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If this was true....why is Leo still here? Did you forget that Leo had complete Ego annihilation. You can watch where he talks about it here. https://www.actualized.org/insights/dpt-the-other-god-molecule So....ask yourself if he got annihilated how did he return? That should give you a clue.

"Comparison is the thief of all joy"- Theodore Roosevelt You are born a certain height, a certain weight, in a certain family, in a certain generation, in a certain culture. You met specific people and have had specific experiences all of which has shaped you. So why in the hell are you comparing yourself to others? Life is all about perspective. Its all how you look at it. I'll give an example. Mugsy Bogues is the shortest NBA Basketball player in NBA History. If he spent his time comparing himself to other players he would have never made it to the pros. Look at the odds to understand how hard it is to make the NBA and understand what the man accomplished is basically the impossible. http://www.thesportdigest.com/archive/article/what-are-odds-becoming-professional-athlete#:~:text=03% chance of a pro,players will eventually be drafted. Here is a video I found a couple years ago that had the same insight I had. If you compare Mugsy to Shaq Mugsy exceeded his potential where Shaq did not even reach his full potential. Yet Shaq is richer, and more famous than Mugsy. One way of looking at life is that your success is not based on money, but on how far you were able to push and develop yourself. You can judge success on money, but you could also judge it based on growth. It is what it is. Life is just a perspective, that is all it will ever be for you and every human before and after. So now that we got that out of the way, understand that comparing yourself to anyone is basically the definition of not just insanity. Its a lie. On the relative level your path, your gifts, and perspective are so unique you really can't compare. You can find similarities but there is no comparison. Its like comparing a corvette https://www.caranddriver.com/features/g22035705/fully-vetted-the-visual-history-of-the-chevrolet-corvette/ To a Honda Accord https://www.manchesterhonda.com/the-honda-accord-visual-history-since-its-birth/ Each have their perks and limitations and excel in their own rights. So find your high points, and work on your low points but accept where you are RIGHT NOW. Some questions to consider so you can figure out your path. 1. What would I do for free everyday? Focus on that. 2. What are some things I want to improve upon? Work on that as well. 3. How do I appreciate where I am at as I continue my journey? 4. Lastly what is my ultimate goal in life? Examples: I live life to be happy, I live life to build a legacy, I live life to share love and inspiration, I live life to serve others, I live life to have as much fun and experience as I can, I live life to learn as much as I can, I live life in search of ultimate truth, I live life to enjoy the present, I live life to teach and train others, I live life to become the best in the world at something, etc. etc. Notice that all those above ultimate goals....all of them are valid life goals and you could think of more examples if you want. You are the author of your life, the actor, the script writer, the stage hand, the sound track composer, and the director. So write a story that you can enjoy.

1. Spirituality is about enhancing life. If you master meditation you no longer will suffer mentally as suffering is caused by attachment to thoughts. Shut off the mind, no longer have to deal with suffering your perspective. This post you just made...is an example of the character you think you are complaining that they don't like Spirituality. The character wants a reward now, it also wants to be different and superior. 2. Another thing about Spirituality. If you master meditation and purify your body, then you will release your kundalini, and will be in a blissful state. So you will walk around in Bliss that you can control whenever you want too. What you thought those monks were just meditating for no reason? Hah!! They did all that meditation so they can control their mind and become unlimited, and so they can feel good walking around in life because they can feel bliss at a whim. But again...if you don't want to do Spirituality don't!!! Go enjoy materialism, go suffer mentally, when you are ready for Spirituality you'll do it. Maybe in some other life time or something. P.S. Your current life sets up your next life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-43EJSiNECg&ab_channel=MasculineFrame

I agree makes sense to me!!

That Toad done humbled the hell out of Mike Tyson he is out here doing therapy!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRsaPt-VNsQ&ab_channel=PodcastnOut

Lol I know hahaah went right over his head.

Instead of guessing go watch some more of the podcasts. The guy is going around telling everybody about the toad lol. But this is the first video I have seen where he stated he realized he was God. All the other podcasts he said he met God lol.

He also mentioned other Hindu Masters have experienced this and that apparently Buddha did. I know Jesus experienced it as I have referenced the Bible verse on the forums. Pretty interesting.

While this is all true....your comments, my comments, and all of Actualized.Org is illusion as well. So technically from that logic...he is just doing what we are doing. Also Michael...he is you, so....why are you being so mean to yourself? Show yourself some love!!

