pablo_aka_god

I've cold approached around 1K women and still single. My sex life improved. it's not great but i'm no longer an incel as I used to be 5 years ago. I keep going. Thinking I have to find a GF by X date or approach number Y never worked for me and I tried it for years. I'm starting to entertain the idea that I may die alone and keep cold approaching even in my 50s, so I still have 20 years to get good at it. Imagine the possibilities after 20 years of game? We were brainwashed since babies to find a GF and get married otherwise we are worthless. at 30 I'm starting to challenge this assumption. if I build a great business, create great products to live behind, help my family, travel and sometimes have good sex w strangers, is this life inferior to one where I focus on a life partner?

I loved the way you wrote your report! Are you a writer? Can you share some tips for writing such a beautiful report? I'm taking a trip this weekend after 2 years without any psychedelics.

@Schizophonia How do you meet women? I agree that Tinder sucks but if it weren't bc of Tinder I would still be a virgin. I do cold approach during the day but the vast majority of my lays have always come from Tinder.

LMAO!!! where do I purchase one of these? asking for a friend.

If rather than doing the chat autonomously the bot acted as a copilot helping the guy improve his texts before sending then that would be green level marketing, I think?

Deception is selling one product and the client getting a different/inferior quality product. it's orange stage marketing

Make up is not deceptive IF she will wear the same makeup when she goes on dates with you, if she has a 5K production on her profile pics but she meets you wearing a 20$ production. she deceived you. IMO AI Bots are deceptive at the same level as when you date a woman that looks much worse than her pictures.

I've had this idea of building an AI that does the chatting for me on Tinder and Instagram and can close dates in cafes. We have the technology for building such thing. it would load a lot of books and principles of pickup in an AI agent. I don't want it to lie, just engage the girl for me since I get matches but can't generate engagement over text. if it worked for myself I could sell this as a product for other guys. is this unethical? I know a lot of people would judge me for building such thing. but do they have a legit point? What if a girl dates a nice guy that is bad at texting thanks to this technology?

Common sense here gets you 98% covered. if you lay a college girl/boy from a good family. chances of getting an STD are virtually 0. If you lay very promiscuous and uneducated people I'd be more careful. I've experienced unprotected sex with strangers during my 20s and it was really nice, always applying the common sense rule. Still I could have ruined my life w an undesired pregnancy. but here I am: healthy and w no children. Now in my 30s I'm more careful. not caring can be fun but won't get me far if I keep doing it

In which spiral dynamics stage would you guys put Lula? When I listen to him speak to me it seems like he's in Yellow

@BlessedLion So inspiring! How many opens did it take you to reach that level and you currently have a GF or still do cold approach?

This is a topic for another thread, sorry don't want to derail the thread

This is natural game. cold approach is for people for which finding a quality GF while chilling at a party is impossible so you have to go and approach 100s of girls on the street/club deliberately.

@aurum thanks for sharing! Why did you need social circle building if you were doing cold approach?

I've also faced this dilemma. I like to focus on things on chunks of a few months. I spent 10 months traveling and enjoying my ex GF. I still worked remotely but by no means work was my focus. Since May till August I spent 4 months fully working during winter after my break up. I still had sex once with a girl from Tinder(thank god). In the last month I've switched gears to pickup again. I still work a lot and make money but I'm deliberately rejecting all new work projects that will take more energy so I can focus on dating. Over time I end up making progress in both areas. maybe it's slower but also feels more stable. I can't go for +6 months without sex. my mind starts tearing apart, if making serious money would take me 5 years I know I won't make it without dating girls, I'd brake down before You need to know yourself and the cycles of your personal life.