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Everything posted by pablo_aka_god
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daygame session, 4 indirect openings. went out around 6 pm was getting darke and cold so not many pretty girls on the street
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yesterday night did one direct opening, was with a friend(lawrence) goind to a bar and saw a beautiful girl, did a direct opening. went fine. but short interaction no big deal. she added me to IG but didn't accept my request to follow her after 3 hours so I cancelled the request. won't open her on IG. interaction was too short and I don't feel like it makes sense to pursue it
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another daygame session. 3 openings. 2 direct, one indirect. Last indirect was w a girl which ass I liked, so opened her because of height and ass but was dubious about age. My last date w a 38 year old made me thinkg I dont wanna date women above 30 anymore unless they are extremely hot or which have an oustanding personality. the first thing I asked the girl was the age and she said 35 so I immediately lost interest. she was hooked I had a 2 min fun interaction w her talking some shit about age and her brackets and stuff that came to mind and said bye! had fun but I wasn't very attracted so decided to end it. note: also age is mostly about personality, if a girl is above 30 but feels younger thats nice but I don't enjoy 30 somethings who feel like 30 somethings or more. so I can only make an exception if they are in their 30s but have a vibe of a 20 something
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I don't know wether my girlfriend is going to come from daygame, even if she doesn't its highly likely she comes thanks to daygame. Improving my game is helping me forge the character I want in life in social/casual situations. A funny guy that enjoys chatting new people and fears not expressing his sexuality and desires.
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I will keep going but man this shit is hard. Also today was very hard, that girl didn't even cancel the date properly, what a lack of respect of someone else's time. Girls can be pieces of shit as much as guys sometimes. Thank god she texted me after the time of the date and I could tell her I lost my interest and deleted her from my contacts, at least I kept my spine while falling
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daygame session, bare minimum, 3 indirect openings. I feel like shit, the girl I arranged a date with for today dumped me, I opened her on daygame last saturday, we went for coffee that day as insta date. I really liked her and was already fantasying her she would be my girlfriend. she didn't even cancel the date properly, just stopped answering my messages, life is so paradoxical and crazy, the girl you think will be your girlfriend can turn out to be a heartless bitch really quickly. so assumptions don't work. I really feel like shit. I wish I could cry. I dated 4 girls in last 2 weeks which on paper seems nice, but nothing that lasted came from that, not even a friend. all those girls dumped me, with the exception of one which was mutual
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daygame session, in downtown BA. bussy place. pleople are nervous and in a hurry, but high volume and I met a wing there. did at least 6 openings in total. 3 of which were direct. had fun! Wasn't expecting much cause everyone there is in a hurry going somewhere but it's good to train due to volume. I saw myself avoiding a blonde girl just because she was blonde and seemed too "well off" to my taste. this is an assumption. I realized sometimes I made these assumptions about girls that are pretty and too white or blonde and avoid opening. Will work on giving the benefit of the doubt to these girls. Unless I opened enough of them I'm not qualified to make those assumptions based on maybe 5 or 10 bad experiences I had in the past. Yesterday I had an insta date with a blonde girl of these types and even though she turned out to be crazy it was in informative and fun experience
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another daygame session, 3 openings, first was direct and 2 quick indirect ones. first approach ended in a 40 min insta date at a park with a tea we got at a cafe nearby, I had to leave to open the door to my maid which was waiting in my house. also girl was attractive but a little crazy and not my personality type at all so I didn't even phone close her when I left the date. she asked my IG and sent me a DM but I won't invest time in this girl. still had fun! Also when we went for the teas I asked the bartender we would pay them separate, so I didn't invite her stuff, she got a tea and a croissant. It was a great choice to not do it, I didn't feel like it. Feels nice to meet different types of people!
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another daygame session. 3 indirect openings. and one direct opening. girl hooked and we had an insta date. I really liked her a lot! ended the date cause I had another date with a girl I opened last week on daygame. phone closed the first girl and told her to go out another night for a drink. went on the date with the other girl. date went pretty well, she was a mom and lived in survival mode so I think we somewhat connected and she was attracted but I only liked her body, her personality was something I didnt really liked. ended in my home drinking wine, we kissed but she wasnt very comfortable and left we won't see each other again. This was my best week of game of all times. had 3 dates all with girls of a quality much higher than the ones I was getting through tinder.
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For me that would be the most authentic opening for a lot of girls: "You are beautiful and I want to fuck you" but that doesn't work even with sluttiest girls at least for normal guys, if you are a rock star or physically beautiful then maybe. So we have to do game and show our intentions in a more socially "calibrated" way.
