Razard86

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  1. There is actually a lot of guys who want to commit long-term to women, they just are afraid of getting divorce raped. Majority of divorces in America are initiated by women. I think as a result there are going to be a lot of people in America forming relationships without marriage. I'm not even sure they will live in the same house too. Relationships will change a lot in the West in the next decade.
  2. It was certainly an interesting read. Thanks for sharing as well.
  3. Will miss you!!! Hope you return in the future!!!
  4. Lol Usain would beat a Cheetah if his life were at stake!!
  5. The better question is DO YOU know how to describe your essence?
  6. Population size is not a descriptor of how similar something is. That's like saying India and China are more similar because of their population. Similarity is based on what are all the factors they share in common and population would only be ONE factor. This argument doesn't even hold....not even sure how you could type this and think "There that is a good point." To say civilizations are similar you would have to show deeper factors such as the culture, things like government, religion, technology, interpersonal relationships. Also your last point about conventional tribes. What is a conventional tribe? I notice people like to use words and cannot even explain what they mean. So please explain to me what a conventional tribe is. Hint: There are no conventional tribes. You could easily call America a conventional tribe. According to Merriam: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/tribalism All tribalism is, is strong ingroup loyalty. In America we are separated by various tribes today. There is the Democratic Tribe, the Republican Tribe, The LBGTQ tribe, The Black Tribe, the White Tribe, the Educated Tribe, The Uneducated Tribe, The Atheist Tribe, The Christian Tribe etc etc. You could actually make more of an argument of the similarity of ALL human civilizations in my opinion versus any differences. For example do you know that basically any nation that currently exists has had civil war? Literally the steps of advancement in human civilization virtually the same. This is why Spiral Dynamics even exists because you track human development across the world and you will see MORE similarities than differences. This is in alignment with Spirituality that teaches everything is one and only difference in degree.
  7. Europe wasn't more advanced, again you do not understand history and you betray yourself. What did you Europe do back then that equaled the Pyramids? What did Europe do back then that equaled the irrigation system that Egypt had? Your entire concept of what Africa was reeks of ignorance talking about dancing for rain. Europe was not more advanced they just went around attacking everyone. Majority of the time when they landed on new continents the Natives greeted them in peace and they backstabbed and killed them. Had the Natives knew their true motives much of history would be different. Anyway at the end of the day this is all just story anyway. An illusion within a dream.
  8. As a black man, I have stopped caring about racism. If you focus too much on it, it is all you will see within your experience.
  9. Great point! That was rather illuminating. Way to raise my awareness in a single post to another perspective of looking at Spiral Dynamics.
  10. Outside of absolute truth....everything is.....
  11. You think this because you do not understand the masculine and feminine paradigm. If you call this woo, then all language is woo which you could certainly make that argument. Masculinity and Femininity describes NATURE, and it also described the DIVINE. All words, are just symbols that describe things. Your bias against it is why you feel the way you do and as a result you won't understand the meaning that it brings. Masculinity represents order, logic. To organize something you have to separate it. To use logic you have to take in stimuli and separate it to make sense. When you watch Male behavior throughout history Men primarily engage in actions that seperate. They conquer, which seperates, they defend which seperates, they attack which seperates. Male behavior throughout history is naturally divisive. Its primarily thought based, and when you look at the structure of what we think of as a man it is primarily designed for physical activity. Even when you study the brains of men in general they align more towards the logical. I could go on and on, Masculine isn't male, but is primarily expressed in the Male. Even the Male structure is more of a straight line. Which represents how the Man is more logical oriented in general. Women are fluid, and creative. They flow, as such their bodies are curvy which represents their desire to not be fixed or held in a box. Nature communicates through symbology all the time and the human body literally communicates the male female primary energy orientation through the physical representation of the body. There are more examples, but if you refuse to see it you will.
  12. This statement reeks of superiority. Also Jordan Peterson is stage Blue so I guess he is a child.
  13. There was a woman who died who ate soul food everyday and smoked a pack of cigarettes a week. She lived to be over 100 years old. Something to think about..... Example: This isn't the same woman but here is an example. https://medium.com/lessons-from-history/this-122-year-old-smoked-until-117-and-ate-2-pounds-of-chocolate-a-week-befe21e696f0 Another Example: https://allthatsinteresting.com/jeanne-calment The truth is your beliefs determine your health...not what you eat.
  14. You haven't done your homework. Ancient African Tribes engaged in polyamory. Also 2 of them were Matriarchal in that the females were the leaders of the tribe. Go do some research, it is the oldest form of union between men and women. Most of your knowledge of about marriage is Eurocentric.
  15. Reciprocality.....you wouldn't need to write thousand word responses to make it simple that would just make it more complicated. I get it, you enjoy complexity. Complexity can be fun, but complexity is not something that is easily extractable because it can be interpreted multiple ways. I am more attracted to complexity on certain levels as well but I understand it is not something that is rather useful and is just a mind game. Its not that am seeing word play, anything complex is word play. Simplicity is word play as well...its just less complex. And yes I know simplicity and complex are really the same thing because much can be extracted from both.
  16. That is your perspective, all I see is word play. https://blackmtncycles.com/make-everything-as-simple-as-possible-but-not-simpler-albert-einstein/#:~:text=simpler.” Albert Einstein-,“Make everything as simple as possible,but not simpler.” Albert Einstein
  17. 1. Polyamory is the oldest form of union so its actually not new age its old age. 2. You are picking monogamy because you have a bias for that. Spirituality is about union, its about dispelling all barriers and recognizing everyone as one. The highest form of consciousness would be polyamory with the whole world in truth.
  18. All action comes from care. Things are really black and white when it comes to this. Every action we take happens because we care. Reality itself is built off this. You are literally arguing against existence itself as this is an existential truth. Notice I knew you would deny what I said. You denied what I said because you cared. If not you would have ignored it. Everything you pay attention to, you do so because you care. Every successful business that lasts for decades knows this its why marketing is so important. I am literally giving you one of the secrets to life and you don't even realize it. But the GREAT THING is YOU WILL ONE DAY!!! You could replace care with the word love if you want as well.
  19. Being full of shit just means that everything is just illusion and the only thing that is true is the oneness of god. We cannot have reality without these illusions, so reality is merely illusion, a lie. But the building block of that lie....is ultimate truth and love. This is why no matter how much you study reality it is infinite, and infinity is a pardox. So even trying to make sense out of NO SENSE, and trying to ascertain a thing from NO THING is fruitless. Just enjoy the fact that reality is infinite, it is paradoxical, it is mysterious, it is no thing, it is no sense, and it is magical.
  20. Also here are the limitations of the study. They cannot account for the impact of genetics and how testosterone is metabolized in the body and efficient there body is at utilizing it. Everyone's metabolism is different so even bringing in groups and repeating the experiment over and over all you are going to produce is a range of results. Science is never EXACT, it is always approximate in nature. All you are looking for are patterns. I already knew I could find a study that contradicted what you sent me because I understand how testosterone works. The study doesn't even talk about long-term use, and how long term uses can destroy the natural testosterone you produce if you come off it and then will have to deal with the consequences. Anyway we can say that in certain circumstances your scenario is true.....but it has a lot of different factors that are left out when it is stated.
  21. And here is an article that has a study that shows opposite results. https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/nejm199607043350101 Scroll down and look at Figure 1.