Razard86

You are always in control, even when you think you are not. I left out some stuff that happened when I had God realization. What I discovered is any lack of control is an illusion. If you surrender to what is, you will always be in control. Our inability to be in control comes from resistance. I'm not saying it is easy to do, because it is divergent from our natural conditioning. But if we look at any situation we have ever had, resistance to what is always lies at the heart the center of it. No offense by the way I predicted this would probably happen because to take psychedelics safely you cannot be someone who desires to be in control. Psychedelics main thing is they take you for a trip, of which you have little control but the secret is they actually reveal how reality works if you pay close attention, and I mean REALLY close attention. Don't get lost in the visuals or the sensations. Pay attention to how your thoughts, beliefs, emotions and resistance influence the trip. It will reveal to you that your "life" works the exact same way. So if you are depressed and your depression lies on control, a psychedelic will scare the shit out of you especially if you are searching for the truth. If you just want to have fun and feel love it will give you that. A psychedelic is the ultimate mirror, it only gives your reflection. Now with all that said.... I think we need to encourage micro dosing first if people wanna try it. We shouldn't encourage EGO DEATH so much. Because honestly...nothing is scarier than Ultimate Truth for the EGO lol.

Its very simple. Right now you are aware. Anything outside of aware, is delusion. Shapes colors, smells, sensations they are all delusions because they come and go. What never goes? Awareness. You can't even say sleep is a loss of awareness because you are aware you went to sleep, which you can only do if you are still aware. Once you realize that you are awareness, then you realize you cannot die, and nothing can actually harm you. Once you realize that....then you can experience any trip and not be bothered by it. But you cannot conceptualize this, you need to KNOW this from the depths of your being. That is what God Realization is, that your being, your awareness is all that is there. Psychedelics help you reach it by getting you to drop attachments, mainly to your identity such as to the body, sight, hearing, smelling, feeling, none of that is you, its an expression of you, but not you. You are just awareness, the background of all sensations. Its that simple.

I love that response very witty, it shows you are high in social intelligence. I wouldn't want to engage in that behavior. Again what is a waste of time or not again is just a perspective, I'm glad we allow people freedom to waste their time because anything could be argued to be a waste (its why many schools have taken art out of their budget and focused on math and reading) I mean you could argue comedy, sports, etc are wastes of time. There is little difference between debate/discussion outside of debate looks for contrast differences, whereas discussion tends to look for commonality/shared ground. But yes practicing what you preach is good, but if you observe yourself closely...you'll see you violate it whenever you are not conscious (for such is the human condition) so its good for us to remember this. But hey...what do I know anyway?

You just did what you told him not to do. Let him believe whatever he wants to believe. I mean it is a terrible waste of your energy. I'm not being coy by the way...just pointing it out.

That's a projection. The man could start a podcast debunking (even though its an illusion) black pillers and if he is entertaining and creative enough could make a living off of it.

.......This isn't even a thread. Also you can't debunk anything absolutely, all you can do is poke holes. If anything could actually be debunked then reality would not be impermanent. Reality is never one thing, and thus any conclusions and beliefs can be drawn from it. Even if I am 80% right about something, I'm still 20% wrong. If a person in there life experience has had the 20% happen to them, nothing I say will change their mind. Because while in general on a global scale that something does not occur 80% of the time, for that person in their direct experience its a daily occurrence. So even a person who is deluded on prevalence, is not wrong in totality, they are just wrong on its frequency and scale. So again...you are just trapped in the illusion of logic. There are an infinite number of ways of looking at something, and how you look at something has nothing to do with the something, but has everything to do with your preferences and beliefs. You only experience yourself, you have never experienced anything else.

I agree with everything you said here. Men are trained or conditioned to see everything as their responsibility. So as a result they take on way too much, this is slowly changing with the Gender/Sex Debate currently going on right now so a lot of things are going to change fast (and be confusing for a lot of people) but definitely if he is up front and direct on what his intentions are then he is not responsible for how the girl takes it. I've seen men tell a woman his intentions, but she tells herself he is just shy. When later on he leaves she accuses him of leading her on when he told her several times that he wasn't looking for anything serious and didn't want to be exclusive. A man who thinks he is responsible for making her happy would try to appease her, when in reality her tears are her own creation. All we can do in life is communicate the best way we can, and how people take or interpret said communication is their own problem. We can help and guide others and be there for those who can't do for themselves (kids, disabilities etc) but we also need to care for ourselves. Its okay for a Man to care about himself, its this message not being spread enough which is why so many men are depressed and keep killing themselves.