A couple of themes that Psychedelics teach....I learned all this on one trip, I wonder how much more I will learn from later. 1. Everything is Love. A psychedelic reveals to you that your senses are dulled and that is why you cannot perceive all the love around you. Notice how the moment your Consciousness increases you can't help but laugh, cry tears of joy, and just bask in the beauty of creation/life. This reveals you only suffer your state of perception and nothing else. 2. A high enough dosage you learn that you are not in control, and that you must submit. You overcome your fear by trusting in a force that is greater than your ego. 3. Life is just simply a bunch of diverse sensations you are always experiencing and these experiences are all you. The rest is just the story you weave to say "this is my life, and this is what happened to me. You learn through close observation that your life is no different than a psychedelic trip. The psychedelic trip is just faster lol. You can live a whole lifetime in one trip. 4. It shows you what Death is, it allows you to experience the feeling of finitude being accomplished...and also reveals that the finitude was an illusion and that you are infinite. Instead of waiting till that moment comes you get to experience it before. 5. You learn that you know nothing, and that you are blind and have always been blind. You learn to trust your intuition more. 6. You learn you are a hypocrite, and everything that triggers you is the part of yourself you don't like. 7. You learn to appreciate the small things, and you learn that you create all meaning, so everything is meaningless until you inject meaning into it. To be dead is to be meaningless, to have meaning is to live. So you are life, without you...everything is dead. This is why attention is energy, it is the energy of life. Whatever you ignore DOES NOT EXIST in your reality, but whatever you pay attention to does. Life is existence, Life is attention, Attention is Love.

You get it!!! Great comment!! Now go forth and embody it!!

Exactly

Its sad that the default response to people when they don't like someone is to threaten to kill them. Pretty sad. But hey death is Infinite Love!!! LOL

That is just the character (the false you) that feels this way. The real you loves everything. Watch this video. You are just suffering your thoughts. You only suffer your thoughts in life. How you interpret your experience in life determines how life feels. https://youtu.be/EokHiVt0KeU

Life is a constant improvisation. This is what it means when it is said that life is impermanent. You can't grasp it because with each passing moment it is shifting. Its like I give you a music script on how a song is going to be played so you can follow along in the audience when you are listening and as you are listening they keep adding this and taking that away over and over ever so slightly. Every time you think you finally caught on it shifts every so slightly again until one day you realize...its playing an entirely different song!!! This change is never predictable either, one day its slow, next day its fast, sometimes it picks up or slows down each moment, sometimes it keeps the same pace of change for week or months. This is why no matter what logic you use, it will always be a generalization. Don't cling to your logic, use it for a general outlook, but it will never be what it appears to be because it is impermanent. Life is so beautiful when you can finally understand this. There is no control, there never was. Just explore life, that is why you are here. Explore explore and explore some more.

A way to understand how this is beneficial is you realize that because everything is meaningless you DO NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING. So anything you do is because you WANT TOO. Don't get rid of your desires, just don't be attached to them. You severe attachment to them by realizing they don't matter and you are just freely living life on your terms without any judgment on how you are supposed to be. You choose what you want to be and just be that. Basically there is no script, you write your own!! Its so amazing to realize that!! And if you want to flow, have no script at all just improvise in the present moment. Like improvisational comedy or jazz, or freestyle in rap, you are presently just happening with no forethought or plan. That would be the ultimate form of a life lived in the present.

This was something I came to the realization one day through deep introspection sometime last year and I love the power of this video to explain this concept. Its so obvious but many intellectual types will have to realize this for themselves. All those thoughts and rationalizations are truly meaningless. All my thoughts and opinions are crap, just mere illusion to enjoy playing a character. My entire life is meaningless, and I'm the one creating meaning crafting interpretation after interpretation over and over. Every human is a creator, you create a life through interpretation. Your life is just a perspective with judgments, beliefs, and interpretations. This is how you create yourself, its funny because you are your greatest creation. Yourself as a concept is such a great creation you fool yourself into thinking it is true. You have a storyline of your childhood, teenage years, later adulthood. Opinion on this and that all wrapped up in your childhood trauma, and past everyday struggles all the way up to today. Its so convincing and wonderful, its awe inspiring. All enlightenment is, realizing the character you have been playing, the storyline, the setting, the themes in your story, and realizing that everything around you, you constructed it to have a life. LOL God wants to have a life so God constructed you. HAHHAHAHA its so freaking funny. Anyway watch the video and take from it what you will. Maybe one day you will see how hilarious it is!! The old me "I went through so much trials and tribulations!!" Current me" Lol you made that whole thing up through interpretation." I now realize the importance of pain also, my new task or goal is to make a deep connection with pain. I believe it is the last real attachment I have. So I will focus on that. I realize my desire to alleviate the pain and suffering of others is because I judge pain as bad. I need to work on that and I will. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EokHiVt0KeU&t=84s&ab_channel=Actualized.org