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went back and did 4 more openings to clean the bad state of not opening the love of my life. I take note of the fact that when I started I was very tired and was only thinking about going home but after doing 5¡7 openings in total today I felt energized, all my tiredness and social brain fog went away
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today did 3 indirect openings. when was going back to my house a girl I would love to fuck walked by, follower her, she walked very fast so I tried to catch her up and as soon as I get ahead of her she takes out a key and enters a building. I still feel horrible for missing that girl. hottest girls dont last on the street much, they walk fast! and don't walk long distances gotta be ready to catch them fast
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another daygame session. was tired and went anyways to maintain streak. 3 openings. 2 indirect. last one was direct and was a very good openings, girl didn't hook, could have pushed it a little more but was tired so didn't do it. when was going back to my house a beautiful girl stared at me on the street. I kept walking and then decided to open her so waited for her to come but she never came to where I was. I should have gone back to open her. still good that I at least waited for her but it was a very good opportunity to leave it to chance. I got some approach anxiety cause didn't want her to see me go back just to open her, who cares? if girl was attracted she would probably love such a display of interest.
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another daygame session. did 5 openings in total. opening number 3 girl responded with a bad attitude I think because I was a little incongruent w her. that left me feeling bad did 2 more openings and last girl hooked w went for an instant date at a cafe after went for a walk to the park then to a bar for a drink and finally to my house, we had dinner and had sex! Third time I meet a girl doing daygame and have sex w her in the same day! I can't believe it, I wasn't expecting this at all it was key to not leave the last set and push it to see how far it could go, couple times thought about phone closing and leaving cause talk was a little boring but good that I pushed it to the end in a calibrated/scalated way
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Another daygame session. nothing remarkable. I didn't feel in the mood but went anyways and one of the direct openings was a super hot girl and even though I wasn't expecting her to hook because I wasn't in the mood I pushed through it until she left me. did at least 5 openings. at the end hanged out with 2 wings apolo and turi and did some shit talk while walking. I liked the idea of meeting with wings, do shit talk while walking and opening. ie: enjoy the time with wings and learn to do shit talk with people. I took that idea from Leo's video on pickup. take aways: - wings help me enjoy the process - shit talk is good, game is the ability to do shit talk in some sense - even If I don't feel in the right mood after work, good to push through it a little bit so I expand my comfort zone little by little
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Another daygame session. after work. first monday after coming back from vacations, I did minimum viable: 3 indirect openings, good thing is that the 3 were with girls I would fuck, 2 were super hot and beautiful. for the second one I asked her where is a cafe and I laughed at the stupidity of my question and didn't take it seriously, had a good time.
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@Vercingetorix thank you!
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Another DAYGAME session: 3 openings, bare minimum. Not much to highlight. I felt awesome at the end. If I keep doing this very same thing for couple weeks will become unstoppable
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yesterday night wen to wine tasting with some friends, I had a good time. took me out of my comfort zone but just a little bit I didn't push it too much out of my comfort and. I love the concept of doing activities where I get to the edge of my comfort zone but don't pass it, so I expand it from the inside rather than from the outside, ie: pushing past the point where I have confidence in my ability to handle the situation and can understand what's happening. this day(Saturday) I did daygame with wings, went to a cafe with my wings and went out at night! it was key to take a nap in the afternoon and devoting only socialization. If I have worked, studied or wanted to do other logical tasks I would not have had the energy to enjoy this day.
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Another daygame session. met some wings and didn't count all openings but were at least 6. best session so far. This thing about doing what ever I feel at the moment, ie: being honest, authentic and congruent is amazing. I am very polarizing, I show my intentions in a direct way and even feel very good about it. I WPP closed a 38 year old MILF that I found beautiful and it was a solid close, she was interested and agreed to go to a cafe another day
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another daygame session, 3.5 openings 1 indirect opening asking for a cafe. 2 direct openings one of the girls was short, she stopped and was very receptive, we had a nice talk and IG closed. tried to go to a cafe but she declined and told her we should go later, she was dubious about that but had a comfortable body language I doubt we may end up going on a date but I know she was attracted and I could fuck her. The other girl didn't seem very interested but was a funny interaction cause I first asked for a cafe and went away and 20 secs later came back to tell her I liked her, her body language didn't show interest so I said bye and she sayed "thank you", I love when Girls than you for opening them even if we don't hook. Opened the 4th girl and she cut me off, I had low energy and wasn't that interested in the girl so when she cut me My motivation to get to know her evaporated and said "ok", laughed and kept walking
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@Noahsteelers34 I disagree, if I would have waited for girls in my social circle to get attract to me I would still be a virgin. If you are good at social circle game great! but for people who don't then cold approaching is great for developing social skills. All of my sexual experiences have come from cold approaches and dating apps.
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Another daygame session, did 3 openings in total 2 indirect and one direct with a girl I really liked. this interaction went well on my side I vibed at a good level, girl was in a hurry and didn't seem much interested though so I let her go, I don't care attracting a girl that doesn't value such a good openings as I did. I'm a high value man, I go for what I want but if not available then I don't sweat it and move on
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Also 300 approaches in 5 months is a great number! you kicked ass
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it's very important to enjoy this shit. Otherwise you will quit. I really liked what @flowboy said about: "learn to get into a flow state by staying under your trigger boundary, then expanding it"
