@Elliott Thanks bro