pablo_aka_god

In which spiral dynamics stage would you guys put Lula? When I listen to him speak to me it seems like he's in Yellow

@BlessedLion So inspiring! How many opens did it take you to reach that level and you currently have a GF or still do cold approach?

This is a topic for another thread, sorry don't want to derail the thread

This is natural game. cold approach is for people for which finding a quality GF while chilling at a party is impossible so you have to go and approach 100s of girls on the street/club deliberately.

@aurum thanks for sharing! Why did you need social circle building if you were doing cold approach?

I've also faced this dilemma. I like to focus on things on chunks of a few months. I spent 10 months traveling and enjoying my ex GF. I still worked remotely but by no means work was my focus. Since May till August I spent 4 months fully working during winter after my break up. I still had sex once with a girl from Tinder(thank god). In the last month I've switched gears to pickup again. I still work a lot and make money but I'm deliberately rejecting all new work projects that will take more energy so I can focus on dating. Over time I end up making progress in both areas. maybe it's slower but also feels more stable. I can't go for +6 months without sex. my mind starts tearing apart, if making serious money would take me 5 years I know I won't make it without dating girls, I'd brake down before You need to know yourself and the cycles of your personal life.

Would love to hear real stories of which of you went through the entire pickup process with full intent for some time and found a great life partner thanks to it. One of my best friends found his GF while he was doing daygame every single day. I've personally have gotten laid w 8 girls from DG and 1 from Nightgame. but haven't found a GF yet. I want inspiration!

All businesses have some degree of BS in order to survive. but my point is that the level of BS in sciences or engineering is way lower than in other industries like fashion, media, etc.

I think engineering and computer science are very truthful. If I sell you a system with X metrics with deadline on Y date, there is no way I can bullshit. You can't bullshit Logic, Math and Algebra.

I agree with this. In DAYGAME I'm observing the hottest women most often respond better than average ones. Everytime I see a 9/10 I remind myself that they are more receptive than 7s. At work my highest paying clients are the easiest to deal with while the guy that I give discounts ends up being a pain in the ass.

this thread is hilarious, everybody has an opinion LOL!

Forget about this girl and Keep approaching

Really nice! Thanks for sharing! I take that I have to identify with a person that expresses himself fully. This is the only way I can reach my most authentic version! When I don't approach or shy away I'm choosing to be an NPC and to not explore my personality.

Congrats for going out and talking to strangers. he clearly went outside his comfort zone otherwise wouldn't have created this thread. It's a good starting point. nothing too crazy, just a nice positive experience from cold approach and that is something, cold approach is hard

I've known some pretty good loving families. they are less common but they exist. the world is full of people conscious people with great lives! they are less common but I've been lucky enough to meet people and families like this. People who are winning are often low profile, they don't go around telling everybody on the street how well they are doing. but people with shitty lives love to complain to get attention