pablo_aka_god

it's very important to enjoy this shit. Otherwise you will quit. I really liked what @flowboy said about: "learn to get into a flow state by staying under your trigger boundary, then expanding it"

Thanks for sharing your experience! I'm in my own journey with pickup as well. have you noticed any progress since you started? eg: maybe before you sounded very nervous and now you are able to be calm, make eye contact and enjoy a little more? if so then you are on the right path

Today I did daygame. did 3 indirect openings asking for cafe recommendations and after did 3 direct openings. most important thing to keep in mind was: why am I doing this? to forge a strong character which I think is the most important thing I need right now to succeed in relationships and in business

Today I did daygame, did 4 openings: one direct then opened 2 with indirect questions and while going back to the house opened a girl that was walking next to me and looked nice in a direct way. I feel good that I'm finally taking action, I'm rewiring by brain to get pleasure out of taking action, I'm creating a new identity, I'm a social man that talks with girls he likes everywhere he goes.

Today I did daygame. was raining and went anyways because this is a priority so I must train even when it rains. I opened 3 girls in total. first one was with a casual question and I liked her so much that I left the interaction pumped. then I did 2 direct openings. the second one was a venezuelan girl of my type we had a 2 min interaction and IG closed. I went to a mall in mi neighborhood(Alto Palermo) which I used to think didn't have girls of my type because girls that go there belong to high income families and I don't connect with those types. however today I found 3 girls that I liked a lot. I'm working on braking lots of past assumptions that maybe incorrect. While walking I listened to tony robbins audiobook: awaken the Giant within, that really got me in the correct mindset.

@Shakazulu 21!

the part about being " unrealistically optimistic" is so true! I try to remember that myself. do you know who came up with that concept? also love that you live in a van!

Loved av florida in downtown Buenos Aires. on a Friday at 5 pm its full of people. plenty of girls. I felt less anxious that in places with less people. also girls there are working class. which I like more than rich students of other neighborhoods.

Today I did a daygame session, very good. 2 direct openings and 3 more asking casual questions

I believe Leo, maybe a real risk we should be aware of. Also there is a lot of value that could be unlocked from psychedelic experiences. everything in life has a risk.

I live in Buenos Aires, Argentina. it's a big city and government claims water quality is drinkable. I think they do a pretty good job however how safe is it in the long term to drink tap water in any major city and are water filters or bottled water actually better or it's just marketing?

I gotta ask @Shakazulu, how many girls did you have sex with during those 4 years?

Also the vibe in that place was of people that were well-off and now spent their time reading and thinking. that's not for me I'm 28 and still have to figure out my finances and relationships. Spending my time discussing about authors that are dead and reading for the sake of knowledge feels like a waste of time for me. I liked the topics discussed but the vibe was too snobby for my taste

2 Days ago I went to a talk about philosophy given by a university professor who also runs courses outside university. I wanted to Join a class or group about a topic I have interest in and where also I can meet like minded people and also where I can interact with Women. I realized that for me it's very important to do activities where the % of young women is high. I have already interacted with enough guys for 26 years. The talk was good but I didn't fully like it. First the group was composed of people above their 40's. Not the group I'm looking for. Still I'm glad I tried it! Now I discard it after trying it.

I Watched Leo's video about having a common place book and it remind me of the value of one. I have one for persona life and one for work and they were both key of my productivity but I became lazy in the personal one. I'm in the process of cleaning it up and I already feel how my head starts to feel lighter

I deleted Tinder after 2 weeks with no Luck in Buenos Aires. I read old notes where I wrote several times that Tinder is a waste of time in this city. Good I had the notes!

respecting someone is not the same as not insulting them. I used to overlook the deepness and weight of the word "Respect". 1.5 g of shrooms changed my perspective of what that word means and the meaning of "treating someone with respect". we have respect and Respect. The second one involves a comprehension of the intrinsic infinite value of a person regardless of whether they are useful to us or not.

An insight that I had a month ago while observing people that lived in el Tayrona in Colombia(National park): there 3 spaces we can leave in, one more abstract than the other: lv 1: connected with the body, nature and people around us. This is the only real space: being in the moment. lv 2: How most people in cities leave their lives. putting labels in everything, rationalizing and with the focus on language to explain nature rather than on nature itself. lv 3: World of abstract ideas like: Math, computer science, politics or any idea that exists only in the mind. The higher the level the more abstracted we are from the only true space: Nature. The crazier and unhealthier we become. That's why if one lives in a city and works with abstract ideas it's so important to do activities that ground us to reality: work out, meditation, socialization and being in nature.

Porn is destroying my sexual life, will set a goal to not watch porn for the next week

doing the above helps me to focus on my LP but my social life suffers

I'm spending too much time alone and I like it but this doesn't seem good for my game. also I'm masturbating and watching porn every day

Donde hubo fuego cenizas quedan ?

3 months ago I met a girl on daygame, we had 2 dates and had sex in the second one. After girl became a little cold on text and was busy to see me again, I went on 2.5 month trip to colombia and meanwhile I would message her about once a month she would take often 24 hrs to reply but I was always able to exchange couple of messages. I came back to Buenos AIres yesterday and was not going to open her because of ego since she didn't show much interest however I decided to put ego aside and message her, I just sent her a short "Hola Angie!". I'm happy I was able to put ego aside. I will post later what happens. I don't have expectations since I think her behavior already showed she is not interested in me, but I lose nothing with trying again. if she fucked me it means she found me attractive at some point and AFAIK I haven't done anything that stupid to make her lose all attraction

I have ordered a kit for cultivating magic mushrooms. I'm so excited! since I started on psychedelics last year but my source started scamming me so I had to stop. Psychedelics part 2 is coming baby! I only hope these new guys don't end up scamming me. only way to know is by trying

it sounds weird to me that your fear increases on microdosis. Think whether it increases in a good and healing way or in an on unproductive way