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Well I do agree that you can certainly deceive yourself, in that respect yes it can be unconscious ( I recently had a discovery that I had a hidden emotion under layers that was revealed to me in a dream) but even then I don't know if I can call it unconscious because I was able to discover it because of a conversation me and friend had. I'll explain what I mean. There is a saying "What people tell you, is what you secretly tell yourself if there is a reaction." So basically if someone can trigger you, its because they revealed a hidden opinion you had of yourself. So I believe that while on a personal level you might have some unconscious trauma, if you pay attention other people will see it and bring it forth. So I know you know that we are all connected. One of the best things I have learned through my friendships with others is we have the ability to both see the hidden and bring it forth. So how can we be unconscious...when we are always forcing each other to wake up? The only time we don't is when we resist our reactions to what other people say. Everyone is our mirror, so even when we refuse to look at ourselves, they'll do it for us and show us our reflection. I agree with what you said in part, but me and my friends engage in radically honest conversations. I won't say its perfect, but it puts most things on the table. Also by know means have I conquered all of my fears. They just aren't unconscious because I make an honest attempt everyday to probe into the layers of layers of my ego. Maybe there is still some unconscious stuff there, I'm not arrogant enough to presume it isn't. But it will be very few. So I guess I'm projecting here, equating my personal experience onto others in this example.

It is...and it isn't. Lol remember no separation. Its all perspective. When you take a psychedelic you just raise in awareness that you are God. So technically that ego....which is part of you is part of the mind that is constructing everything. But is the ego itself doing it? No. Think of it like this. Imagine if you could give a dog a psychedelic and it is all of a sudden able to realize...its God. Lol all the psychedelic did is bring it into its awareness. It was always God dreaming the entire universe. The psychedelic just revealed it.

You took the serious part too serious, lol think of it as a reaction. Also its not about finding them, its about being them yourself. You need to be the feminine counterpart first before you can find and maintain a relationship with the masculine counterpart. So let me ask you....how well do you understand the masculine? How well have you incorporated it into your psyche? Are you able to be detached when necessary? Brutal? Are you able to rationalize survival and delay gratification? I'm not saying this to make it seem impossible but it is something that is important. And here is the kicker, are you able to tolerate someone giving you their raw emotion and accepting it and not reacting to it emotionally? You see many women want a man to be their container, to be their rock. But if a woman cannot develop that aspect within her, her man will never be able to honestly tell you how he feels. This is why most men lie to women/hide their feelings.

You're ready the fact that you desire this means you are ready. Its not easy but the desire is proof that you are willing to take on the challenge. You didn't watch that video by accident and you didn't make this post by accident. Its what you want, and you can have it. Put that intention out there and believe it will come and it will. But be ready for the most intense relationship you will ever have.

What Leo is saying in simple terms. The Masculine and Feminine do not understand each other but they are drawn to each other. For that relationship to last long term both partners need to become balanced and develop the opposite side. So woman need to integrate their masculine and men need to integrate their feminine. When this happens true honest communication can happen because the barriers have been dispelled since both parts are integrated. The most common complaint between men and woman is this. Man "She doesn't make sense." She is too emotional. She complains too much about her feelings. The most common complaint that women make. " He doesn't care about my feelings." He is always trying to make these so logical. He is always trying to control me. He talks to me like I'm stupid. The Masculine and Feminine have two different perspectives and thus two different communication styles. Unless you make an effort to understand the perspective of both...they won't make sense to you. Leo did two videos that talk about each perspective. I think he did a good job.

SOOOO TRUE!!!! I learned the hard way!! HAHAHAHAhA

Lol are you serious? Do you know who that guy is? That is David DeAngelo!! He is a relationship guru who spent like 10 years of his life mastering his masculine and feminine side and studying the dance of the female male relationship. Do you know how incredibly rare a guy like he is? He also was mature enough and patient enough to figure out what woman he could connect with. David is a true rare man who went on a journey to shape himself into the man that woman want, while also finding the woman he wanted as well.

