Razard86

Oh....so you were rapping.....

Good one!!! I personally overcome this by remembering that every action I take comes from good intentions. Along with Infinite Intelligence would never judge you, so why allow the finite version of you to do it? No offense but our finite intelligence is an idiot compared to infinite intelligence lol.

Telling someone there perspective makes you want to vomit in your mouth. Just kidding!! Ignoring the dangers of spirituality. Analysis Paralysis outside of action. One of your favorites Leo: Mistaking achievement for growth. Thinking you got everything figured out. Thinking morality is the key to aspiring to be unconditionally loving. Making promises to yourself and never keeping them. Refusing to self-reflect and instead engaging in projection. Giving your authority away and forgetting that you are the ultimate authority in your reality. Suicidal Ideation. Victim mentality. Learned Helplessness. Living Vicariously through others. Codependency. Imposter syndrome. Pedestalization of Gurus. Cyberstalking. Cyber Bullying. Poor Mental and Physical Diet. Becoming a hermit and not satisfying social desires to connect with others.

Poor guy his starting premise was flawed. He said "It is not simply that what we think happens. We have to choose which thoughts to ACT upon." Choice is a thought. LOL!!!! Poor guy!!! Oh well he will learn one day!!

Your skepticism will stop you from some vital information. I literally got the answer to majority of the questions I had. The reason I did all that research was before I entered spirituality. I wanted answers to things in life so I studied things that didn't make sense. My advice is not IQ based. Literally everything I talk about deals with the emotional. What do you think shadow work is? Dealing with the emotion. What do you think telling a man to integrate with the feminine. The feminine is the feelings aspect of a man. It is his ability to do regular checkups on his emotional health, and be aware of the emotional health of his partner as well. You can't IQ that you have to actually do it. Its something I have already integrated. I'm not perfect but I am totally aware when I am being too logical around a female and have a mental switch where I can be present in the moment. Also I have experience, the two women I mentioned I dated them for over a year. So I have the experience. I told you the techniques work. So then you will ask so why didn't aren't you still with them? The girl is not interested in spirituality. All she wants to do is drink wine, go on trips, and watch low ego movies and gossip. I want something deeper. Also she stole from me more than once. So yeah that relationship was not going to work out. Do you know how rare it is to find a partner who is interested in raising their consciousness? Its not impossible but it is rare. Also I found out what I needed, and I scratched the itch I had. So I no longer desire to pursue a romantic relationship but I understand what makes them work. The majority of the relationships fail because their is lack of accountability between either one or both partners. Accountability is the life blood of all relationships. And when it comes to relationships you need to know how to negotiate. People don't do that and they wonder why it fails. This isn't IQ anything it is tried and true principles that all healthy relationships have. But if you want to run from the advice I have its fine. Whoever can take value from what I have to offer can and who doesn't see it thats fine too.

Well the creator of the universe gotta do something right? LOL.

Nah we not letting you off the hook....lol What was that?

Thats the thing there isn't a real distinction between Gender and Sex. I did gender studies in College and I'm like...they could just use the word Sex. All they have to say is that just because someone has designated Sex they don't have to conform to how they express said sexuality. Then they wanted to make a whole new word called gender....I'm like you don't need a new word!!! Just expand the definition of the original word!!! But its just a personal issue I have it is what it is. LOL.

Why does your Avatar remind me of Hank Hill from the T.V. Show King of the Hill?

Well you have already stated multiple times that you love toxicity. So I'll take that as a compliment. Also notice....you have yet to integrate your Masculine. Its no wonder you are so negative when it comes to the Masculine. Deal with your shadow. Its not toxic it is what it is.

Mode One is not for the faint of heart lol. 90 percent of guys won't use it. But no technique gets you to sex faster if that is what you are looking for LOL!!!! I have watched my friend do it. I did a VERSION of it and it worked for me as well on the first woman I dealt with. Confidence is the single strongest trait a man can have around a woman. Nothing is stronger than that.

Yeah I haven't got Sadhguru's book on Karma. But I do have his audiobook on Inner Engineering. The Karma book didn't interest me because I am not that interested in Karma. What insights does the book bring forth?

1. I am interested in spirituality. I do not have a real desire to enter into a romantic relationship. 2. Your critique about emotional EQ is one you can make because you do not know me personally. My ex stated to me "You are the most emotionally mature man I have met." 3. I am on a different path, majority of dating is about ego fulfillment. So I see the forest for the trees. I really only dabbled because I wanted to lose my virginity. I lost my virginity within a week of following this advice. Also my friends who have more experience come to me for advice and have tried out the concepts in the books I have recommended. It works. Any hesitancy you have well its warranted. You have to decide for yourself. But my major talent is in research and getting to the truth. But hey what do I know I am just some guy on the internet? LOL. Also I am far from perfect, but I own my issues. I even know the best way to resolve disputes between people. Look up a book called Never Split The Difference. https://www.google.com/search?q=Never+Split+The+Difference&rlz=1C1VDKB_enUS991US992&oq=Never+Split+The+Difference&aqs=chrome..69i57.4347j0j15&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Its the best strategy to resolve all conflicts and reach a resolution. But hey... I'm just some guy on the internet.

Now Atomic Attraction is very good at keeping spice in the relationship. It also reveals the paradoxical relationship between making a woman feel safe, and how that lowers attraction, and keeping your woman guessing which increases attraction. Its up to you how you use this information but this book is factual.

