Razard86

1. Basic Human Attractiveness is rooted in your animalistic desires. Men are attracted more towards physical beauty, and Women are more attracted to raw displays of masculine behavior. 2. My belief after several years of contemplation is because of among early humans the most narcissitic men tended to be the best warriors/conquerors and somewhere along the line this became embedded into the female genome as markers for strength. So as a result Men must overcome their propensity to be hung up on looks only as a marker for a viable partner, and Women need to get over their hang up of men who display large behaviors associated with narcissism to find a viable partner. You are where you are in your development. No judgment no guilt needed. I'm glad you were able to notice this issue. This a just a part of your development. You like what you like, until you don't. Most people cannot overcome their desires until they learn the hard way where those desires lead them. You can find out for yourself if that is the path you choose to tread. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913012245

I agree with everything except this part. If God/Universe wasn't trying to wake up, it would never allow that opportunity to exist. But God allows that opportunity because it wants to wake up eventually. The entire process of creation through dreaming is a cycle which will eventually collapse into a singularity. Then it will begin again.

Yeah its why I made it, I suddenly realized we need to show some appreciation for the wonderful people on this website. Its a rare gift to have so many diverse and intelligent perspectives. So yeah I felt moved to do this intuitively. Hopefully it becomes a long thread of shoutouts whenever someone feels compelled to do so.

I'd Like to show some Appreciation to Users Other than Leo who have helped me in various ways. First I'd like to thank puporing for being such a kind, patient, and understanding person who would listen to my whines and complaints and rambles I would share with her. Thank you for putting up with me thanks for sharing you love!! Next is Sam C, thank you for listening to my rambles as well, and for sharing with me your deep interesting perspective. I love your ability to see into the psyche and I think any field you go into regarding that will be lucky to have you. Vincent S, I feel like I'm talking to a clone who has lived a different experience when I read something you post and when I converse with you. My self love increases just through exposure to anything you write on the forums. Thank you for sharing your perspective. Asayake your new to the forums but have already made an impression on me. I thank you birdman, I hope you will continue to drop the nuggets of wisdom you constantly do on the forums. Fernanda I thank you for your many words of encouragement. I don't know if you are aware of how powerful words of encouragement are. They are so powerful its amazing they are free!!! Thank you for that I mean it! Thank You Carl- Richard for giving me 2 points....lol in all seriousness you are very intelligent and your posts are usually very good at expanding a concept. It must be a gift. If I have forgotten anyone blame my head not my heart. Let's get this ball rolling shall we?

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Ohhh so cryptic.

Your line of thinking speaks to you being open to the possibility. Its why the poster said just to back off. You need to be honest, RADICALLY honest about your feelings. Non judgment, judgment allows you to lie to yourself about how you feel. We don't know if she likes you like that, some women like to be flirty. However what we do know is YOU like her like that. This is why this line of questioning and reasoning is within your awareness right now.

Its by design, also there are no problems. Everything is how it should be. Anytime we think something is bad or has a problem we are engaging in the same game they are. You said why is everyone so serious? Thinking something is a problem is being serious. You cannot think a problem exists and be playful and unattached. So notice you are doing the same thing they are doing. Now I'm not saying I have transcended selfishness I am still selfish which means I still have judgments and shadows to integrate. But yeah there is nothing wrong with this mindset, I just know where it ends....where all mindsets end....no where. Because there is no destination, no where to actually go, which is actually TRUE FREEDOM.

There are people who have healed themselves. Expand your beliefs.

Lol so pretty much what every human identity has done when faced with their True Self.

