Razard86

You know I love you but that's the point I'm saying reality literally works off your identity. You can be too open as well. Watch this video by Mooji, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qsI92OCg4I once you take something on and put your attention on it you can give it power. There is nothing more powerful than you. Nothing. That is the whole point of the Spiritual Path, that is what psychedelics teach. Notice this one thing, everything you been through...you are still here. So where is the danger? People who have had the worst bad trips ever, some people basically got transported to Hell. I remember Leo said he heard someone got strapped to a chair and was tortured. Guess....what? They are still here. We only suffer our perception of an event. Pain is a sense of the body, and pain is an emotional fear. Notice they come and go. This means they are not permanent but impermanent. How can something that comes and goes, be greater than the source it arises from which never comes and goes but is always there? The problem is we get lost in those sensations....and then when it leaves...we think about when it will come back thus creating the sensation again. We can do this for eternity. This is why I say you are always in control, even when you believe you are not. Why? Because you are always here...always.

The one thing I do know and you agree is that your reality is filtered through your beliefs. I'm just showing the OP that if people can heal themselves with belief, they can curse themselves as well. I also showed that a quote on quote healer cannot heal you against your will. So what is the common denominator with healing? Your belief. If that wasn't a sign that you are God....I don't know what else is.....

I've had experiences of seeing visions and my third eye opening, I've experienced healing, I've even experienced some of what you are talking about as far as things seeming to happen like events etc. The point is your beliefs influence the reality you experience. If all of life is an illusion, that means all of my experiences are an illusion. Even New Age Spirituality admits that this life is an illusion. So that means....all those gifts are an illusion. Its no different than all of us playing an open world game and we each have different abilites....in the end all an illusion when you put the controller down and walk away from the screen. Nothing is happening. The End. Again even if we don't go that deep. I just told you people can heal with their beliefs, R.J. Spina did it, Joe Dispenza did it, and many more. So on a relative level there is PROOF that your identity has the ability to change said reality. So how do you believe that would work in the opposite? If you can heal yourself with belief, OBVIOUSLY you can curse yourself. Your denial....is sadly...comical at this point. You don't want help you want attention.

You literally didn't try to understand at all....I literally showed you that people can heal themselves, and even make themselves blind by their belief and you just compared it to mental illness? Why do I even try......oh my gosh this is too much. I guess I am supposed to laugh at this point? Why is the denial so strong? I really don't get it!! I gave you all that....and that was your response? ....sigh....

I can send you people in a psyche ward saying the same thing. Like I said before if you believe in curses then you are cursed. You have no clue how reality works. You cannot be cursed against your will. Reality reflects your beliefs. It doesn't matter if you didn't believe in curses before. If I lose a fight and still think I can lose a fight then I will lose a fight. Reality is a mirror, so I don't doubt you are cursed, because you believe you are. How do you think healing works? You have to believe it!! A healer heals others as a catalyst. They never actually heal the person, the person HEALS THEMSELF. http://www.jesuswalk.com/luke/032-hem.htm Go read up on anybody who has actually healed themselves and they will tell you that if YOU don't believe then you cannot be healed. If you notice this is why placebo is so got damn powerful. https://www.brainfacts.org/archives/2012/the-power-of-the-placebo Here is a woman with multiple personality disorder where certain identities are blind. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2015/11/24/the-blind-woman-who-switched-personalities-and-could-suddenly-see/ So your identity LITERALLY BUILDS YOUR REALITY. I really do not know how many freaking times I have to say this...its getting old. If you believe you are cursed, you are cursed. If you believe you are blind, your blind, if you believe you are ugly your ugly, and the list goes on.... This guy healed himself. Literally from chest on down paralysis and filmed it. So yes if you believe you are cursed YOU ARE. So go enjoy your curse. When you get tired of that joy ride you will stop giving your power to it and go back to not being cursed.

Kundalini Awakening like psychedelics is reality warping if you reach the Crown Chakra. At that level of consciousness and deep contemplation you can have visions and ego death. If you are not prepared to submit to loss of identification with body then leave that stuff alone.

1. You don't need time to perceive space. 2.I took our gravity because I realized that gravity is a creation of the senses as well. So that was my mistake but gravity is an illusion as well. 3. All experience is illusionary. If we are talking from the relative sense gravity is real but time is a human, societal construct. Humans are the only animals that have a concept of time, and notice how everything still happens the way it needs too. We created time to synchronize our movements.

Saying time exists is like saying a foot exists. A foot is a concept, time is a concept. I can put a drug in your system....and you would lose your sense of time. Your sense of time is just the synchronization of life you feel. Time is just measurement of change. If you are in a dark room and you lose your other senses like touch, smell, taste, you wouldn't have time. For time to exist it would have to be something tangible outside of your senses. But if you have sensory deprivation then there would be no time in your reality...which proves the point...time isn't real.

