Razard86

Gaslighting is an identity game. The belief in gaslighting is itself gaslighting. Anyone that believes in it, will be guilty of doing it. Those who defend its existence do so because they enjoy playing the victim and haphazardly throwing the term around. If you find yourself using this word, it's because you seek emotional validation from others. Requiring others to give you emotional validation when it means them being dishonest about their own emotions is itself asking the person to gaslight you. You can only be gaslighted if you engage in it yourself.

Seems you are still playing the game of denial. I understand it's a very fun game. Your reply is actually a wonderful example of what I just described so great job!! Keep it up!! Also here is a fun fact: This thread was written in general. Notice how your ego co-opts this message, takes it personally and makes it about them. Now why did that happen? Because it triggered you. So whenever you get triggered you BLAME that which triggers you. So Notice you said I Gaslighted you as if this was some personal message directed at you. Notice how selfish and self-centered that is. Is that not a narcissistic trait? You turned a general message directed at nobody and crafted a story that it was a personal act directed at you.

I hope you do!!! Because YOU ARE AMAZING!!! THANKS FOR BEING YOU!!

No......YOU ARE TALENTED FOR THIS KIND OF INTELLECTUAL INSIGHTS!!! LOOK AT HOW AMAZING YOU ARE!!! I only write because I love my self (all of my self all infinite variations) and I want to inspire my self!!!

The Internet is going to continue to shake up the different markets and change the Financial Compensation Models and Market Caps. We will see this happening with how teachers get paid as that model is going to change drastically and obviously it is already happening but when I refer to teachers I mean professors and our entire collegiate/university system. Anyway look at this comedy short which showcases how Professional Fighters Feel About Things At The Moment.

And that is my point, Life is Self Corrective, You Don't Need Principles...Principles Is Just Your Projection Onto Life....How Do We Learn Anything? Life Teaches Us. The Reason I Can Safely Say That Anger Doesn't Need To Be Controlled...Is Because Life Will Reveals In Its Own Way The Proper Expression Of Anger. If You Try To Control It, The Way A Human Believes It Should Be Expressed, It Will Be Repressed. A Human Tells Somebody...Shhhh Don't Yell, Sometimes For The Person To Express Themselves Yelling Is Appropriate. You Cannot Snap Your Fingers And Change A Person's Emotional Maturity. So For Them Yelling May Be Appropriate Until They Outgrow That Form Of Expression. If You Fight This....You Will Learn The Hard Way That Reality Always Expresses Itself As It Is....Not How You Want It To Be. Here's a fun exercise...stop thinking there is a difference between a baby and an adult. I am sure you have come across adults with the emotional maturity of a baby. Can you MAKE a baby stop crying? Or does it have to learn to stop? Because we look at an adult physically and assume them to have emotional maturity we are caught off guard when they act childish. But see that is our bias, then we project onto them and say...well they SHOULD act like this because look how old they are!!!! Then we try to control them and get them to act the way we think an adult should act and we get the same issues we get with a child just in a bigger body. This is Reality teaching you a core concept....that rules...do not control anybody. They never have and never will. Even the fear of punishment is not an effective deterrent. At the end of the day...Reality just expresses itself as it is...and we constantly keep reinterpreting it to make sense of it. But the truth is all our attempts to make sense of it...is never a true representation of what is actually going on. EVER.

You said express anger improperly that means you believe there is a right way to express anger. This belief in a right way to do things...is the belief of right and wrong. You don't know what is right or wrong....you find out AFTERWARDS. Until you realize you have never known what the right or wrong thing is....you will continue to live in delusion. The highest truth is every single human on the planet is a fool, you are making up things as you go....making things up as you go is call bullshit. Every human being....is full of shit.

Truth realization is that you are truth.

Everything you just said....is pure imagination. YOU determine what is bullshit theory and what isn't bullshit theory. All knowledge is based on meaning that you create. YOU, not an other, there is no objective measurement, there never has been. Objectivity is completely and utter illusion and fabrication. If LOCATION doesn't exist, then shape, size, color, whatever distinction you create is NOT REAL. Reality is purely made out of sensory perception. Any measurement that is made is entangled with your sensory perception. If a blind man does an experiment and a deaf man does the same experiment there findings will be different. Hot and cold is based on your sensory perception. Loud and quiet the same. This means THERE IS NO OBJECTIVE REALITY. YOU ARE REALITY.

You are a genius in denial that you are a genius. Here is your boy Einstein..... imagination....is the greatest form of intelligence....you only were able to reach this point....because you didn't limit your imagination.....which is what reality is made of. Einstein wrote, "There are only a few enlightened people with a lucid mind and style and with good taste within a century. What has been preserved of their work belongs among the most precious possessions of mankind." The key words are lucid....and enlightened.....