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His insight is valuable. In my younger years between 15-25 years old this mindset helped me out a lot. It helped me prove my value to myself and deal with certain dark moments in my life. So its an admirable mindset to seek to achieve and if someone wants to take this path I won't fault them. I just know in the end that is not where happiness comes from, joy, bliss, etc. The key to joy, bliss, etc, comes from within. I'm satisfied right now in the present moment. If you aren't satisfied you are looking in the wrong direction. I’ve often said that I wish people could realize all their dreams and wealth and fame, so that they could see that it’s not where they’re gonna find their sense of completion. Like many of you, I was concerned about going out into the world and doing something bigger than myself, until someone smarter than myself made me realize that there is nothing bigger than myself. My soul is not contained within the limits of my body, my body is contained within the limitlessness of my soul. - Jim Carey

I use to think like this....but nah I'm sorry I don't agree. 1. Achievement ultimately means nothing. When you die you leave the way you came empty handed. 2. Life is meaningless, so that means all meanings that anyone chooses is just as valid as anyone else's. 3. All those people you mentioned while admirable will never have more value than anyone else as value is subjective. One man's trash is another man's treasures. Everything is just a perspective. 4. I honor your perspective as it was one I use to have, now I realize that you can choose to believe or pursue whatever you want at whatever pace you want. Even mediocre is just an illusion. “I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it's not the answer.” - Jim Carey

I can feel the love from this post. Thanks for posting!!

Very Well Said. Every Single Word. Yes Jesus was something else with that whole dying in the hot Sun while naked, with a crown of thorns, whipped and beaten, spit on, pierced by a spear, dying in agony on a cross. Make me shake my head.

Pain is inevitable as long as we are in 3D. That was really the point of the post. There are ways to deal with this, certain meditations do exist where you can create a separation between the experience of pain and your present awareness. But pain itself is a natural part of this 3D reality/illusion.

Wow Nice! I'm glad you experienced that.

Nice very creative!!

I just read it. It reads more like satire than an actual critical analysis. I mean he even referred to Eckhart Tolle as "garden gnome man." So yeah its a fun read, not to be taken seriously but entertaining nonetheless at his crazy conclusions and analysis.

Thanks for the information. I'll check it out.

You should and you shouldn't. Life is just about balance. Take is seriously enough but don't over do it. Have fun and play, but don't overdo it. Though I would say, your work and play should be the same otherwise you will be miserable.

This only bothers you because you are impatient. I have this same problem from time to time. Any issues you have come from a limited identity. What you think you are, and how you think things should be. 1. I am this, I came from this, I want to be this, This always happens to me, etc... 2. The world is like this, I wish it were like this. And all of this is what you deal with on a day to day basis. This is all you are doing every single day, these two things. You interact with your beliefs about yourself and the world every single day. This is what causes suffering and this is the definition of projection. So how do you get over this? Acceptance. Acceptance is love, Acceptance is Forgiveness. Forgiveness is Freedom. When you can get to a point that you can accept everything that is, then your ego no longer has control, and you can freely choose where you want to go and what you want to do. The Ego is the "character" and thus you play a role. You will always play out that role as long as you believe that is what you are. Every time you try something new and scary, you destroy the character and make a NEW character. As long as you are a character you will always suffer what comes with it. But once you drop all identity...then you have the freedom to be....whatever you choose.

Totally agree. Its why I don't even know why everyone is so afraid sometimes for something to be valued it has to be taken away. Sometimes you have to take one step back before you can take two steps forward. Healing works this way as well. You think you got over something only to realize there are more layers there that were hidden. You even mentioned this in one of your videos, so yeah America needs to go through this Dark Night of the Soul they are having before they can truly awaken to their own selfishness and ignorance. Doesn't bother me because everything is always how it has to be. We should just grab something to eat and drink and enjoy the show.

Well my perspective, because you can create what you want, but hey some like being slaves and I won't judge them for desiring that. But sometimes....isn't it nice to set the terms of your day and what you do based on what you desire?

There is no distinction between dreams and current reality. So if you consider your waking dream real, then your day dreams or sleep dreams are real also. So if you want to consider that a parallel universe, you can. Don't let anyone tell you how to "think." A concept is just a map. So if you want to think of it that way go for it. But yeah everything is connected so even your dreams impact what you think of as reality. I've been running tests shall we say and you can send thoughts to people because we are all connected. If you think about someone enough they will try to contact you. Its very funny.