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I recommend you spend some time in nature, have fun maybe even do psychedelics. This always helps me see other perspectives when I feel in a rut. Consider you may be thinking too narrowly bc you are under stress

@Thought Art We have the same age and I feel you! At this age we start to see there is no as much time as we were told we had in our 20s. We can't change the weather, may be a shitty weather but that's the weather you got right now

How old are you @Thought Art ?

the lower we go it becomes more interesting. Women in the 50th percentile may struggle to get a quality relationship similarly to how a 50th percentile man struggles to get sex. Who struggles more? I don't know. Women will say their life is harder, men will say theirs is harder.

The level of men who can have plenty of sex without investing most of his time optimizing for it play on a same level as a top 20% woman(physically speaking), this women have plenty of quality options for a relationship. It's below the top 20% for women and top 10% for men where it becomes a mess.

LOL! that's what I meant! it can just happen for the top 3% of men. Everybody else must invest (often a lot) on it or be an incel.

I agree, also the only men who deliberately try to sleep with a lot of women do it because otherwise they won't get any sex. Or they are deeply traumatized bc they were incels in the past. They only times I've had decent amounts of sex where when My life moved around trying to get sex, else I become an incel. Not being able to get sex is deeply traumatizing

btw I have a similar challenge. unless you are rich or stupid this is the most important battle to fight in your life! All smart people I know have it unless they are already rich. We are fighting the right battle

@Thought Art if you have low cost of living maybe you can run a few months experiment where you play on public places? as long as you make enough to pay for a cheap rental and food you can live from your music. Then you build up from there.

@Thought Art You play in festivals but still can't get a wage better than Mcdonald's? if you really work at McDonal's it can't be that hard to replace that salary. I'm pretty sure it's possible to replace that salary even playing at train stations

The way he wrote that tweet is so creepy! this proofs they don't care 2 cents for the well being of society,

@LordFall I'm curious about how do you date globally? Could you share some insights? maybe in private if don't want them to be public? I'm also 30Y, work remote and spent some time dating in other countries but at the end I always comes home cause I miss my home and family. How do you do it?

I feel there is power in being able to enjoy loneliness. Last month spent 2 weeks alone in a beach town without working, TV or computer and came back much more confident and grounded. I can now be in a room full of people and stare at the wall without talking to anyone and feel no pressure to talk. feels nice

Both men and women are equally superficial but in different ways. Men wanting a hot woman is no more superficial than women wanting high status men. We need to stop blaming men for liking big butts and putting women on a place of superiority as if they cared more about the inside beauty of a person. They take longer to decide if they are attracted because they are gauging the status and safety of the man and that takes longer than just looking at a body. We both care about inside beauty only after we are receiving the sexual value we crave. That's ok, there is no one to blame, it's just the way we are wired. Society would be a better place if both sexes were more honest about that. First We are all superficial and selfish creatures

Trying to maximize health constantly becomes neurosis at some point. There is a sweetspot where someone can be very healthy and also not a robot and my thesis is someone like this will even live longer than the robot.