Exactly, also you know how when some people get mad at someone they think like this? Some people just go through with it. Don't get me started on how humans think human death is so bad, yet we kill bugs all the time. From the Bugs perspectives we are a threat, something that is dangerous to them. But to us, they are just an annoyance to be eliminated or be shooed away. Its all just a perspective. Two people can watch Batman and the Joker. One may think the Joker is the true hero, another Batman. Joker =chaos, Batman= order. Some want to watch it all burn because they are nihilistic, others understand that there is no meaning and decide to create their own meaning which Batman does. The Joker is drawn to Batman because the Joker realizes Batman sees past the illusion that society creates, but Batman believes that illusion should be allowed to exist and only dispelled by the free will of those enjoying it. Joker wants to unveil the illusion, Batman wants to preserve it. They are both crazy/insane because anyone that sees past the illusion is considered insane. Joker gives a good joke to describe him and Batman. It's all just perspective at the end of the day, based all on falsehood because everything is YOU. Reality is like a body that goes ewww when a part of itself looks at itself and goes ohh I like that though. So probe away, all life is just probing itself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIZfqWAPrHg Now I had a near death experience (not like how most other NDE's mine was basically a loose attachment to my body) which the result lasted for 2 weeks. That along with a kundalini awakening showed me that your true nature in the present is Blissful. But now that my attachment to my body has become strong again (what we would consider normal existence) when I focus on the now I feel peace, but the blissful feeling that is naturally generated is no longer felt. Now I can think or focus on loving thoughts and gratitude and feel momentary bliss, but my prior experience was that my natural feeling without those actions was blissful. So while I hear what Spira is saying, most people aren't looking for that peace, they want that bliss. The only way it seems to me to attain that as a natural state is to clear through your traumas, so the blockages in the body can open up and you can attain that state as a default state. Until then....you will only feel peace. Peace isn't bad but it doesn't compare to bliss.

I disagree.

Interesting.

That is what I did, but also one of the best points Leo made that I loved is he said because everything is you, you can connect with it at a level you couldn't if it wasn't you. So basically you can get LOST in yourself. You can immerse yourself so deeply in anything as a result. So yeah, I don't think anything is better than that perspective. Two romantic partners if they can reach the highest heights of connection with each other can reach levels of connection that would be impossible if they were truly separate. Great thing to think about and even potentially aim for, but not just with romantic relationships, but with anything music, dancing, drawing, gaming, thinking, watching, singing, whatever you want you can become one with it.

I never left!!

Jim Crow or bans on gay rights...I doubt that is happening. Majority of the young generation is pro gay rights so even if some states try it wouldn't last long. Medicare, Social Security, and Obamacare is another story especially the first two. America has mismanaged its tax dollars so America does not have enough tax dollars to fund Medicare, Medicaid, or Social Security for the Millennial Generation. If you don't save and prepare for retirement you are going to work until you die in America. Sounds fun huh?

Its interesting how you just said some stuff that didn't pertain to what I said. I see alot of this on the forums. Again when my attachment was loosed from my body, my natural state was bliss, esctasy, overwhelming. It was non-stop, in fact it started to become painful and too much. As my attachment started to tighten back to my body, because my body had healed I lost access to this state. I was in this state for 2 weeks. So it wasn't transitory and what it showed was the body blocks you from your natural state of blissful awareness. This bliss is orgasmic as well and it never stops. It just keeps going. But you didn't notice that...because you didn't read to comprehend and just read to respond. So you responded...to what wasn't there.

You cannot see this because you don't want to see this but everything in life has proven this to you over and over. Some people like to exercise others don't. Some people get turned on by pain, others don't. Some people are willing to risk their life for their loved ones, and even strangers, other don't. Some people like sweets, some people hate sweets. The list goes on. There are a small group of people who get off (sexual arousal) off of torture. Whatever crazy thing you can think of, somebody likes it. So like/dislike is just a personal preference. You refuse to see because you believe your perspective is the RIGHT perspective. If you could see past that, you would see ALL the evidence around you. Rapist disagree, serial killers disagree, sadists disagree, masochists disagree. There are people who eat Cow Dung. The list goes on. Obviously I'm not advocating rape or serial killers, but I am just saying...that whatever thing you can think of, there is a person who likes it. No matter how deranged or crazy we personally may think it is.

