Razard86

https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/92534-why-conflict-of-interests-exists/ Become aware of your conflicts of interest. Anything you stand to gain from can invariably lead you to harm others and justify it. Look for WIN-WIN scenarios instead of win-lose. This means putting the interests of those around you before your own. Now the more resources you have the more resources you can share. So first you would need to become more selfish with your time and money to invest in yourself so you can expand your influence. Then once you do that you can share it with others. So the tricky thing is to be selfish but not in a way that harms others, but to allow yourself to become more selfless only when you are comfortable enough to take those risks. Understand what motivates your actions. Here is a list that is expansive enough to include every motivation I could think of. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/92858-understanding-ego/

1. The problem with the Christian religion...is they cannot even agree on what Hell is first. And second of all they project human characteristics onto God's love. They say everything is God's will, but then said that God hates things. They portray God as NEEDING something from mankind like worship and devotion....it's like you make God appear as weak as humans... 2. The other problem with Christianity is they portray humans as not being strong enough to resist the devil and needed help from God, yet if they are too weak to resist the devil and reject God's help...then why would a loving God punish them in hell for eternity? (There is a verse that says its not eternal). Think about it....even the most hateful human would get tired....so they are saying God wants to torture you forever? What kind of crap is this? Even worse they start saying things like masturbation is a sin...its like what the fuck? Why would a loving God create sin in the first place? So if you are truly logical...you would have to realize that God wouldn't create anything bad, and that bad is our own creation which is what the Garden of Eden story was trying to teach. All human knowledge is created and dualistic and self-serving. We created bad to serve our interests. Its why we cannot even agree on what is bad or what is good.

I'll give you an illustration as I finally understand why Leo is so obsessed with looking at his hand.... Look at your hand, notice you can feel your hand. Right now you are aware you are your hand, that it is you because you FEEL connected to it, so much that you are ONE with your hand. Now if you can just feel that same connection you have with your hand with everything else....then everything is your self like your hand is your self. For example....my body is YOUR body. Everybody you see is your body. The only reason you would not be aware of it, is because it doesn't feel that way. If I stripped you of all feeling...you COULDN'T BE AWARE of anything...so you could just call everything feeling if you wanted LOL. You'd have to expand the term feeling to the visual if you want as well and include feeling to also include the lack of all feeling also. If I started eating some food and you tasted all the food while watching me, if I slipped and fell and you felt all the sensations of my movement and my fall you would instantly be like...."Wait a minute...is that me also?" So how you fool yourself as God is you lower your ability to experience yourself. It's why sex is such an intimate act. You are sharing yourself with yourself with all the smells, friction, etc.... If you were to use sex as a spiritual practice with someone you love deeply...you couldn't help but wake up. It made me laugh when I realized this...that's why its freaking love. Whatever is the highest expression of love for a human, the more they do these acts the faster they wake up. When I say highest expression of love I mean...the most selfless acts. In fact the most taboo acts involving selflessness would wake you up faster than anything. It's so counter-intuitive it wouldn't even be appropriate for me to say it lol.

You can develop another persona, but your original persona is deeply tied to your memories. For you to kill your original persona you would have to deconstruct your memories and throw them away. Its possible to do this....but do you want too? To effectively do this at the highest efficiency you would also have to cut all contact with anybody from your former life and change your name if you really wanna do this. It won't be easy either case ego back lash is persistent as all hell.

This is how you guess. Notice how you said you doubt....you are just guessing. Go do the work. You can live in a state of Oneness. There are gradations of Oneness. Right now you are actually currently in Oneness right now...you are just not AWARE OF IT. That is all we are saying. It's like walking around with two arms but only being aware of one arm....whether you are aware you have a second arm doesn't negate that it is there. Think of awareness as feeling....because feeling is awareness....you feel separate nondual is you don't feel separate. You feel connected as ONE. Everything is experienced as no different than your physical body. Because it isn't. This change will be a neurological rewiring of your biological system in which it will point outward instead of inward. Right now your nervous system points inward...because you were socialized to be separate so your psychological identity and thus your neurological wiring reflect you as being seperate. If you change your conditioning....it will reflect everything as being you. It's as simple as this. I noticed nobody mentions that Enlightenment is just the rewiring of your neurological system. Its just neuroplasticity at work.