^ YOU determine what is ungrounded and unhinged. You cannot understand language...unless you agree with the definition. Are you getting it? Your POV is absolute!!! You only argue...because you do not accept another POV, you only agree because you accept another POV. There is ONLY YOU!!! Are you noticing this? Its all completely subjective. Any opinion you have, or have, or any POV has will always be subjective. Meaning= bias, pov=bias, which is subjective. To not have bias, is to lack all meaning and interpretation. That's it. That is the whole she-bang...nothing more nothing less.

Lol nah I don't take any of that serious because I already died and saw the veil behind the curtain. This just lets him know by their responses who has done the work or not. You do not live in an objective reality, your reality is subjective. Which means....the only way Leo can turn into an Alien...is if YOU imagine he does. Think of it like this... what determines if someone is RIGHT or not from your POV...? YOUR POV determines who is right or wrong, good or bad, this has always been the case...and it will always be the case. So if from your POV YOU determine the state of the world....then doesn't that make you GOD? So how can Leo turn into an Alien....unless you AS GOD imagine that he does? You constructed Leo....Leo isn't some other....he is a dream character, a thought within your mind. So unless your desire is to see him turn into an Alien....its not happening. It does actually....Love, Truth, and Intelligence are ONE. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-universe-is-not-locally-real-and-the-physics-nobel-prize-winners-proved-it/ These people won the Nobel Prize....for proving from the longest, most indirect path....what Non-Duality says. This discovery was made 5000 years ago and now they are patting themselves on the back....as if what they discovered was something NEW. The biggest puzzle is the building block of reality, what reality is made of. The only way to discover this is to be willing to DIE, drop all identity, and discover that everything is YOU. The most intelligent minds in human history couldn't discover this due to BIAS, which is a lack of self-love. If you haven't figured out...that the highest intelligence is the ability to see your projections...to notice your biases and thus be able to see the interconnectedness of everything....then I don't know what to tell you. By understanding Non-Duality...if you truly get it...you have become one of the smartest humans that has ever lived. Majority of humanity...is going to TAKE A LONG TIME...to awaken to the fact that they are dreaming their entire life. There is no discovery....more profound than this.

Come on Carl you are probably going to do that anyway....let's be real you are on this forum....by virtue of just interacting on this forum makes you already way smarter than any teacher you have in university...sorry to tell you but that my friend was inevitable. You are going to continue to have this problem because you are going to keep seeing all the lies in Academia. Its a sad realization of this work....you are just going to be deconstructing lies on the fly...even when you aren't even trying. Hang in there!! Also....you changed the color of your mushroom....I was so used to the green too. ^Why do yall think Leo can transform into an Alien on screen? Have yall not yet understood how this whole thing works yet? Just because from his POV he can change into an Alien doesn't mean from your POV you can see it. Have you all not yet realized that your POV...is the only thing that exists? If you met Leo...from your POV he is imaginary like everyone else. If you entered certain states....he would DISSAPPEAR....so would your human avatar. Also in other states....you could freeze time where he couldn't move from your POV but only you could move. In another state...you could put him in synch with you where he could only move when you move. There are even more settings you could tinker with if you want. So no he is not turning into an Alien from your POV...unless you imagine it for yourself that he can. Now from his POV he could turn into a Alien....but you couldn't perceive it....unless he could imagine you perceiving that he has turned into one. ^Chew on what I just typed.

1. If one does not express their anger to its target, they will express it to another target. This is why people explode out of nowhere. There is no being careful about expressing anger. Express it. Being polite and nice...is why people commit murder and suicide. 2. If self expression wasn't stifled people would be more honest. Why do you think comedy and movies exist? Its the one time where people are allowed to see honest authentic expression of the human condition. The irony....is we have people who try to clamp down on that too!!! 3. Do you see animals trying to clamp down on expression? NO!!! Anger doesn't distort the world. If I am killing your family and anger arises....is that distortion? If I am stealing your possession and anger arises is that distortion? You think anger needs to be carefully expressed because you don't trust yourself or others....which is why morality exists. You think people are innately evil and need morality to be good. In my own direct experience I have people not filter and totally express themselves with me...and they always choose no matter how angry they get....to allow themselves the space to calm down eventually. I do not fear the anger of others....but I have seen first hand what repressed anger looks like and what it does. Repressed anger is a much greater threat than the normal anger that arises. With authentic expression allowed repressed anger= resentment will stop being such a common occurrence. Why do you think lately there is such a defiance for authority? All this attempts to be careful is being thrown out the window.

Yep I had this same discussion with my friend today....we don't realize...that we are already aliens and we classified ourselves as humans. If we really knew what humans were...so many humans wouldn't be trying to "find themselves and discover who they are." The irony is majority of them that undertake that journey....never find a fulfilling answer lol.

It could also be described as no Free Will lol.