If you were...you would have never got attached to begin with. When you drive past a homeless man, you are detached from his outcome and thus you don't try to influence it. If you were not detached from his outcome, you will attempt to influence it by offering aid in whatever way you see fit. To offer advice is to attempt to influence an outcome which is attachment. You responding right now to me shows you are still attached. I thank you for your attachment because it shows you care.

Well your room doesn't need to be perfectly clean, just relatively clean. When I say room clean though finances and lifestyle is a small part. I'm mostly talking about things like abandonment issues, the need to be right, unable to assert yourself, accountability, knowing what you want in a partner/which is what you want from yourself so being the things you want in your partner.

That's not what I'm talking about Leo. I'm talking about long-term. If it's pick sure, but no guy wants to handle that burden for his entire life. He would like a woman that he can share the role of conversing with. I've met guys and been the guy whose job it is to do that in a long term relationship and the only time it works is if the woman likes to hear you speak, or you guys like to DO things together. Its called a relationship= Relate to each other. If two people cannot relate its not going to last. Either you like to converse (share ideas, emotions), or you are sharing activities. If you cannot sustainably do either and are only together for sex, that is not going to last. It will however be fun short-term. Booty calls are fun, but eventually you will want something more.

I believe this only happens with girls who are bad at communication. Some girls are pretty but not well read, thoughtful or opiniated. So even when you try to have mundane conversations she can't really offer anything. I've learned that you can bring up topics like family, or funny things you've notice about people, or even tease her about herself like funny things she does, but this is usually only good for short-term relationships. I've noticed when a girl is not as socially developed in conversation, but the guy is, outside of shared interests in activities that relationship is not going to go anywhere. I think guys need to stop trying to force relationships with women who they don't naturally connect with ( I've done this in the past) and the first thing a guy needs to see if the conversation flows. Now some girls are quiet and likes to hear a guy talk and that can work, but I prefer the back forth. With all that said, to each their own. This is just my opinion.

Exactly its one thing to realize something, its another to actually implement it. Its funny how things are set in place in life to make changing your pattern difficult. To change yourself is to kill the previous identity you had and that is the most difficult thing you can do. Nothing in life is more difficult than that. Because it impacts not just yourself, but those around you as well.

John was a young man who saw himself as honest, hard-working, and well-intentioned. His entire life he sought to keep his word to others to the best of his ability and often made promises with others he did not want too but kept his word to all those that he did. He prided himself on how congruent he was in both word, thought and deed. He enjoyed an impeccable reputation among those who knew him as an honest man and to the outside world he was. But John had one issue, which was related to him taking on promises from other people at times that he did not wish to make. John tended to put others before him often to his detriment. He believed that Sacrifice was noble and did it often, and would get frustrated when he saw the lack of this trait in others. He always believed that he held himself accountable, often looking for any aspects of himself he thought were unaligned and put effort to bring them into alignment but one aspect of himself eluded him for years. You see John did not realize that he did not keep his word to himself. Often he would make plans to do certain things, and then do something else coming up with an excuse why he wouldn't do it. He would do something else out of fear because he did not think he was capable of accomplishing it, which means he felt unworthy. This unworthiness is also why he didn't honor the promises he made to himself because he didn't think he was worthy of having that promise fulfilled, as a result others in his life would take advantage of him and break their promises to him just like he did to himself. Whenever he was angry at "others" for not honoring their deals with him, he was really lashing out at the feelings he held toward himself internally and projecting it out onto "others." John needed to realize he was worthy of respect, that he needed to honor his word to himself, and not allow others to take advantage of him. He must hold himself to the same standards internally that he would like to see externally. Your world just reflects back what is hidden deep inside, whenever something bothers you its an alarm to look inward. Our world is constantly our teacher guiding us to the deep recesses of our shadow beckoning us to bring it into the light. Reality is constantly enlightening you, bringing to light the darkness you house inside which allows you to ever shine more bright.

Yeah that was a typo thanks for that I was thinking of a generic name to use that most people have and was debating between John and Sam lol I'll correct it

Yeah Ego is ridiculously sneaky. Without it we cannot function in 3D, but as long as we identify with it we will suffer whatever the ego identifies with. Until we are rid of emotional triggers, we are still stuck in Ego. Ego will always disrupt our ability to be present and not entangled with whatever stories it is creating.

I've heard a lot of crazy stories about 4chan. That site is pretty infamous, too many crazy stories associated with them, from hacking, leaks, etc. stories.