Razard86

I just think its funny how reasonable people like you aren't in power. How the hell does someone as reasonable as you grow under those conditions. Its so funny to me how the most reasonable people aren't in power and the most unreasonable people often are. Picture if the majority of your people were as reasonable as you...Iraq wouldn't have the issues it has. Tell me....why are you so different than the collective? What happened in your personal life that shaped you to be as reasonable as you are?

Alpha male is a made up term in the red pill community to label men who considered more masculine by the women and thus a more optimal mating choice. If you are just horny you can look into how they define it and go for it. Most "alpha male" behavior is animalistic and extremely selfish. What isn't told to you however is how much "Alpha Males" in the red pill's traditional grand use of the word suffer. They suffer immensely. I've known some "alpha males" they hide their suffering from others but if you are their close friend they will tell you all about it. They suffer with a desire to connect on a deep level but being unable to get that. They don't believe true love exists, yet they secretly wish they could get it. They don't trust anyone, including themselves. They believe everyone is putting on an act when they meet nice people, and believe they are justified in using others because others use them. They believe they must control every situation because they know better and everyone around them are fools and idiots. Does this sound like someone who is happy to you? LOL. Its one of the biggest traps. But go pursue it and enjoy the pros and cons if you want.

I think people are missing the point. Its neither this or that its both. Death penalty can be used in extreme circumstances when all alternatives have been exhausted. I agree we don't need like 10 to 25 plus years. At the same time...we have killed a lot of innocent people through the Death Penalty so we definitely need to do something about that as well, most of that happens due to corruption. But anytime we get into it is an either or business we are being biased as you already know. Nothing is off the table, we adapt to the present moment and construct a flexible system that tries to correspond to the present era/times as best it can.

Meditation, yoga, psychedelics, contemplation. Hell if you are in a half dream like state, about to fall asleep and you are listening to one of Leo's videos or some other Spiritual Teacher....it can HAPPEN just like that.

God is perfect, because God is formless potential. All form is imperfect, because all form has limitations. But all form united together (which they are) is perfect in its totality. So any imperfection we see or experience is just self bias.

He did it because that is what he is...a teacher. Telling him not to is like telling a fish not to swim lol. He better make sure he aligns his life with what he naturally is....lol. Oh he will be trying to teach at work when that's not his job lol. Now what he chooses to teach? Who knows...

Lol well that's cause I have a bit of that in me. All wealth is collectively generated, yet somehow we have people thinking THEY made themselves rich. Its very weird. I couldn't speak english if I wasn't born in an english speaking country and taught English. Also my parents were VERY involved in my education when I was a child its why I am so educated. Without them...I have no idea how far along I would be in my Education. But if I follow the nonsense we say in America...I'll be like I am a self-made educated man. IT WAS ME!!! LOL. Also I don't believe ideology is the key, I believe waking people up is the key. If you create a capitalist, socialist, or communist society, it will function differently than how it is designed if the people are selfish. So its not the ideology that matters, its the mindset of the population. Fix the mindset first of the people then you can figure out what structure you need.

You got it. I'm still surprised Leo said what he said about rape. I understand it completely but didn't know he would respond like that as some people aren't going to understand it.

I rarely lie, its one of my best traits. All of my friends trust me because they know this about me, but obviously I'm not perfect. Ironically I have found myself lying in the past to people who I didn't want to disappoint, like my mother...over stupid small things. Mostly out of fear that she will worry, her health is not good so I don't need her adding any stress to her life. But yeah, everyone has the "line" that line is as you correctly deduced based on fear. Part of the reason I don't like lying is because I want the world to be more honest, so how can I ask the world to do something I won't do? Your question is could you develop yourself to not have a line? Of course you can, remove all attachments and you can. Just simply see everything as an illusion, as a figment of your imagination and not real. If you truly walked around in life and believed everything was FAKE, ILLUSION, and NOT REAL, that would make YOU REAL. Why? Because then there is nothing to hide. You would be completely authentic because there is nothing to fear. Notice the paradox here? Because we act as life is real and authentic, we become LESS authentic. When we believe life to be Illusionary, and a Dream, We become more REAL, and HONEST. I could do this for hours how paradoxical life is. But yes its possible...but are you willing to go that far? That is the deep end of the pool my friend. Everything is your mirror, you only ever experience YOU. If that's what you see, you are just seeing your reflection.