This post reminds me of this. https://existentialcomics.com/comic/102

Reality reflects whatever we believe in. Since he believes in curses...they are real...FOR HIM. Obviously won't be real for us unless we give power to that belief. I've had crazy visions before but now they won't effect me anymore because my beliefs are grounded. Without beliefs that are grounded....people can allow some crazy things to take place in their life.

@Leo GuraSo what are you saying Leo? I watched your video on Death before. Should I watch it again? I'm definitely confused on this one what you are communicating. Mind explaining? I'll give an example. Obviously I know I can't die because I'm not the body. But let's just say for example's sake I'm in a terrible accident and I'm beheaded. In my experience... after my recent car accident when my attachment was loosened I could feel I was not my body. So I would assume in this example my body would fall and I would just be observing it as if a spoon falling from a table top. Or am I missing something? What are you saying would happen?

You actually believe time exists?......sigh.... https://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/einstein/time/a-matter-of-time But we don't even need that....time is just a measurement, all measurements are imaginary. People like us who believe in physics know that the distinction between past, present and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion. - Albert Einstein.

I agree with everything instead of this one line. It is not a man's requirement to engage in Masculine Containment. He is perfectly fine being by himself and living alone. But everything else I agree with. Also the Masculine Containment Principle is currently in a state of crisis in modern society in dating. While I do agree it works the social and economic conditions and roles of modern society has blurred the lines of that principle and will make it much tougher to create and maintain. Alot of toxicity in relationships between humans comes from mainstream media. Your chances of avoiding such relationships will be based on how independent your partner is from these aspects of mainstream media. The secret is with authenticity you can obtain the heart of anyone. But....because of conditioning they may be to egoic to return the favor. I have learned that people aren't toxic on purpose, they are lost, confused, and full of so much fear/trauma that they cannot even perceive basic reality properly. When I see people complain about gaslighting, lol the narcissist gaslights themselves that is why they gaslight you. They are so full of fear they cannot self-reflect. Anyway until collectively humanity fixes how they construct their social values dating is only going to get worse.

Totally agree, your post shows much maturity.

Anyone here with experience writing fictional content will understand this, or individuals with a psychological background will grasp this easily when it comes to understanding oneness in this example. Harry Potter is J.K. Rowling. For an author to create a character they create the character based on their beliefs about how something should manifest or be. J.K. Rowling had an idealized version of how a main character that is a Wizard should be and created Harry Potter. Harry Potter represents an aspect of J. K. Rowling or a partition. With that being said, you, me, and all of creation in the Universe are just aspects or partitions of Universal Mind. In the same way you can look at every character in the Harry Potter series as an aspect of J.K. Rowling, so are we aspects of Universal Mind. Now if you can understand that Universal Mind is your mind, then everything you see is you. The character that is you (the human you identify as) along with everything you see is the aspects or partitions of God's mind. Which is your mind. Just an interesting way of looking at it.

So basically Leo wants to be Buddha...... he's going at himself pretty hard with all these improvements... maybe next year around this same time he will have a halo glowing behind him!!! LOL. Leo's greatest fear how his teachings are interpreted. https://existentialcomics.com/comic/102

Lol thats called being a player or spinning plates which can get tiring eventually. You would also need to drop those women before they get attached or you get attached.

Sure thing, its funny I shared them a month ago and had a guy attack me trying to discredit me. We all have talents right? My talent is as a researcher. I can find an answer if I want it bad enough. I won't say I'm perfect but I'm good at recognizing my biases and calling myself out. Anyway first thing needs to be understood. No matter how good an expert is not every teaching style/perspective is compatible with you. These books helped me in my direct experience and was verified as well by both men and women by the authors and by people I interviewed. I read hundreds to thousands of articles, watched tons of videos, even spent money on courses in the past, these books are the creme de le creme to me on key specific aspects and these aspects are Attraction, Maintaining Attraction, and Conflict Resolution. When it comes to Attraction I find Rom Wills book Nice Guys and Players is the foundational book for the modern man. It simplifies key concepts and its short and it works. You can get his follow up book if you want Sexual Chemistry also but Nice Guys and Players is fundamental into understanding how women view men sexually/relationship wise. Next Book is Atomic Attraction. Atomic Attraction teaches how to keep a relationship interesting and how push/pull works. It also brings up a unique dynamic on how counterintuitive niceness and toxic behavior impacts women and how to find the median. You don't have to agree with how to do it, but you do need to recognize and understand this concept. Many men will claim women are dumb for this but I'll give you a unique insight I came too. Men are the same way. Women are like this in relationships with people, Men are like this in relationships with things. We all crave excitement and suspense, men just look for it in concepts/things, women in relationships. Lastly Conflict Resolution. This is the PEN/ULTIMATE book about Conflict Resolution I have used it and it works but it takes a willing ego...lol. This book is written by a former FBI Negotiator and teaches how to resolve all conflicts and create win/win results. It is Called Never Split The Difference. I'll send links when I get off work.

