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Bookmarked quote dude.

Actually I would say that unconditional acceptance will make you more subtle and intelligent in giving advice to the partner. Because even when accepting you can still provide advice, but you are not attached. When we have expectations/emotions we often say them to the partner in a way that only makes their toxic behavior worse.

He just told the truth. And he recognizes that its a mean thing. Does not change the fact that it's true. Do you disagree with it?

Haha good question. Well actually it's the same. Learning how to love without expectation, without the need for your partner to be "as evolved as you", without the need to be fully understood by your partner, makes your relationships and love so much easier and deeper. You can mix the love for children vibe with seeing their true essence/higher self in them.

Just see them as sweet, innocent children that sometimes just get mad because they don't know better. Also realize that if you had the same brain as them and the same life experiences you would behave just like them.

Thats an assumption. Maybe you are right, but maybe strong spirituality does not speak about morality? This. You nailed it here imho. When it clicks it removes separation, not creates it. As Leo said "We are alone because we are so together" or sth like that.

@Osaid that was a great way to put it, brother.

I would say lots and lots of meditation. So much that you can meditate throughout whole day while doing regular stuff. Meditative state becomes your default. And everything that @Breakingthewall wrote.

Sending a warm digital hug.

And this more would be turning the knob of Consciousness and Understanding ever higher, right? Or do you mean something else?

Could you expand on that? I had God-realizations, Infinity Realizations and Awakening to Absolute Solipsism and the Fact that I completely dreamed up the Buddha and You. And latelly I turned back to a lot of meditation and living from the panoramic view and so on. And I don't really see now, how isn't it congruent? Obviously the Exploration Of Consciousness is endless, and you can achieve higher and higher Consciousness and understanding but how isn't it in line with the fact that: There is a reality: We are that reality. When you understand this, You will see that you are nothing. And, being nothing, You are everything. That is all.

From Daniel Ingram's book: No-self and True Self are really just two sides of the same coin. There is a great little poem by one Kalu Rinpoche that goes something like: We live in illusion And the appearance of things. There is a reality: We are that reality. When you understand this, You will see that you are nothing. And, being nothing, You are everything. That is all.

And how do you know that? You can never know that. Any idea of them having their own experience is happening inside your imagination.

1 hour strong determination sitting and then taking a 1-2h walk

@Girzo vasoconstriction is my main problem. Did you experiment with taking hot shower and/or citrulline?

I live in Poland. Quite cheap healthy food here.

Thanks for this @Michal__ Can you elaborate on the "it will kill a trip instantly"? Lets say I purify the mind, and visualize with strong intent dancing with Leo. Then I consume LSD and I clear the mind again and when LSD start working I return to the created thought form of me dancing with Leo. Are you saying that if I focus strongly enough on that vision my LSD trip will last much shorter?

Holy shit, he is good, just reading about him. He must have taken some ancient shrooms.

It really depends on your habit of tolerating hunger and your size, muscles, activity etc. I am losing weight and I really have to be disciplined to not go over 2500 kcal. If I just eat how I like to I could easily eat 3000-4000 kcal, and I do not eat any junk food or any refined sugars.

Cold showers I do respect. But watching movies before bed and smoking something that gives you dopamine is the opposite of doing something difficult. You do unhealthy shit and then delude yourself that it is in some higher purpose of doing "difficult things". Nope. Stop bullshitting yourself.

I think between 1.5g and 3g of dry shrooms depending on a lot of stuff. So not a narrow range.

You pretty much summarized his entire premise. This shows us exactly how ideas of "being humble" and "open-minded" and "non-arrogant" can turn you into an arrogant and closed-minded person. This is why you have to become so radically Sovereign to get to the truth.

I agree. I recommend to you to watch a movie "Dominion"

Yeah, it is a challenging step. But life gets sooo sooo beautiful after you get accustomed. Sending a virtual hug, brother

Some users here on the forum (who I respect ) often like to claim that there is no self, there is no You and that Reality just is. That reality just happens and to put any "You/I" into that is a delusion. And I want to argue against that with the notion of Free Will. Of course I am not speaking about the Ego which is just an illusion/effect of You misperceiving what you Are. Just like rainbow is an illusion of light hitting against the water particles, the ego is the illusion of You hitting against the concepts, drama and life-story. You (as pure consciousness) can decide in each moment to focus your attention on Yourself (being aware of awareness itself, meditation) or on thoughts and concepts inside of consciousness. This free will proves agency. It proves that there is an agent here. You. People that claim that you cannot say that, that reality just is, could argue that you do not make that decision to meditate, that it just happens on itself, that it is just reality being reality. But that is delusion. That is a concept. An idea. THE DIRECT EXPERIENCE CLEARLY SHOWS THAT YOU CAN MAKE THAT DECISION ANY SECOND. In each moment you can decide to meditate, to focus your attention on Consciousness. To focus You onto You. To say that you didn't make that decision, that it just happened is ignoring the direct experience and creating an idea. Free Agency is a fundamental property of Consciousness/God/You. It is always with You. Just like in a nightly dream, when you are asleep and you believe that the dream just happens on its own you could say, "well the dream just is, there is no me". But in each moment you have the choice to become lucid, to awaken. Which shows you that you are The Mind, the creator of the dream. If there was no You, you would not have the possibility to make such decisions, because reality would just flow, would just be. But in each second you have the choice to awaken. In each second you can choose to focus on the beingness (on yourself). Which proves that YOU ARE.