Never ask anyone to do anything that you wouldn't do. Never put up with anything that you wouldn't want a loved one to put up with in their relationships. The first one deals with people's selfishness, they want others to do for them what they would refuse to do. The second one is for very giving people, they want others to be more selfish, but they themselves would not choose to be that selfish. So figure out what perspective you tend to lean towards. Are you a person who is very giving so much you might be a pushover? Or are you a person who is the one who pushes people over? LOL. Notice that in both scenarios...its the distance from the activity that allows clarity. As always...there are always exceptions....don't use any mantra as dogma or ideology, its a guide, a tool nothing more nothing less.

I just want to be alone....but posts on Actualized.Org which contradicts.... You don't want to be alone, you want to belong. You want to be around like-minded people. If that were not true...you wouldn't be on here posting. Observe your actions, your actions speak with more clarity than your thoughts and emotions do. When the thoughts and emotions intertwine and get fuzzy, observe the actions to figure out what is going on. If you wanted to be alone...you wouldn't be posting this right now. Now..here is a cool Sadhguru video. Notice how profound...perspective is....distance and perspective is an interesting thing.

It could, I'm not well educated on Nadis but I heard some things about them, they are related to acupuncture. If you are interested in that I would say look further into it.

You got it, because black and white are one. It is never either or, its both. Reality is constantly shifting, and if you think its a certain way all the time you'll miss the shift.

Life is all about balance, flow, if you study life long enough you will discover one day there is no ONE answer. Sometimes you need to be kind, sometimes you need to be stern. Sometimes you need to give second or third chances and sometimes you need to end that relationship. Sometimes you should keep trying, and sometimes you need to move on. Ecclesiastes Chapter 3 (some verses) (New Living Translation) For everything there is a season, A time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to harvest. A time to kill and a time to heal. A time to tear down and a time to build up. A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to grieve and a time to dance. A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away. A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away. A time to tear and a time to mend. A time to be quiet and a time to speak. Basically in life you have to be able to read a situation and act accordingly. You cannot have a specific logical map on how to act because then you will inevitably take the wrong action. Sure you can have some generalities like I want to take the best action in ever situation. But then the question becomes what is the BEST action? Sometimes...NO ACTION is the best action. Sometimes just acting and not even thinking about something is the best action. Sometimes planning your move before you do it is the best action. You see? You could ponder this forever and never figure it out. This is why the best way to be....is present and out of your head. Figure out what type of person you want to be in GENERAL. Don't form some hard identity, keep it loose. Then live, gain experience and over time you will have a grasp for the environment you are in and how things respond to you. Then make the necessary adjustments and go out again. Watch this video by Sadhguru it gives good advice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yx8BKV3wp0k&ab_channel=Sadhguru This video by Leo goes well also. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGpYE-FZRhA&t=4317s&ab_channel=Actualized.org Time to shake up your fixed perspective!!

Gotta have the last word? You are doing it again. If you haven't noticed...I'm mirroring you, I'm playing your ego game with you. Since I know you want the last word...I'm taking it from you. What you don't realize SOUL, is my thread triggered you because you love your ego, you are just in denial because it threatens your belief about enlightenment. Look how easy it was...for you to devolve into egoic games of proving someone wrong, and trying to have the last word? LOL. This has been fun.

Everyone is biased against you, its called perspective. Every perspective by default believes it knows better. If it didn't we would always be in agreement. The moment we disagree it is because we believe we know better, which is self-bias. You can't be an individual without self bias, can't have a life without self-bias. Self-bias is a wonderful thing.

I say follow your signature....embrace the game. Choose to play the game however you want. If you desire to be high conscious as much as possible you may need to make even more drastic changes, if not, then all is well. But the truth is...all is always well. I believe the most important thing is to understand....there is no best way to be. Just choose to be whatever fits your highest ideals. The whole point of spirituality is to show you absolute truth, and relative truth and then for you to figure out what most resonates with you. All the teachings are just guides to help you realize the highest potentiality and then after you interpret the teachings you implement it in whatever way you can. The most important teaching is "self love" love of all the selves, all of reality itself. So don't get too hung up on high consciousness, lest you start creating a duality and spiritual ego.