By understanding that all distinctions are contextual. Look at this visual. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgm58cbu0kw&t=4s&ab_channel=AerialEarth🌎 Picture the world you are looking at appears stable but on another level its like this ^^^^ constantly changing shifting... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxYrzzy3cq8&ab_channel=TED-Ed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKbMPdGsE5I&ab_channel=AfterSkool Watch these and really contemplate this.... its all relative and relativity is always changing....every second. For example notice this....people are dying every second. https://www.medindia.net/patients/calculators/world-death-clock.asp There is no amount of studying and preparation...that is actually sufficient...you will always have blind spots of some kind. Analysis Paralysis. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/c9HJSjoAeuo

Oh come on...you let him fool you? Haven't you seen the cringe he expresses in words whenever you threaten the concept of Other? Moksha does it and breakingthewall do it as well. They are so attached to other, they writhe in agony and react in defense to any threat against it. On a freaking Spirituality Forum no less. Its quite funny cause you can make arguments that corner them...and all they argue is the how will I ever know argument which is literally what a materialist would argue if you told them they cannot experience anything outside of themselves.... even worse...Current Science actually debunks this notion to with the double slit experiment, and the universe is not locally real conclusion, both were quantum experiments. One showed that without an observer...everything is just pure potentiality, infinite potentiality, and the other showed that distance, and space, and time doesn't actually exist. So science has already discovered this...along with their discovery of superposition which is the discovery of paradox. So all arguments at this point is people who just want to willfully deny regardless of what evidence appears. Its just willful ignorance.

Well invention and isness, are the same thing. God does everything. Think about this...God is the most selfish thing ever....because God is totality of all Selves. God is so selfish, so Self absorbed that God is completely selfless. So God is both extremes, selfish and selfless. The selfishness of God...is the totality of all of our selfishness, and the selflessness of god is the formless potentiality from which all self appears from. No human actually exists, human is just a term we use to refer to God as a bipedal (2 arms 2 legs) creature. In truth using the word human puts us to sleep. We could just call everything God and be done with it, but we like to refer to our individuality and our story. Any other questions?

Well ummm God invented rape. God is both the rapist and the victim of the act. Also rape is an expression of arrogance. The person believes their sexual desires are more important than the person who refuses to give consent. Rape is about power. Arrogance is about power. Arrogance likes to use power to dominate, intimidate, and to gain ownership. Rape follows those same dynamics. Rape is domination, intimidation, and an act of taking control over one's body by force which is a form of ownership. This is a gross misuse of power, and is actually an act of tyranny no different than dictatorship. But the hardest part of the Spiritual Path is opening up your mind to seeing the Goodness in every act in the Universe. You cannot do this from a state of ego consciousness, you can only do this from a unitive consciousness. Everything that ever happens is Absolute Good, but because we have skin in the ground, because of physical and emotional pain a message like this is untenable. But since God is infinite love, it must express everything without limit on what it can express. As such, rape, genocide, child molestation, and whatever other grotesque expressions from the ego perspective must be expressed. The best way to understand this...when you watch movies and t.v. shows the better the villain the better the story. Every great story has a great hero, and a great villain only enhances the hero. A writer of a story would never take anything off the table, they would explore and experiment with as many elements as they can to deepen the story. Well God is the deepest and the most complex...and thus evil is born, from the ego's perspective.

Oh then I apologize I thought you were saying Arrogance was bad absolutely. My bad didn't know. Good. But the truth is....this is true of anything. You can be excessively humble (like a hippie) who goes around saying everything is love and never stands up for themselves. But the secret is... we all balance each other out. God made each of us imbalanced in a specific way so we can find people who through their example can show a healthy ways of balance. Both past and present. I have some friends who are too humble, and some who are too arrogant, and I've cycled (and continue to do so) between both. Sometimes I'm humble when I should push back, and sometimes I push hard when I should be soft. I've notice that the Masculine gets a bad wrap because the Masculine expression the planet has been so excessive we demonize it. The Masculine is beautiful when it is tempered with a healthy feminine but the problem is sometimes even when you have the right balance, in an unbalanced environment...it can come across as imbalanced. Think about that one....you could be balanced...but in an unbalanced world they can accuse you of being out of balance. CRAZY.