Don't give me ideas....I'll put it in video requests lol!!!

I'm so glad you found him using coffee tables again!!! He can't help it!! Coffee table fetish!! I know his coffee table is like SHHH stop telling everybody our bizness!!

Bingo!! You got it!!! That is why we argue so much in life. Different lens or filter. Now there is a state you can get to where you can connect to the infinite and feel the state of no difference. Problem is the moment you try to communicate those revelations, it will be filtered through your lens. It is what it is.

Truth is the scariest thing there is. If you really wanted it, you would have it. The way this game called reality works...when you put out an intention it comes to you. Go meditate, take a psychedelic and contemplate on the true nature of absolute truth you will DEFINITELY FIND IT. Absolute truth is absolute acceptance of everything. Rape, murder, genocide, torture. Absolute truth is that all of the horrible tragedies that ever existed YOU DID IT! Absolute truth is you are a sadist, a murderer, a serial killer, but you were also the Saint, Jesus, Buddha. You are both the darkness and the light. It was all you. Can you accept that? When a horrible tragedy you seen happen around you and you get frustrated and feel sorry for them can you accept that YOU are the one doing it to them? Can you enter a bad trip and get tortured by your own fears, enter hell, and accept the punishment and judgment you have decided to give yourself and accept it lovingly? Absolute truth isn't sunshine. Its Brutal!!! And only an infinite loving, formless being can truly accept it all with a loving embrace.

Watch all 3 when you get a chance and give your opinion. I'm not an engineer so my opinion wouldn't be from an informed perspective that understands how to integrate structure and force, integrity, etc. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaPMEjaV3EM

Glad you like it. When you reach your true self you can see without eyes, hear without ears, feel without a physical body, and you feel huge and expansive. Not limited as you do in this human form. The irony is the closer you get to death also....the more you realize that you aren't in the body, the body is in YOU!!! LOL that throws you REAL OFF.

There is no need to awaken or get enlightened. There is no need to do anything. Everyone at the end of the day has there own journey. Based on their individual journey what is important to them will come up. While I have a bias in favor of awakening I have come to realize that a person has to be prepared to go in that direction. Prepared= a strong desire to pursue that as a goal. Otherwise let them burn through desires with other goals. Eventually every individual that is supposed to awaken will.

Infinity cannot be explained, because it is paradoxical. It is a contradiction. Its why I have been saying to people on the forum that reality is a mirror, and it is a paradox. When you say there are two Leos you are creating finitude. You have created two separate infinities....which makes them finite. The paradox of Infinity of Gods, is a dream, within a dream, within a dream, within a dream. Quantum Mechanics talks about superposition two things existing at the same time. But we all know all separation is illusion. So if it is an illusion then it is a dream. But how reality- real is created is through dream. So Infinity of Gods exist but it exists within a dream. Which basically says there are infinite dreams. Infinity dreams all interconnected which ultimately lead back to one source.

You are correct, nobody lacks discipline. The lack of discipline is a myth. Every human action is in alignment with their beliefs. The only reason discipline is hard is the human is attempting to act outside of their beliefs and therefore there is resistance. Whenever a human's actions are completely in alignment with their beliefs then there is no resistance. For example when you face a fear, there is resistance. What is the resistance? The fear. You believe something is more powerful than you are and as a result you fear it. To face the fear you have to overcome your resistance. So the reason a fat person might stop working out might be fear of physical pain. That pain could be mild discomfort, or outright pain from exercise. Whatever the issue, until they can overcome that fear, that fear will be an obstacle. It took me many years to learn this truth. But it is very simple to figure out actually and it makes me laugh how I didn't see it. Look at your life, certain things you are VERY DISCIPLINED IN. Nobody has to pressure you to do it, or motivate you to do it. You just do it. Notice there is no resistance between you and that thing. Now compare that thing to the other things and you will notice you have a thought, an emotion that creates resistance. So you are correct. But hey your friend will learn this truth on their own time.

