mr_engineer

So, 'authentic' is not 'nice'. Meaning, your definition of 'authentic', is being an asshole. It's just a matter of what type of asshole you are, right?! Right here, your opinion stops mattering to me, because I want a woman to love me, not just settle for me because she thinks she can manipulate me. And, I'm not talking about 'romance' or 'sex'. I'm talking about 'love'. And, I've had a lot of women be loving towards me and be receptive to my love for them. And, I will not say anything about my sex-life out of respect for my partners. Consider the possibility that I have bigger considerations than this petty dick-measuring game of yours, in which we tell each other how much sex we've had. I have nothing to prove to you. I just won't let you come to me and tell me that 'If you say you're a nice guy, you're not'. Just like I won't let you come in and tell me 'If you say you lift 40 pound dumb-bells, you're not doing that'. What you don't get to do is to call me a liar.

Well, the calculation-mistakes are right in front of you. If your solution is to discredit me instead of looking at your own logic, that's not intellectually honest. And, you don't know how many sexual partners I've had, how many 'equations' I've completed. I'm just choosing to not tell you that. Because I don't believe in dick-measuring. If that's what you're doing here, should I expect intellectual honesty from you?!

I thought that if I assert a moral high ground when I say that I'm a nice guy, that would come across as authentic. But, I guess yall are hell-bent on proving that 'NO! You aren't nice! You can't be nice!!' Oh, so when they attack your frame, instead of defending and reaffirming your frame, you let it collapse?! More like a kid sitting in a math class pointing out a major calculation mistake on the blackboard and not just drinking in wrong information.

How much of your money have I taken for my advice?! It's just an opinion. Take it or leave it. Without me answering this question of 'how many partners', they're not my 'conquests'. As I said, what I do with my genitals is none of your business. I'm not a dating-coach. I don't feel the need to prove my credibility by your rules. Especially these rules of seeing women as 'conquests to be won'. I'm just the little kid pointing at the existing dating-coaches saying 'The Emperor has no clothes!'

I didn't answer the question because it was irrelevant to the topic at hand. You know what?! Fine. I've had 5 sexual relationships. You happy now?! Big fucking deal. What I do with my genitals is none of your business. And if this number matters so much to you, I'd ask myself why. I'm not going to sit here and dick-measure with you here, we're trying to learn about women together. And I respect my partners more than to declare them as trophies to random guys on the internet.

Correction - it's inauthentic for YOU to call yourself a nice guy. If this is your first question to me when I state obvious and undeniable facts, you're thinking with your dick. So, you're the asshole in this equation! A better question would be - have you found women who have high enough self-worth to receive your love?

So, if you feel love in your heart for women and you act nicely towards them out of that love, that's inauthentic?! There are women who have the self-worth and receptivity for genuine love. The women you're talking about have a modus operandi of manipulation in relationships. It's easier to manipulate an asshole who's a boyfriend than an asshole who's a friend, so they date the asshole. And it's easier to manipulate a nice guy in the friendzone than a nice guy who's a boyfriend. So, they friendzone the nice guy and they date the asshole. If you're the nice guy in this situation, the solution is not to 'be more of an asshole'. The solution is to see red-flags in women you pick. And, to ignore the conditioning that tells you that 'you're really an asshole in disguise'. It's coming from low-quality manipulative women with self-worth issues.

So, if you have options with women, you can't be nice? Is that what you're saying?

Yupp. And then, when I say that 'we have to search long and hard for a credible female perspective on what women want, most women lie', they say 'You're MiSoGyNiStIc'.

Or maybe you don't believe you deserve a nice guy.

Yeah, you know what 'toxic masculinity' is. You know the illusions of your head better than I do. What's there to debate about that?! Yupp. You think geniuses are toxic.

The unironic usage of the word 'toxic masculinity' means that you think 'masculinity is toxic', i.e. you hate men.

This is a self-improvement forum and people nitpick here. So, if I had a good time, of course, I'm not going to come on here and say that! It's a male-dominated forum. If there were more women, there would be more posts. Oh, there is a point. It's to save ourselves from women who will falsely accuse us for hitting on them. It's important to recognize why women do that. Spoken like someone who hates men.

All of you who are laughing at nice guys, who have disowned your niceness when women said they don't like nice guys, all of you failed this shit-test. This will be the reason you will fail to find love. So, joke's on you. At its core, masculinity is about giving. It's about being a loving human being, about providing and protecting, about being a nice person. Now culturally, we have twisted 'masculinity' and we think that it's about achievement, when it's not. If it were, Andrew Tate would actually be masculine. And, women also have it twisted, in that their idea of 'masculine traits' is kinda shallow. So, when they say that 'they don't like nice guys', there is only one reason for this - they have low self-worth.

Just use the word 'anxiety' then. Oh no, but then, you'll have to take responsibility for how you feel! You can't use a man-hating slur anymore to demonize the guy!

But why is hitting on someone the equivalent of 'shitting'?! Why is sex such a taboo to this day?! It's because of the white-knightery on the part of authority-figures across the board. My point is, there is a concerted war being waged on male sexuality. And this is how we protect ourselves against it.

There is a reason you don't hit on women at your workplace. It's because HR-departments take this shit seriously.

Lol that's a strange-loop.

You know what?! Once you see through the shit-test, this is actually solid advice. What should you actually be, though? A nice guy or a scumbag?

Then these same women will turn around and say 'Why aren't men honest about their intentions?! Why do they have to be players?!' Because you're not believing the ones who are honest!

Well, now that you've told me that I have no moral goodness, I'm going to take your opinion very seriously! Yupp. If I say 'I lift 40 pound dumb bells', it automatically means it isn't true.

No, I don't watch any redpill content. All of my viewpoints come from real life experience. And, the cancel-culture tactics that I'm using right now, I've learned from the SJWs themselves. If you have a vision for a better world, you have a God-given right to fight the people who get in your way. And to train yourself for it.

30 years ago, teachers in my country had literal canes and they were allowed to beat students with those canes. Sounds funny today, but it was real back then. When I was in school, it was normal for teachers to throw chalk-pieces at disruptive students. They would have good aim! You have to exercise some sort of power to discipline them. If not physical power, maybe admin power. Reward and punishment is the way to go. And you can be ruthless with this, as long as it's allowed.

I know what's 'real' and what's not 'real', thanks. If you're going to tell me that 'manspreading' and 'mansplaining' is 'real', I won't buy that. This analogy doesn't apply here, because most black people aren't racist towards white people. That's not the case with feminists, though. Most of them hate men. I have heard feminists say time and time again that 'the biggest problem with society is men'. It's a very common thing for feminists to say (in real life, not just online). I just didn't see them get caught in 4k yet. If you ask most of them 'what has the average man done to hurt you', they won't have an answer. They're just acting out brainwashing. Like a terrorist organization. 'They're the enemy, we have to go blow them up'. They're radicalizing the next generation of women against men and we have to be prepared. The fact that they're allowed to say this in public, means that feminism has gotten out of hand and it must be controlled.