Arthogaan

Meditate. Contemplate. Personal development. Provide for yourself a career/business that will give you resources to do the above. As long as you don't have children you are pretty much free to radically change your life anytime, so I would say don't have children.

Yes - full acceptance and support to explore the life. It kinda forms into that highest parental love. How would God love his people?

Check out the last question in this survey: The most common answer to a question 7. Has spirituality helped you? was: -It saved my life, and I don't know where I'd be without it second monst popular: -It's radically transformed my life for the better

I had that problem. For me at the time helped to consider that 1. It is not my credit that I was lucky to be born with such a mind, such random set of events and environments that happened to shape me in that way. 2. It is not fault of people that they are less developed. and the most important realization 3. IF YOU HAD THEIR MIND, THEIR PAST, THEIR CONDITIONS YOU WOULD BEHAVE EXACTLY THE SAME. So then compassion arises.

Sorry, this will be a rather radical weird concept and only applicable for people that do not plan to have family and have some savings, but please keep an open mind. Also for the purpose of this topic it will be written from perspective of regular ego mind. I increasingly focus on the fact that we will die, that life after 50 year old will not be so filled with energy and that we should not wait to live our highest potential. Maybe a more radical and freeing way to live rather than searching for some professional career would be to gather so much(little) money that it will be enough for only 20 years from now. That it would be enough to live to our fullest potential in this 20 years not worrying about money and to know that the clock is ticking - it would motivate even more to prioritize things, to not be lazy etc. And after that to just accept whatever will come - for example die of hunger when the money runs out - but the chances are that in those 20 years you will find so many more inspirations, great new friends that it would not even be the problem when money runs out. But still, to accept your early death at that point. For example for me it could look like this: I am 24 year old, I will save aggresively until I am 30-35 years old and then I will live 20 years freely (and frugally) and accept my own death out of hunger at the age of 50-55. I wanted to hear your thoughts on that.

Again, it is just a symbol. I Rather mean saving money enough for 20 years of reckless living, and then just seeing what happens and living happily as homeless for example. Or maybe rich because when I will have nothing to loose you follow inspirations and great ideas. The point is to just let go. Mind tries to talk me out of it, that I will have 20 year gap in cv and so on. So best way to shut it up is to just accept the worst case scenario and realize that this scenario is still awesome.

To retire early just means having a freedom of a child for me. Kids can be really productive when they are not forced to anything and feel inspired to do something and their passions are not spoiled with "that is not well paying career/that is not responsible" stuff.

Dying at fifty is just a symbol/sentence/funny game for my mind to let go worrying about the future. I think I will live well past 70 really but spontaneously and without clinging to safety or finances. I think thats when life begins because then you have time and finances. And I want to try to create such situation much earlier at the expense of my financial safety after 50. I am fulfilled already. God knows (me ) how fullfilled will I be had I lived 20 years without worrying about financial safety and holding the image of my death in my mind.

"So what if we are all doomed?" We have so much attachment to certain outcomes and to concept of life that it is counterproductive and lowers our vibration. We are not that important. We are just tiny portion of creation. Remember the size of the sun. Let go, and just be happy. Your optimism will change the world for the better. I reccommend this material on this topic:

Isn't it perfect and beautiful that through such experience God gives you an opportunity to choose compassion and not work there, to stop eating meat, to talk to people about it and inspire them to change?

Well, basically all my dreams were fullfilled other than "not having to worry about money and be free to not do anything" so thats what I want to create for myself in this dream. So I would still be fulfilled at the moment of my death. I just want to figure out the logistics for this body to have careless stage in life. Well I would be willing to accept that risk.

I highly recommend this radical talk about the misconceptions of relationships: https://youtu.be/L612S0MnHnw

Just a little post. I wanted to share my "method". When I want to enter meditative state but there is still a lot of noise in my head I strongly say to myself and imagine that I as a Ghost in this very second just entered this body and have acces to all its senses, memories, mind, style of thinking etc. It instantly distances me from it. It makes me curious oh, what is this belief that this body has, oh what is this bias. I am not this body, I am not this ego, I am not these memories. It also generates this feeling of looking at the world for the first time as if the feeling of something being normal is also not mine as Ghost, but this body's. Yeah thats all I wanted to share <3.

Law of One: Ra material

@Preety_India Can you imagine a version of yourself in some pararel reality that does not care whatsoever what other people say about you? Can you just imagine that and feel how would it be? What stops you from becoming that version every day a little bit more? Please consider watching that video:

I really like falling asleep knowing I will disappear for a while. It is one of my goals for future to learn to keep my awareness awake while in deep sleep to feel that better.

@Preety_India so Yarco does not like you. It is a fact. No matter wheter he writes what he writes, or he gets banned, or you get banned it is still a fact of your reality that he does not like you. Even if he stops writing what he writes, it is still a fact. You can not change that fact. So what now? Can you ignore/accept it? Why does it even matter to you? Who cares what Yarco is saying about you? Can you let it go? If no why not?

Whenever you don't like what is happening to you you have two options: 1. Change the situation ( for example leave the forum) 2. Accept the situation and feel good about it/ignore it.

You are Perfect.

Deep down yes. But she does not have as strong Self-Love and confidence as me so for example I know if I would do some crazy stuff it would feel dangerous for her and it would hurt her so I do not. Also she has no desire to do such stuff herself. She once did sleep with other guy out of curiosity how would she feel and if I trully wouldn't mind. It was really fun talking about it and it made us stronger and love each other even more. She does not look to do that again. So there is slight asymetry but I want to give her that safety of growth. She will reach the "unconditional" level some day I believe. At the end of the day it's lack of unconditional Self-love that stops us from loving others unconditionally. For example the belief that it means something bad about you if your partner does something other than you would like him to do.

Its funny to see when scientifically minded people have glimpse of spirituality and they have problem articulating it as "noone is talking about it" as he said. And that he is saying that he does not suffer and his scientifically minded audience pities him and advices him to seek professional help haha. Thats cute.

I love my fiance unconditionally. She can do whatever she wants and it won't hurt me. She can move out. She can sleep with other man. It does not touch me because she is Me. It's like my other body. How could I be mad for second part of my body for doing what it feels like doing. Posession is main sickness in relationships. Your partner does not owe you ANYTHING. No games. No strategies to get what you want from them. This radicall video helped me change perspective some years ago: https://youtu.be/TEkEq8YVAnA

You are biased. I also watch him for 7 years and I would write everything opposite to what you wrote. He seem much more happy, healthy and inteligent from my pov. (I am biased too ofc)

@Consilience What about your coffee habit?

It helps you do stuff that you find uninteresting. And most people do something that does not interest them for a living.