He doesn't "need" a girlfriend that's co-dependency. If you want to say he needs to get one to find out he doesn't need one then sure. But nobody needs a girlfriend or boyfriend, and if you think so...well you will find out from experience. Nothing wrong with wanting one, but you need to find out why you want one. Besides most men don't realize, as a man having a girlfriend puts you in a leadership role. Most guys want a relationship, but they don't want the responsibilities that come with it.

I am proud of you, welcome to Spirituality. I am proud to welcome you in. Only trust your direct experience. Now let's see if you can take the next step which is the step of curiosity. While trusting only your direct experience....are you open to testing what Leo is saying and discovering whether it is true for you? Because you cannot awaken conceptually. Concept is only important for 2 things. Integration, and grounding you when reality....stops making sense. A Spiritual seeker with proper conceptual knowledge has a better chance of not falling into derealization/psychosis and if they do have a better chance of recovery. But without the conceptual knowledge is akin to jumping into a bottomless pit with no map to make sense of anything.

In your rush to correct you didn't even read what I said. I called it a concept. A concept is not real. So when did I say it actually happens? If you paid attention when you talked about death Leo responded to you that is not how awakening works. Based on that you can interpret that as when people think they die, Leo is saying that is God awakening. He has also called Death Absolute Love which is what he also calls Awakening. Don't be so quick to correct unless you first understand.

....here we go again. You aren't suffering anything but your perspective. Derealization is the FEAR of what you know is true. Everything you said of being the only thing that is here, and that everything you see is illusion IS TRUE. The quote on quote mental disorder is the belief that is somehow bad. As long as you believe it is bad, you suffer. That's it!! The moment you realize how wonderful it is that it is an illusion you can't suffer it anymore. 1. You stop taking life so seriously, its a freaking illusion. 2. You stop judging it, because its illusionary. 3. You realize it is meaningless, so you can give it WHATEVER MEANING YOU WANT. 4. Because it is an illusion you are totally free, that is true freedom because it is not real!! 5. You are in the greatest virtual reality ever created, if I made a virtual reality that was very real you wouldn't suffer because you know it is illusionary. If you could apply the same perspective to what you call your life...then no more suffering. But you can't, you don't want your entire life to be an illusion. That scares you, which means you are still too attached, and you still think your ego is you. This also means you are very selfish and care too much about your fake identity that you think is you.

@Leo Gura based on your responses awakening= the concept of death. When someone quote on quote dies they are really just awakening.

I get what you are saying....you can become so smart/logical that it blocks you from the illogical nature of reality. The basis of nature is beyond the limits of logic as you have said logic was created by infinity. Logic is a limitation. If you refuse to give up logic you will never reach God. The Spiritual Path is really the path of the insane. Logic is based on survival and selfishness. Spirituality is about doing the opposite. Releasing all identity and exploring the unknown. But its hard for someone attached to reason to do it. I think I told you in the past my gateway video into Spirituality through you was the Everyone Operates From Good Intentions. I was only able to do that, through a leap of faith. It made me laugh because my first reaction was "this is B.S." but since I knew about bias from psychology I had an intuitive feeling to hear you out. Then when I pushed play you were like 'Most people would turn off the video at this point." I was like YEAH I ALMOST DID!!! Even after the video I was only half convinced but I decided to try to look at life from that lens as an experiment...and I saw it! So yeah...people who are too logical will suffer the confines of that logic. Love isn't restricted to logic, Love is for its own sake.

Yes we are selfish because we love ourselves. We don't want to change because we love the way we are. Facing death as you have revealed how much you love yourself. Isn't it wonderful to realize how much you love yourself exactly as you are? Your whole life has revealed to you how much you love yourself but we sometimes get distracted by situations and think we want them to change....when we really do not because if we did, we would change. We don't want to change, because we love the way we are. We have never done or been anyway opposite to who we wanted to be. We want situations to change, without being the change. Situations just reflect what we are, as long as we are too attached to what we are (identity) we won't get the change we desire. So we are selfish, because of love. Its all love. I'm glad you got to experience how wonderful you are!!! I'm sure your self-respect has jumped leaps and bounds and you saw the power of surrender. Femininity is so strong, because it shows how powerful trust, and release of control is to what is. A man cannot become God without embracing his feminine side and releasing his Masculine desire for control and acceptance to what is. If women want men to change....lol we need to bring back the rite of passage of old where men had to do these ceremonies in indigenous tribes.