I'm not biased against any direction when it comes to arrogance...that's what you don't understand...I accept arrogance fully and appreciate its beauty. You don't...and that is what makes you arrogant. Because its arrogant to hate arrogance. You know what allows a victim of bullying to stand up to a bully and grow a pair? Arrogance. Arrogance is a masculine trait. The only reason we judge it, because when it is excessive it creates tyranny. But healthy arrogance is possible. Every emotion is contextual, in the correct context arrogance is healthy. If you get rid of arrogance you get rid of comedy, because is arrogant by its nature. Arrogance is so key to the creation of the Universe anybody that doesn't understand it, doesn't understand themselves. You LOVE arrogance, you just pick and choose when its appropriate and then ignorantly say its bad. LOL. Go tell all the comedians in the world to stop being arrogant and create polite comedy....you can't. Even polite comedy...makes fun of something...and putting something down...is taught to be bad. See the paradox? There is nothing bad, its all about context in how to use it skillfully.

I'm not biased against arrogance at all that is argument you conjured up and you are projecting onto me. Again I said arrogance is BEAUTIFUL. Here is what you don't understand....you are so dense....that if arrogance didn't exist...YOUR HUMAN SELF WOULD NOT EXIST!!! I already told you that anything less than infinite, that has a perspective, and an opinion on anything....is arrogant. So if we were to listen to your foolish notions... ALL LIFE WOULD CEASE TO EXIST!!! This is why God in its infinite wisdom would never gives its powers to a self-hating ego like you. You have not done sufficient shadow work and this makes you blind to the beauty of arrogance. You didn't point out logical fallacies because anybody with a sufficient understanding of human history understands the part that arrogance plays. Only a person who hates there arrogance =YOU do not understand why arrogance is a NECESSARY PART OF EXISTENCE AND CREATION!!! I have already explained it with multiple examples of what arrogance is and how arrogance and confidence is defined by RESULTS!!!! This means that somebody like you would tell people to believe in their limiting beliefs and to never TEST it and DARE to shatter the mold. You would have told Mugsy Bogues the only 5'3 basketball player in NBA History that he was arrogant to believe that he could be an NBA player because he was too SHORT. You would have told him to be reasonable. If Mugsy was a humble boy scout he would be like "Yes Daddy" and towed the line. But if Mugsy Bogues was like "Fuck what anybody says, I'll show them!!! I'll show all of them!!!" Then that arrogant little snot would work his ass off and accomplish the impossible and become the Shortest player in NBA History. But of course...you wouldn't know this...because you have YET to experience the dark side of yourself that makes you work like a demon to prove everyone around you wrong!!! The ego is a MASTERPIECE created by GOD, and you only demonize if because YOU DON'T KNOW YOURSELF.

It's sad I have to post other people who discovered this. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8OGr_8EzhGs Your dark side is a part of your creativity. Because it is a part of God's creativity. God is the creator of war, famine, pestilence, arrogance, genocide, stop this immature understanding of life. All these things are GOOD. You limit your understanding of what it means to be a creator when you judge your darkness. You cannot have light without darkness. Arrogance is BEAUTY. Arrogance is INNOCENCE. If you cannot see this you are deluded.

