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Regret is a fairly specific emotion, and just because you would do things differently in hindsight doesn't mean experiences aren't valuable learning tools as they are happening. We learn by failing. Having said that, I would say just wasting a lot of my time and not valuing certain things in my life enough. lol wtf

You can certainly have massive amounts of love and kindness towards other people in general. But as far as the literal person I am choosing to spend my own personal life with, well, I value myself much higher than what is described here. But again, if you don't, go for it.

kind of amazing how someone could describe this as nothing but a "stupid little thing" but hey if these are the types of guys you want in your future go for it.

The age of the relationship has absolutely nothing to do with how "fine" this is. If this was a "relatively new" relationship and this happened to me I would on the spot dump him just as Leo suggested. Large red flags like this are much easier to back out of when the relationship is only just getting started.

It's just more of "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" which is a complete load of horseshit. People use that line of reasoning as an excuse for their repeated bad behavior and avoid taking personal responsibility. This has nothing to do with your "proactive communication" and everything to do with his insecurities and manipulation. Don't let anyone turn it around on you.

what in the actual fk. please do not listen to this tyler lmao.

I haven't read through the entire thread but just wanted to reiterate this. Levels of red flags off the freakin' charts. I would never tolerate anything remotely like this.

Tron is just another forum man-child, you're not gonna get anywhere with him. Just let his sad existence play out while he blames his own social incompetence and all his problems on the women of the world.

lol you are so far off the mark you have no idea. damn man don't quit now just when things are getting hard!

Hasn't this been around since forever via escorts?

LOL no thx "lil boi"

With that level of mental gymnastics, you're certainly a pro.

Literally all the happened was a stranger drove by and very briefly expressed concern for an obviously drunk girl. Your takes are just getting worse and worse aren't they.

Basically the farther into the future we go the more creative human jobs will become, and the more labour-type work will be automated away.

Seems like it could be an interesting find. Thanks for the suggestion.

It's unlocked! Now let's hear about all of those riches you guys have been making ? ? c'mon now, don't be shy, share the goodies with all of us.

lmao like what are you even talking about. as per the original comment, you are projecting way too much into a completely meaningless interaction. clearly you do not lol. the only real topic here is the obvious pent up masculinity issues you have.

welp, clearly another man-child we have here on the forums. super.

you're trying not to get yelled at... by posting on the forum? na this is nothing more than another borderline misogynistic rant on the forum by the multitude of men on here who have masculinity issues. she was running around obviously drunk and some stranger simply said something while passing by about staying safe, and this post is what you got out of it? grow up dude.

Sounds like you're the one that's ill with past trauma that you can't handle. Leo has orders of magnitude more mental health than you.

stop being an idiot.

This.

I use capacities myself. Here's a pretty complete list of other tools: https://www.reddit.com/r/PKMS/comments/nfef59/list_of_personal_knowledge_management_systems/

Thanks for the suggestion! Good addition to my list, been trying to read more lately.

You could make a vision board type thing with capacities, which also doubles as a really nice PKM: https://capacities.io If you need something more freeform, maybe something like canva https://canva.com