One of the things you will discover is there are many traps in the development of certain characteristics such as intelligence for example we can use the concept of being humble. Humbleness is a trait that is lauded by many religions and people in society but most are not aware of why that is the case. Humbleness is the understanding that any efforts you produce is not produced in isolation but through collective influence. It is also a form of stopping you from seeing yourself as superior. The problem with misplaced humbleness is it can place a stop gap on your ability to be revolutionary and creative in your thinking. This will turn you into a conformist and stop the world from being blessed by your point of view (WHICH IS THE NUMBER ONE PROBLEM WE HAVE IN EDUCATION, AND THROUGH MASS BRAINWASHING THROUGH THE CREATION OF CELEBRITY CULTURE) and make you think you are not "good enough" and that others are some how "better." If you ONLY KNEW HOW FALSE AND RETARDED THAT BELIEF WAS! This is where arrogance comes in, the belief that you know better regardless of what established scholars, and other professionals say. If you study human history the majority of innovations are done by those who dared to be arrogant. Now misplaced Arrogance can also cause issues because you can become blind to your deficiencies that are inherent in all POV. So how do you bridge the divide? Easy!!! Have a healthy dose of both!!! Be Arrogant enough to believe in yourself when it comes to your strengths, but humble enough to understand that all POV have limitations. Be open to discussions, to learning and researching the things that you struggle with, while being able to stand strong on the discoveries and conclusions you make. Find others who are good at picking apart your arguments and whose POV's can see the blindspots you cannot. Now...this can present an issue as well, as you can fall into an echo chamber, and eventually you may have to reach out to other POV's maybe even your harshest critics to expand ever more your POV. Never get to the point that you think you have transcended humanity in terms of knowledge.....I have fallen into that trap and every time Reality reveals to me how little my human intelligence currently is. To put this plainly....everything around you is profound....you are just too stupid to perceive it and know how to apply it. When I say you I mean ME LOL!!! If me and the rest of humanity were at a high enough level of consciousness....a specific species of ANTS, BIRDS, WORMS, would create a cascade of insights. We have enough data from studying how animals in nature operate to create a ridiculous number of insights into how to do things better, we are just too stupid to see it. So....never think you are too smart for humanity....there may be some small unknown bug researcher in the jungle with an insight he is holding onto that would FLOOR YOU. Genius is found everywhere!! You are walking around INFINITE INSPIRATION, and you think its ordinary. So don't allow ARROGANCE to make you think you are too smart, and don't allow humility to limit you to not being as smart as you can be. A healthy dose of Arrogance and humility, people to bounce ideas off of, and the sensitivity to realize that you are walking around in genius level creativity that is so profound that it is ordinary....and you are on the right path.

I came across a commenter on Youtube who was replying to some guys who were talking about Black Male and Female Relationships. She claimed a statistic (which I didn't check for its veracity) that stated that Black Men Kill Black Women at a particular rate and that Black Women need to be protected. I explained to her that Black Boys and Men in America die at the highest rate. Her reply? Yeah because Black Men are the ones killing them. I explained to her that everyone kills Black Men in America statistically at the highest rate and if we discuss rape if you include prison rape men get raped more than women. So my point to her is if she wants to play the victim game as a woman, well men are actually victimized more so who is going to protect men. Her reply? Men need to stop killing and raping. I started laughing because she doesn't see her bias. So if a peaceful man who is kind and considerate gets killed by a violent man...its his fault for dying because he is a man, he needs to protect himself. But if a peaceful woman who is kind is killed by a violent man that is the fault of MEN. So when a man is killed by a man its MEN's fault....which actually punishes the man who dies....for being a man. It also makes his life...not as significant from her world view...because when a woman dies by a man....she is a victim, but when a man dies by another man its just something that happened. What she doesn't realize is she has a bias in favor of a woman's life over a man's life which is why she cannot understand what she is communicating. When a man dies or a woman dies regardless of which gender murdered who its a problem for BOTH groups. When you start pointing to one group as a problem....you create bias, and preference, and discrimination is born. What many activists for specific groups don't realize....in your attempt to fight for your group and get rid of discrimination....you become what you fight against....oh the irony!!! Reality is HILARIOUS!!! It reveals so obviously....that discrimination is unconscious....people really believe they are doing the right thing!!! LOL!!

Only pursue this work, when you are ready to go all the way. Spirituality is all about going all the way. Would you talk to a romantic partner you like only partially? Or would you go all the way? Would you negotiate for a car you desire that you can afford and need and then not go all the way? Would you take a test for a certification you desire that you studied for...and then stop before its finished? Spirituality....is the most dangerous thing in the entire world. More dangerous than a nuke, than World War 3, than another pandemic. Its the TRUTH. Its the answer to all the big existential questions....about death, about the building block of reality, about humanities potential next step in their development process, and the meaning of your life. If you aren't ready for that...go enjoy your life in ignorance and bliss!!! You should only do the work.....when you are ready to sacrifice EVERYTHING....and I mean....EVERYTHING!!! Obviously....you don't have too do that....but the will needs to be that strong to go all the way.