Hahhaha are you kidding me? You said I used logical fallacy. I'll say it again. If you lead a revolution against an existing authority they will call you arrogant. War is competition. All conflict between two forces is competition. If you actually did any research into the nature of power, the majority of people in power are arrogant. Do you think this is by accident? If you talk to any Pro Athlete they have feelings of superiority over their opponent. They believe they are BETTER than them. The problem is you have a BIAS against arrogance because you are ARROGANT and think you know better than Infinite Intelligence. You think arrogance is a mistake, which lets me know you have never competed at the highest level in anything!!! Had you done so you would know the VALUE of arrogance. Arrogance is NOT a mistake!!! Any person who decides to rebel against authority, and existing knowledge, anybody that dares to try anything NEW and NEVER DONE BEFORE will be accused of being arrogant!!! Steph Curry was called arrogant when he started shooting deep threes. Pro Athletes are called arrogant when they trash talk. When a soldier on a battlefield chooses to do something different than what he is ordered to do he is called ARROGANT and INSUBORDINATE!!! Without arrogance there is NOT the creation of something new. Without arrogance everything stays the same. There is thin line between confidence and arrogance. https://maminer0722.medium.com/the-wright-way-or-no-way-fbb9622eaf5e Those that were deemed arrogant in their time and succeeded history sees them as confident, and those that were deemed arrogant in their time and failed are seen as arrogant losers who were out of control. Arrogance and confidence are contextual, many times to even find out your limits, you have to TEST THEM. You are only arrogant if you miscalculated your limits...but again HOW CAN YOU KNOW THEM IF YOU DON'T TEST THEM. This is why I don't like talking to young people who haven't lived long enough. Your bias blinds you.

No you are equating that. What is exaggerated? Who determines what is exaggerated? That is what you don't understand. If you give up your authority then whenever you disagree with an existing authority they will accuse you of being arrogant because you assume you are better or know better. If you tell a rocket scientist that you know something he doesn't he will ask you for your credentials. Let's say you discovered something but you did it outside of society's established academia. They will call you arrogant and tell you that you have an exaggerated sense of importance because you did not follow their established protocol. I can tell by your understanding of what arrogance is you are not a deep student of history, and how advancements in knowledge works. You don't understand how empires rise and fall and how conflict ensues. When the American Colonists declared their independence they were seen as arrogant. Because they were rebelling against the crown. They declared themselves sovereign which in the eyes of the Crown, the British Empire is arrogance. They will say WHO ARE YOU to question the CROWN? Now because they won the Revolutionary War....they proved they were right. But had they lost the reply would be...bow before your betters, did you fools actually believe you could resist the Crown? This is how hierarchy and authority systems are founded and anyone who rebels is arrogant. You do not understand the importance of arrogance because you have a bias against arrogance. Which is itself arrogance LOL. Everything God has created is GOOD and serves a particular purpose and function. If you keep this up you will remain ignorant. The only difference between Confidence and Arrogance is Confidence has knowledge of its limits, where Arrogance does not. As such...if you dare to dream to accomplish something that hasn't been done before...people will accuse you of being arrogant. In competitive environments arrogance is what gives you the power to dominate and subjugate those around you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpMWRBk3Usc&ab_channel=MichaelJordanSportsvision Go read about MJ...he was one of the most arrogant assholes around...and it allowed him to intimidate the competition. You can only learn the value of arrogance in competition. For example Trash-Talking is arrogance but it gives you a competitive edge in psychologically manipulating your opponent and robbing them of confidence. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSGS62d-ETk&t=9s&ab_channel=SHOWTIMEBasketball

Depends on how you look at it...to say God can't forget is to limit God. Maybe human, is a limitation on God that can forget that it is God. So...its still God doing it....because God is all there is.

Definition of arrogance: Arrogance is a type of pride that comes from believing that you are better, smarter, or more important than other people. Okay so if your parents tell you are wrong...the only way you can disagree with them.. is to believe you KNOW BETTER. Think about it? All arrogance is resistance against established norms and authority figures. This is why every society demonizes arrogance because they WANT YOU to CONFORM. You have not sufficiently questioned arrogance, you just assume its bad because that is what you have been told. Nothing is falsehood, life is truth!!! A lie is TRUTH. Investigate why a lie is the truth!! Until you understand this...you will be lost like the rest of humanity.

I read this article a couple years ago (glad it is still up) and it reveals how the youth of today are too lazy to do a proper analysis of the past and the people involved in that time period. No human is immune to their socialization and it takes deep introspection for a human being to overcome their socialized beliefs. Ghandi for example was not immune to this and many of the youth judge him for who he was early in his life. There are also other groups who judge him to which is proof that no matter how noble or kind you aim to be people will always find a problem with you. https://wagingnonviolence.org/2019/10/south-africa-forced-gandhi-reckon-with-racism-imperialism/

Arrogance is beautiful. Without arrogance...there is no Hero's Journey. If you know everything there is nothing to discover. Without arrogance you get lost in conformity, group think, and never discover your unique individuality. So the absence of arrogance turns you into a drone, a robot, it robs you of your humanity.