No where near as much as my friend. Majority of my experience comes from interviews, and research. But I will say, I used the material I learned ONE time and got results the first time. I used it a second time and got immediate results the second time. I also had a woman who basically agreed with everything Rom Wills pretty much said. Rom wrote a book for women and if I told you what was in there as a man you would agree with what he says to women about what men want. These gurus cracked the code. Their perspective actually works. If you follow what they say you CAN get you a woman who looks like an 8 out of 10 or higher. Problem is....how you choose to navigate the relationship that is on you. My issue is 99% of relationships are started from feelings lack. Majority of relationships among us humans is co-dependent. Co-dependent relationships are toxic and doomed before they even start.

Lol I'm not trying to do that to you but that is what reality is. We cannot escape this game of life. But yeah I think there was a miscommunication earlier. If you go back and read my earlier response I said I don't play these ego games. The reason the beginning of a relationship is games, (and we will take away the context of everything being a game to make this point) is because when people are nervous they are not as authentic. So even if you for example tried to be as authentic as possible in the beginning the other person unlikely to be because they are nervous. Also you could scare them away, so you kind of have to reveal bits and pieces of yourself and let them slowly warm up to you. A guy like me comes on strong lol. I don't like that part, or the other stages that are a part of the dating game. I'm impatient and like to get to the part where both people can just be authentically themselves. So the quote I shared was what I said my friend says. And he is right. If you go to the link a Dating Guru did a good job of mapping out the stages of relationships. Notice it has stages....like a video game!!! LOL. Anyway I seek to transcend the game...but I know that is foolishness. We can't transcend it. All we can do is create a new game.

I agree let her go. If she is for you it will eventually happen.

Exactly you get it. I don't push the lying bit because of my preference. But nobody has to agree with me. If they want to lie, they can take that path and accept the consequences that come with that. Or take my route and accept the consequences that come with that. I just know that when a man is honest he stands apart. But they can play the game however they want to play it.

Right now you are playing a game arguing with me. All distinction is a game. Calling yourself the game does not take away from you playing it. Everything you just said is a strategy. Unconditional love is a strategy. Narcissism is a strategy. Solitude is a strategy. You cannot run from a strategy. Right now you arguing about which strategy (set of actions) is better. So now you are moralizing which again is a game. Have you looked up what is called debate tactics? Methods of persuasion? That is called the debate game. Saying I am the game is an attempt to claim superiority to the game. You are the game, and that is why you cannot supercede the game. Because the game is YOU!!! By your own authority you have limited yourself to the game. The only way to not play the game, the duality game is to not exist in this duality. So please...stop it you cannot escape this paradigm. This is ancient knowledge. Even Sadhguru talks about this. Its called the path of playfulness. Enlightened masters would laugh right now at how serious you are being lighten up. Its all a mind game. The game of Universal Mind.

All of life is a game. Literally you cannot escape this. All of life is a game. It is an infinity game that is expressed in the world of duality. If you cannot see this....I don't know what to tell you. Its a mind game, of universal mind. You can't avoid the game, no matter what you do. Everything you do is literally a strategy. A refusal to play games is literally a strategy in the game. So yeah I hope you can actually see this.

Check this video out. The theme is at the root of conflict between men and women lol. If you can figure out this one theme, it will create a paradigm shift in all your future interactions with women. A very logic type man would REALLY need to see this video. Obviously this is an extreme example but sometimes extreme examples are needed to spell things out blatantly lol. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg&t=1s Also....there are relationships where the roles are reversed. The purpose of this video is to teach you to understand when you are in a conversation where the person doesn't want you to fix it, or be in your logical mind, but to meet them in the feminine and connect emotionally. This is my weakness but something I can catch myself doing.

There ya go, that's all I am saying. I was actually in this situation and I am telling you she will find out. LOL. Nobody is a superstar on their first attempt and if that girl is pretty and has had her fair share of romps in the bedroom she will figure out real quick. I use to believe in all the fear mongering that people spread around but after I did it myself and took that leap of faith I found out...it wasn't what everyone thought it was. Besides...after you have sex one time....you are no longer a virgin lol.

Let's enjoy the mystery.

Bliss, Ecstacy, Butters.

It's all conditioning. There is no distinction of anything. All discussion of distinction is ultimately just the game we play, called the separation game. All games are just infinity games, even saying everything is One is itself a distinction because everything comes from Nothing. So to be One means there has to be One Thing. So now that we got that out of the way. Anything we say...will just be a perspective. So....well....I vote its conditioning. I also like Osho's perspective. 'https://www.oshonews.com/2015/10/06/homosexuality-lesbianism/ I think the union of man and woman is the greatest spiritual test because it forces more development. Here is a key insight. The Masculine and the Feminine do not understand each other. They need each other, they complete each other, but they do not understand each other. But if they understood each other, they would be each other. But the cool thing about them is they are able to trust each other, and accept each other, without having that understanding. For a man to truly understand a woman, he has to integrate his feminine. For a woman to truly understand a man she has to integrate her masculine. So the male female relationship presents the most room to grow. With same sex relationships its just issues with personality and values, but outside of that there is no real friction. But hey, if you don't want all that friction and you just want someone who will understand you easier, have at it. Also you have the feminine and masculine within you so you have experience that conflict internally. Where you want to express your love for someone, but logically it will be at a cost to you. Logic= Masculine Desire to express= Feminine. Ultimately what you decide....picks the one you side with within.