Shoot I have a different experience, I rarely ever dream...only recently started having dreams...I usually just fall into deep sleep.

There is nothing new under the sun, only recontextualizations.

So there is a guy I met recently who is really into studying Metaphysics and Epistemology and he is HEAVILY into it I mean this guy could teach it as a Professor if he wanted too. Me and him have talked to each other on and off again and as I have a forceful personality he was taken aback sometimes as we discussed. As I said before the guy is VERY INTELLIGENT but the issue is he is too dogmatic, puts many prophets on pedestals and still sees himself as some work in progress. He believe when he is so called "perfected" THAT is when his life will end. I have been telling him that he is already perfect as he is and he resists that message HEAVILY. He also does not understand that Love= The realization that there is no distinction which is another disagreement he has with me....which is so frustrating because I mean...its so obvious. Like once Leo made a video on that it just clicked...like a bomb went off in my head and it was like OF COURSE!!!! If Reality wasn't Universal Love and devoid of distinction...distinction couldn't exist!! Also if Reality wasn't devoid of distinction...growth, change, impermanence couldn't be an aspect. It has to not be distinct, for it to be distinct. It cannot be ONE WAY, it has to be everyway....or we couldn't even have this imaginary world call life. The more I talked to him he kept telling me I was contradicting myself and I was like...its unfortunately an aspect when pointing to infinity. Anyway....what I realized is his biggest barrier to understanding himself as already perfect is because he was too attached to logic and distinction, and as a result couldn't realize what Love truly was. But one important message I also gained for myself through my interaction with him, is I kept forcefully trying to get him to realize this through various explanations and he was so smart he could talk himself through what I was saying even when I made a good point. No matter how many times I deconstructed his distinctions, he would avoid that and try to create more distinctions. Then he would start accusing me of making distinctions, to which I would explain that WORDS are distinctions so it can't be helped. Anyway it became some silly little egoic game.....but here is what I discovered through interactions with him. I need to start offering suggestions, instead of telling someone directly how they should or shouldn't be because it can come across like I am trying to control them. So I should present my message whenever I communicate as, a suggestion so it doesn't come across as me giving orders or directives. At least that is how he interpreted my message. Its amazing how a person can argue with you that they shouldn't accept themselves as perfect just the way they are. Its proof positive when someone tells you why do I feel inadequate? Because you keep telling yourself you are, and you are very good at believing your own delusions.

But I'm glad you noticed...what few ever will...that is why....there are no levels...levels...progression, is just more story. Destruction of levels....kills the ego, because the ego is always searching for more and more levels and meaning. Nothing wrong with that....but enlightenment is like being DeadPool.....you recognize that you are in a story and poke fun at it. https://www.cbr.com/deadpool-breaks-fourth-wall/

I already made a post about this....its just a story. Reality is a story that tells itself a story. If its not telling a story...then it doesn't exist. When no perception is there (Deep Sleep) there isn't a story...but once perception arises...the story begins. So yes everything is a dream/imagination/story. That is all there is...the story. Even Deep Sleep is a story...its the story of the absence of story. You could call it the Intermission if you will lol.

Honesty= The accurate, unfiltered expression of your state of consciousness. If you feel anger, you express it, if you feel sadness you express it, if you hate something you express it, complete authenticity of every state of consciousness. By what level you filter...is the level of dishonesty you are it, notice we are conditioned to be "polite" and "nice." This creates levels of dishonesty where you try to convince yourself of something that is not true for you. Its why feelings are truth, they reveal where you are at in your development. Some people try to pretend they are something...but your feelings always reveal where you are at. The more you catch yourself trying to convince yourself of something that doesn't resonate....the better you can see through your own B.S. but this takes a willingness to accept the pain of your EGO as you continually kill it of its hold on your life. There is nothing more powerful than the TRUTH. The TRUTH of how you feel about yourself, others, life, everything!!! Be BRUTALLY HONEST WITH YOURSELF!!! Hold nothing back, hide nothing back!! Peel off all the layers!!! You must have noticed...that pretending to be happy, and ok, doesn't work. So why keep doing it? With this honesty....don't judge what comes up, but if you happen to judge it, don't judge the judgment!!! You need to be totally and completely naked, to see clearly. The Fall of Man symbolically is they ate the Fruit of the knowledge of Good and Evil which made them COVER themselves. They covered themselves with LIES!!!! Because they became self-conscious, noticed they were naked...and didn't like what they saw!! So they cover themselves with LIES!!!! Because they judged what they saw!!! Judgment= Knowledge of Good and Evil. Thus mankind fell!!! The animals...didn't fall, ONLY MANKIND!!!