Yeah....technologically we are advanced....but socially and biologically we are still in the dark ages....hell maybe I'm even wrong about our technology too....

LOL I noticed you noticed that and took off you are Me and replaced it with Infinity. But you did plant this particular seed Leo..... https://youtu.be/mnn0IU0-atg?si=3P4F7blToxNP1QnS&t=1814

Oh you'll know...you cannot bullshit your way to Solipsism. Also everyone knows Solipsism is true...because you cannot disprove it. You can verify it but you cannot disprove it. Because I am not talking about regular Solipsism, I am talking about ABSOLUTE SOLIPSISM. ABSOLUTE SOLIPSISM has always been everyone's experience. When you watch a movie, you only see it from a particular perspective. Whichever perspective the Director wants you to see from that is what you see from. That movie can exist as a file, and it already contains everything that happened and you just experience it as it happens. But why are you only seeing one perspective....because that perspective is ABSOLUTE. Now you could write another perspective and make it a movie and you could play that perspective on another screen, you could write infinite perspectives and play them on infinite screens, but those perspectives...will always be ABSOLUTE!!!! Because it is just ONE INFINITE BEING zoomed in to a particular perspective. And since it is the only thing, each perspective is not only itself, but the perspectives that look back at it are also itself. So it cannot be other.... Are there others in a dvd file? NO!!! They are all housed in one dvd file. Now within the story of the dvd file the characters can treat and identify themselves as other...but there isn't and cannot be OTHER. Once its other....then there needs to be something else that it is not. So how can God create other then? God creates other through limitation and erasing its knowledge of what it is. God forgets its the DVD and mistakes itself for one of the characters in the DVD. It's simple to understand....not rocket science.

Notice you just made a distinction between people...and you. Is not that human body....a person which is an individual among people? This means...you by default are also a survival machine.

This is both true and untrue...the ego never dissolves...so the ego is going to have its say. The key is to not let the ego draw you into its drama...but the ego is very convincing. Remember the more evolved your ego...the more sensible it is. The hardest ego to overcome is the Spiritual Ego. To really drive home the point of how powerful the ego is....the ego...is perspective. So whatever perspective you have about life...is ego. So to put this in perspective...all 4,948 posts I have made...are ego. At a certain state of consciousness I discovered that all my knowledge...was just arrogance. Why? Because it is incomplete, finite, limited, not all encompassing which would be INFINITE. So how can someone pretend to know anything when they don't have ALL THE KNOWLEDGE? So no matter how smart I am....all perspectives, stances I take will always be arrogant because it is not infinite. So as a result the ego is ALWAYS ARROGANT...LOL. Isn't that funny?

1. You can only let it go when it becomes true for you to let it go. This is why the concept of karma is so important. You can't skip steps. You learn through experience. The path to proper expectations is to set realistic attainable expectations for yourself. But how do you figure out what that is? Through self-study. So is it fair to expect someone to do something they are not capable of? No. So that means you need to be able to understand accurately what someone is capable of and what you are capable. This delves into concepts like free will/ control/determinism etc. So now you will need to investigate this and discover do you actually have control in your life? Or are you being deluded. Think about it....did you choose your height? Did you choose your skin color? Did you choose the country you were born in? The time period? Did you choose what allergies you have or don't have? Did you choose your taste palette and smell preferences? Did you choose your ability to remember or not remember things? Did you choose your natural ability to be patient or impatient? Did you choose what subjects you are naturally good at? Do you choose the rate your heart beats? Do you choose the rate your eyes blink, or the rate you breathe at? Do you choose the weather, traffic? Do you choose if people find you nice or mean? So how much control do you really have in life? Because you can only hold people to what they have control over....and not hold them to what they don't have control over. But do you actually know how to properly set your expectations? When you don't even know how much control you have?