You know a poster on this forum made an interesting point that I will share. Part of getting rid of that is just interacting with other people, especially ones you don't know. When we don't interact with others as much, we can become more introverted (especially if that is your usual nature) and start becoming too judgmental of ourselves. The best thing to do is to practice loving yourself internally. There is a book you can check out called "WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU TALK TO YOURSELF by Dr. Shad Helmstetter. I think it can help. We need to learn to be good friends with ourselves. Learn to en-courage yourself en= place inside, courage= strength to face fears. So when you speak kindly and highly of yourself you are giving yourself courage. Do it daily, you deserve it.

When it comes to relationships you are just dealing with the light and shadow of yourself in another expressed to different degrees. This is a known psychological concept and is talked about by Carl Jung when he discusses things like human archetypes, the animus and anima, and the collective unconscious. For the purposes of this model I won't discuss any of that but you are definitely welcome to Google those terms if you want to further dissect and study these concepts. I want my model to be simple, I want it to be something you can tailor in your own life, I want it to be something that instead of telling you what to do, gets you to decide for yourself. YOU ARE THE ULTIMATE AUTHORITY OF YOUR LIFE, YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE, BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE. Ok let's get started. There are two types of love. The love that is centered towards the self (please don't bring any no-self comments in here for the purposes of this model I'm trying to make it simple for those who may not be as Spiritually advanced) and the love that is centered around others. BOTH FORMS OF LOVE ARE EQUALLY VALID AND MUST BE BALANCED. So how do you construct a healthy model of a relationship? Here are some things to consider. What are some fair expectations you have of yourself in a relationship? Is it fair to ask something of someone that you are not willing to do? When expectations are not met how forgiving or judgmental are you? Is it fair to be harsher on someone than you are with yourself? How patient are you? Are you able to be okay with someone having a different perspective, vision, and habits than you? The most important one....are you able to see things from another perspective? Are you able to clearly see how your actions might harm or help another? But not only see it, but accept that they were your actions? Ok so after we answer those questions now we can construct our model. I will first treat myself with expectations that push me, but will show myself patience, kindness and understanding when I fall short. I will seek to first understand the motivation behind my actions by getting in touch with my emotions and feelings to discover what lies within. I will always remember that I am worthy of love. I will first treat my relationship with others with expectations that push us. I will be patient , kind, and understanding of my partner when they fall short of expectations In a conflict I will first seek to understand their perspective BEFORE I communicate my own I will always remember that my partner is worthy of love Now it sounds like everything is good so far but let's discuss some pitfalls shall we. DO NOT PERFORM ANY ACTION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OUT OF DUTY. If you do it will be you "keeping score." This is why when some couples get into arguments they start talking about the List. That list is so famous, the I've done this and that for you list. When you do something out of love, its done without the expectation of getting something in return. Now let's talk about expectation. Expectations are important because they are the foundation the relationships are based on but you must NOT hold too tightly to them. The only expectation that should be held tightly is your worthiness of love and respect. NEVER TOLERATE A RELATIONSHIP FULL OF DISRESPECT AND ABUSE. If you wouldn't do it to yourself or others, then you are not required to receive that behavior. Now this is for the guys....since its mostly a guy problem when dealing with women. Learn to stop being so logical, to stop being in your head constantly analyzing. Learn to drop all thought, and connect with your emotions. Learn to be in the moment. Meditation practices can certainly help with this. Now understand that when someone is in a relationship with you, they are joining you in experiencing life. Part of life is impermanence. Life is dynamic, it is ever changing. You must accept both the change within you and your partner. But also....introduce change into your relationship with your woman. Learn to be dynamic like life. Don't maintain routine all the time switch it up!! Now this is for the women. Just because a guy is confident around you doesn't mean he is a confident guy. You need to see how he is in other areas. In my social circle I see a lot of women falling for immature guys who display confidence around them but are insecure in other aspects of life. Also do not put up with a guy if you believe he is trying to control you. Leadership and control are two different things. A leader inspires and encourages you to follow them, they don't try to control you. And lastly understand that men are both biologically and socially trained to repress their emotions, and lead more towards analysis. Most men have limited emotional intelligence and it takes patience in getting him to learn to connect with your emotions. Communication is very important, you need to communicate to make sure that you and your partner are on the same page as your lives start to become more entwined. The problem is men and women communicate differently in general and as a result struggle to connect emotionally and psychologically. Both need to be aware of this dynamic and work to bridge the gap. The number one rule of every relationship is this. "You are NOT responsible for your partner's happiness." The number two rule is this. "You are responsible for not ADDING to their misery." You cannot USE your partner to fix your lack of happiness. If you want to be in a relationship because you are "lonely." Then you will be "lonely" in a relationship. The only difference is you will be able to blame your partner for something that you are doing to yourself. This is self-delusion. Your partner cannot change what feelings you have inside, all they can do is amplify. So your partner can INCREASE your happiness, or they can DECREASE it. But they cannot generate those feelings within you. You are the generator. How to balance the relationship. Your relationship with another is a balancing act between "Me" Time and "We" Time. Both individuals need to take time apart every now and then to pursue what is important to them. Remember a healthy relationship is between WHOLE people. If not...they will take out the part they lack on you and blame you for their incomplete feeling. If you have any questions....please send them here.