The answer is both. Its paradoxical but its the truth. The renouncement of all attachments allows you to truly cherish life and all that is. Aim for this and you will be truly free. I'm almost there not quite there but I'm getting there myself.

The word can't is character. All can't statements no matter what they are is character. How are you named God is here and you are saying can't? There is only one exception, God cannot be anything other than Love, Truth, and Wisdom. Outside of that all can't statements are character statements.

From now on I am going to stop using the word ego, I believe it is not a sufficient word to drive home the point I think people are missing. From now on I am just going to substitute the word character for ego. So what we suffer in life is the character, the lens from which we view reality. This is what they mean by karma, which means memory and also can be translated as action. You act out of memory, and the memory you act of is the character you constructed. Enlightenment is the trascendence of karma because you are aware that all interpretation is just the character. Its very simple.

Because its the only way to have a life! You can't have a life without this! Even your question itself is the answer!! Look at the pain you express so eloquently in those words!! It means you still feel its real!! That means you still have a life!! Enlightenment is the understanding that you were never alive!!! LOL!! You can only have a life if you believe all those thoughts and emotions!!

Yes and this is why I resist people pushing Tate onto people. Tate is like the hot girl that every guy falls for but is toxic and if you date her and fall under her spell she ruins your life. Tate dangles his popularity and riches and tells guys if you follow my example you too can have what I have....as he himself is searching just as much as the next guy. The secret that nobody tells you is that every single human is searching for themselves. Nobody is immune to this. You search until you find yourself. This is why Enlightenment and Spirituality is pushed. Because once you achieve it, you stop searching. But I have come to realize that it is a process, you cannot pressure of force people to do it. Even when you tell them what it is, they have to go burn their karma/chase the world until they realize that it won't fufill them. They don't realize that everything they chase is just an experience. Being physically fit, is just an experience. Being rich is just an experience. Being smart is just an experience. Sex is just an experience. Being angry, sad, frustrated, glad these are all experiences. Once you have achieved all this...you will still feel empty. You will wonder why...so at this point you will either choose to keep trying to distract yourself from this feeling, or you will choose to investigate this emptiness. The irony is....emptiness is WHAT you are. The nothing that people talk about what God is? That emptiness is you. Once you are able to find and realize that emptiness, then you become God in the flesh or enlightened as they say. Once you accomplish that, all your experiences dramatically change and now you can enjoy the present moment. Until you make this discovery everything will feel dead, but once you truly discover yourself as God everything feels alive. But its fine...I have to be okay with people going through the various stages. I wish you nothing but peace as you travel that path. Just look up the word dopamine hit to understand the nature of this beast. You reach a goal, you get a dopamine hit, then it resets and you go again.

Yeah pretty much sums up the positive aspects of the redpill/manosphere, what isn't told is they will say a lot of this with resentment undertones, and adversarial dispositions against society and modern women. I know why it is happening but doesn't mean I like it. I really don't want young men to connect with the bitterness of these older men. They should have the opportunity to live their life with a fresh slate.

It is the communicator's job to make themselves clear. If you think I have misunderstood you then clarify where I have misunderstood you. Again there is not a single person on this forum who understand the Manosphere better than me. I was a part of their community for over 2 years. Around 2018 was when I first joined their community (time flies I thought it was 2 years) I left them for a reason as after awhile I realized...they are just bitter. The manosphere exists for a reason and I understand why, but it is not a solution it is escapism. My main issue is even though I know for a lot of men the Manosphere might be a stepping stone they have to go through in their developmental journey I fear many will for that trap and stay there. Its definitely a big trap for young black men since there is not other outlet that can provide them for what they are looking for.

It depends on what level of awareness you are at. There are different levels of awakenings. What you say is correct but to awaken to it depends on where you are at. How a child views reality and how you view reality are different. The true nature of reality does not change, but how you perceive it, know it, observe it does.