pablo_aka_god

I agree with this. In DAYGAME I'm observing the hottest women most often respond better than average ones. Everytime I see a 9/10 I remind myself that they are more receptive than 7s. At work my highest paying clients are the easiest to deal with while the guy that I give discounts ends up being a pain in the ass.

this thread is hilarious, everybody has an opinion LOL!

Forget about this girl and Keep approaching

Really nice! Thanks for sharing! I take that I have to identify with a person that expresses himself fully. This is the only way I can reach my most authentic version! When I don't approach or shy away I'm choosing to be an NPC and to not explore my personality.

Congrats for going out and talking to strangers. he clearly went outside his comfort zone otherwise wouldn't have created this thread. It's a good starting point. nothing too crazy, just a nice positive experience from cold approach and that is something, cold approach is hard

I've known some pretty good loving families. they are less common but they exist. the world is full of people conscious people with great lives! they are less common but I've been lucky enough to meet people and families like this. People who are winning are often low profile, they don't go around telling everybody on the street how well they are doing. but people with shitty lives love to complain to get attention

Nice experience congrats! Just don't get too attached to it and keep moving to get more experiences like this!

I think it comes down to whether your GF recognizes her issues and shows you a serious plan for change. My ex had BPD and I really wanted it to work but she should lie and go over my boundaries consistently and I could never get her to recognize a single mistake, she would straw man every discussion. I left her not because of what she did but bc of the way she reacted when she made mistakes, no willingness to change even if I was in pain. It's been 4 months since we broke I still stalk her on IG and think about her every day. But I know this is the correct decision. Whatever you do, follow your intuition and do it with intention.

Are you saying the reason I can't connect with women even when I have manny men friends is because I see them as the enemy because they are the gate keepers of my happiness(ie: sex)? Makes no sense at all (sarcasm)

I wonder what has a bigger hit to a man's self esteem, being an incel for several months at a time and maybe getting laid organically 2 or 3 times a year VS that plus fucking a 9/10 prostitute once a month. Is it possible to use sex workers as a crutch while working on improving your life? I work 24/7 on improving my life but sometimes I can spend months wo getting sex organically. Maybe I should just endure the pain and go incel for months? that has other consequences like getting hooked on porn

I sell software dev services to a colleague for 15 hrs a week at 33 hr/hr. much less than the rates I like but I'm learning new useful tech at least, so get payed for learning

current status: 30 years old, around 30 lays(stopped counting) 2 long distance commited relationships Relationship 1: very nice girl but not hot, dumped her bc of bad sex Relationship 2: super hot, best sex of my life. borderline personality disorder and lier, left her bc of that. future plans... Relationship 3: I want an attractive girl that gives me good sex and is emotionally stable and doesn't lie

I still love Jessica, so much. I love her with all my heart, but she's sketchy, unstable and a big lier.At the very least she has Borderline personality disorder. And she had so many red flags that I will never know whether she ever truly loved me or was a gold digger trying to extract value frmo me. So I still love her but this relationship is over and I'm willing to be alone and walk in hell if that's what it takes to show the universe that I deserve a woman that respects me.

Just broke up with my 10 month long brazilian GF Jessica. it's been long since last post so will hyper summarize last year events: June 2024: My employeer runs out of cash and stops paying my salary while still asking me to work for free on the promise of future payment. August 2024: winter in argentina, no income. living out of savings in a flat that is about to 2X the original rental price of previous year due to a badly negotiated contract and bad Argentinian economy. I'm getting depressed and lonely so make a counterintuitive move: let's go to Brazil! August 13 2024: I meet and have sex with my new GF, at this time I couldn't believe the great catch I got, the hottest girl of my life to date and she fucks like god. .... 10 very intense months, I fell in love for the first time and was already considering moving to brazil and even parent my GF's 6 year old kid. But Girl started disrespecting and lying to me in so manny ways for months. June 9 2025: I find my GF had been hiding a secret IG account from me, when I confront her she acts very weird and goes deep into a chain of lies so I dumped her, it was already too much for me. I ended relationship with a text and that was it. Girl was so cold about it that makes me think maybe she wanted things to end already. Today, a year after I lost my income and was super miserable alone trapped in a bad rental contract. I was able to get 2 clients that bring 30% more income that last year. got a new rental with a better contract and I experienced the best adventure of my life! thank god I made that decision. It was a 10 month career pause, Now I am working more and career is progressing but I'm back alone. I'm very sad, I made a Tinder account but it suck for me in Buenos AIres. I just contacted an old wing and he's still doing daygame 2 times a week. The wisest thing for me would be to join him. I have a lot of fear and feel very lazy about it so that's a sign this is the right decision. I'm so tired of being alone I want to find the love of my life for once. At least I'm making progress so thank god for that and also thanks rto taking bold actions I'm having new experiences. If I could ask for a whish it would be that next time I write here is to tell you that I got a new GF from daygame and that I feel very happy while still making progress in my career.

@StarStruck have you dated single moms? what's your POV today? I'm currently dating a single mom and feel identified with this thread.