Watch this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHtvGj-8ObA&t=80s

Illusion and Reality are the same. If all there is, is infinity, then all separation is illusion. As a result the denial of the ego as unreal or illusion is itself a limit. The ego is both real, and unreal. One of the things you come to realize is that Life and Death are the same, and Illusion and Reality are the Same. So the Ego is real, it is also unreal. Its all perspective. If the Ego was truly an illusion, once you saw it for the illusion it was its effects could not influence you. Within your direct experience this is not the case. Without an Ego, you cannot even have a finite experience. All an ego or self is, is awareness that feels finite. Essentially the ego does not feel the interconnectedness that is its being. By focusing on its being through meditation or raising awareness it can feel its infinite nature and drop its limited experience. But unless you can maintain that state consistently what is called Samadhi you will go back to a feeling of separateness. So its both illusion or real depending on your perspective. This is what it means when there are relative truths and absolute truth. In the Absolute Truth the ego is illusionary, but on the relative truth level the ego is definitely real. Without an ego, you could not experience the feeling of finitude. This is why in all my posts I keep likening reality to a mirror. It is all about perspective.

Its not a knock against you lol its just McDonald's is always picked and me and my friend were laughing at that fact. We were like imagine you create a business and when people always create an example of a dead end job they use your business. We started laughing at it.

No problem. But are you sure you are afraid to share your feelings? You have been doing it on this forum no problem. Are you sure its not fear of sharing your feelings when interacting with a live person? Or perhaps in an intimate close relationship such as a friendship or romantic partner? The key to finding answers is to ask questions. What do you think it is?

No you haven't you have spent your whole time telling everybody they are wrong. You have closed your mind, true contemplation is to question everything you know to be true. Watch this video. Follow the exercise. If you cannot get it after this video then you are not serious enough about this work.

You don't understand Leo's Infinity of God's video. Your POV can be accessed, if you give permission. That is what he means by sovereign it cannot be forced. An analogy I have for you is your organs are ultimately one. But let's say all of a sudden your arm doesn't take communication from your brain, now your arm cannot move. Think of it like that. We are all connected, if me and you did DMT right now, we could potentially access each other's POV. There are people who had NDE's and were able to access everybody they interacted with POV. So its possible. Me and your baseline awareness would hide this. But on a psychedelic or if we were both close to death we could experience that connection. So we can be separate but we can also be one. Its a relationship, of ONE that can be experienced separately. That is what Infinity of Gods means.

I like this post, agree with everything....but....I feel for McDonald's doomed to be the poster child of a company you don't want to work for. Imagine making a business and whenever people want to say you will work ld'a dead end job they use your company as an example. Lol. Its funny how McDonald's got that designation.