Lol Soul look at all your denial you don't root for no well-being you root to prove your point...which you are still doing. I will refer to what I told you earlier...why are you so serious SOUL? Its like you don't even realize....you are so addicted and attached to the earlier discussion...that you brought it up in another thread. Are you still not noticing this? Instead of worrying about me...why don't you ask yourself why you are doing this? Or are you still going to deflect and keep trying to prove your point? This is honestly hilarious, again you are not the first person to do this....I've triggered many others who have done this same thing...its why its so funny. You are so scared of ego...that you become egotistical. Its so hilarious!!!

When I got into my car accident I told a police officer something that could have incriminated myself, knowing full well what could happen (basically that I was in an altered state) and nothing came of it. He wrote me two tickets and both tickets were dismissed at court without me having to pay anything. You'd be surprised at how much honesty can be rewarded. I personally would tell the truth, I have found in my direct experience that telling the truth always serves the higher purpose. You can't wish for the world to be more truthful, then turn around and play the same game as them. Nobody is asking for perfection in this also, just do the best you can.

This is the whole point of technology, to increase accessibility, make things easier. It just frightens people who worked hard to carve out a niche. I get the fear, but I agree with you. Soon regular people can create ridiculous levels of art, such as graphic novels, movies, music, etc. all because of technology. We will literally enter a ridiculously grand age of artistic expression never before seen. I mean it will be awe inspiring especially when the language barrier gets dissolved as well.

The same fears arose by people who worked in the mail service when email first was created. Notice people still write letters, and some even still use fax machines...(lol no idea why on fax machines) even though email exists. We have Uber, Lyft, and yet people still take buses. The creation of new technology does not always wipe out existing avenues. People are still collecting baseball cards, and people are still collecting antique cars, and sports cars. As states earlier we already know that A.I. are better at Chess and Go than humans, yet they haven't replaced humans as players. Soon we will have A.I. athletes and referees, I'm sure that won't erase jobs for either. Self Driving cars will replace a lot of non- self driving cars but I doubt it will be total replacement. Instead of dreading make some changes, A.I. is going to infiltrate all industries by the way, so this isn't some isolated thing.

It all depends on how you define it. I once thought like that, but now for some reason the dictionary wants to make a distinction between manipulation and influence. It is what it is.

Love is Desire. This desire is the urge to unify. The number one trap that those in Spirituality fall into is the trap of trying to rid themselves of desire. What they don't realize is that itself is a desire. So they spend their whole life trying to eliminate desire, while the Enlightened Master looks at them waiting for the bubble to eventually burst. Eventually the student will realize that they cannot get rid of desire. Now you may ask why is this the case. Remember...it has been said that Love is metaphysical. I don't know if many are aware of what this means. Desire= Love. Desire is the operant principle. You are only on this forum because of desire. Leo started this entire Actualized.Org because of desire. If you really pay attention to the actions you take you can discover your desire. All of these desires are the building blocks of the ultimate desire to unify. Its why I said, spirituality answers all questions. The desire to be known, experienced, is the desire to unify. Infinity wants to know itself through the creation of a self. Without creation/dream Infinity is just potential, to know itself it has to ACTUALIZE itself into form, a self, to explore all of its being. But to truly do this, it must forget itself and then slowly unify back into itself and realize itself as ONE. Your "life" is just your journey of self-discovery, to look into the mirror of the others, and recognize that the reflection you see in that mirror is YOU. Your desire to accomplish this is there, but you get distracted by other desires, other games that you play with yourself. Why? Well who would want the game to end? When the game ends....there is nobody, no self, to play with....so might as well enjoy playing with yourself/others until the jig is up. So the ultimate paradox of life, is that God/You wants to separate and unify. You want to separate and live a life, and unify and die to self. This paradoxical desire will continue on forever and as a result the greatest love story will be told....experienced and lived through by God alone. Its Bitter Sweet. Its both the most beautiful thing...and the most tragic at the same time.

Umm no SOUL you are bringing a discussion from another thread into a different thread. Notice your resistance. I triggered you and you can't let it go. You are so afraid of your ego that my I love my ego thread triggered you and since then you are now determined to prove something. What are you trying to prove? What are you so attached to me? You aren't the first to do this and you won't be the last and its always funny when it happens. You are so stuck in ego games because you are afraid of your ego. But continue doing it because its funny. I can tell you are the type who doesn't like to let things go. You like things to be a certain way and if they aren't it frustrates you and you must prove to others that you are right and they are wrong. Its so funny. I'll be waiting on you in another thread to follow my comments and bring up other discussions "I'll see you there."

This is true.