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You are an escort? Absolutely now everything makes sense lol! My intuition is world class. I knew there was something deeply pathoogised in your view on sexualtiy and gender dynamics. Why wouldnt you acknowledge this before. You being in sex work has deeply warped your view of sexuality and gender dyanmics, and traumatised you, which Im sure you're aware BTW 'pervert' is a judgement. No this is a total view from ignorance, probably stemming from your lack of ability to face or own your part in all this mistreatment of self and other. Whether or not these guys want it, enjoy it, can afford it or not, has no bearing on whether its healthy for you or for them. Its also not about assigning blame, whether you are to blame or they are to blame. Your essentially harming yourself and they are harming themselves, by engaging in this consensual sexual pathology. Dont for a second equate legality or consent with integrity, healthy, holism, well-being or care. Everyone in that dynamic are ultimately losing long term whether they know it or not. To say no one is being hurt, is such an utterly myopic justification.

Yes its absolutely different attitudes and values, absolutely lol! Maybe I wasnt clear: I dont find those attitudes or values attractive in a partner, and is not my personal preference. I like kind, easy going girls who are open to sharing etc. YMMV

The real question here is conciousness, where does it go on physical death. The main quesiton here is if you believe conciousness is truly localized (exists in your body) or non-localized (reality is conciousness and your a fragment of this). Your body, personality etc are gonna die, no doubt about that. What happens to your personal conciousness, does it merge with reality, or does your personalised conciousness take another form, hard to say isnt it lol

I like to share food with friends like tapas style. Some people are more insular and prefer not to share. The notion of taking food home and not even offering you to try some seems fundementally wierd to me, and don't remember ever dating anyone like this lol. Maybe she was super poor growing up and she wants every mouthful herself. I agree its not the most fun environment for me, its all about sharing, inclsuivity, and lack of boundaries. I dont think Id enjoy such a formal dynamic around something as basic as sharing food

This is a deep fallacy. Saying something is unhealthy or even exploitative, or any other description is not the same as shaming them. It beggars belief how people are make this false equivalency without realising it. People are making an assessment in the context of health. For it to invoke a moral judgement such as shame, they would have to make a declarative statement assesing the morality of it. That is not happening

Ah yes thank you for brining your chronic, re-occuring and severely repressed trauma around sexuality and gender dynamics, into another thread. Valuable contribution. Only thing that was missing were more comparisons to infinity or some other completely irrelevant intellectual hyper-abstractionism, that has no real world tangible impact to the discussion. If you notice all my posts are gender-agnostic, participant agnostic, and role-agnostic, its a lose lose for everyone involved

Look if two people where doing some of this activities in a thereupetic setting with the core goal to heal, so an advanced form of therapy, there might be some utility in some of this practices for short term integration, as part of a wider, focused healing strategy. But that is not what I see being done, or the intent behind any of this. Most people make it into a pleasure activity and lifestyle. To me BDSM is also an egoic trauma based activity, that psychologically healthy people dont engage with or need to engage with. Its playing on repressed elements of self-rejection, denile and shame. When you fully accept them they tend to dissapear. BDSM ranges from from the literal inflicting of phsyical pain and harm on people, and/or extreme pyschological degradation, to 'lighter' versions where people simply need an escape (from themselves and reality), so they use different forms of BDSM to scratch that pathological itch to differing degrees. None of this shit is remotely healthy in my opinion. Getting pleasure from an activity has no bearing on whether it is healthy or not Everything you mention is trauma based sexuality. And your somehow trying to normalise it, or not understanding that binding your sexuality and your trauma, is not a good strategy. The degree of 'safety' , 'care' or 'rules' in the 'community' also has absolutely no bearing whatsoever on whether its fundementally healthy or not, this is fallacious. Take a cookie shop, that has limits and rules and the amount of cookies you can eat, and a supportive community around cookies -> has no bearing on whether the cookies or healthy for you or not, does it? BDSM is basically playing on unresolved psychological issues, played out in a sexual setting. At the lighter end you have people engaging in it for the Art and play, like Shibari. And on the other end its just totally destructive; human pay pigs, human ash trays, slaves, pooing and urinating on people. Like what planet are we on where 90% of that shit is remotely healthy. Further they then create an 'identity' around this and form 'communities' lol! Why do people struggle to say; 'Fundementally its not healthy, but if you want to engage with it, thats your perogative'. I am open to some forms of light BDSM activities done for fun/art without any overt harm - Shibari for example. But I am strictly against all the forms of dissocation, escapism, humiliation, degradation, pain, hatred, anger, abuse, manipulation, exploitaiton being healthy expressions of sexuality, that is the core of most BDSM, no matter how consensual it is. This is more an additional sign of how sick our society has become. Do you honestly think someone who has fully healed and intergated their psyche; they have no repressed anger, shame, self-rejection, self-hatrednes, hatredness to others, or resentments would remotely enjoy 99% of this stuff? IF someone has authentic self-esteem, accepted and loves themselves and others, how are they engaging in 99% of this stuff. It doesnt even make sense

Have you tried bottoming, I am picking up those vibes from your writing style. Perhaps that could be more your vibe. Theres also sissy orientation that my intuiton tells me youd quite enjoy. Let us know if you give it a go

But I dont think anyone can say this is healthy, right? lol There is no way you can get a 'kick' from this without deep pyschological pathology, its exploitative and abusive, consensual or not. No self-respecting (i.e. self -esteem) human would engage in this type of behaviour from either partner, it simply wouldnt be possible theres nothing attractive about it

Hi Princess, thanks for contributing, however the message doesnt truly make sense, and screams of intellectual insecurity. I find to it hard to truly parse what it is exactly you are trying to say. Do you want to try again after a pause?

What they're saying, Davino, is that using steroids is essentially an unhealthy coping mechanism for low self-esteem and a need for validation. Equating this with driving or other naturally occurring dangers is fallacious (false equivalence) Further you mentioning the word meta screams insecurity, and an appeal to concepts you dont truly understand in an attempt to seem smart when backed into an intellectually weak position

This is compeltely nonsensical. Every moment and every thing is producing states of conciousness. Sex produces strong states of conciousness, but we wouldnt post it in this sub-forum.

Why is this in the psychedelics section? Im confused

To me everything is a construct, is the same concept as Sunyata or emptiness in Buddhism.

If everything is a dream, nothing is a dream, its equivalent - dreaming loses all meaning, you see?. You can interchange this with illusion or real. At the level your speaking it all cancels out. If everything is an illusion, is the same as everything being real, the dichotomy becomes utterly and absolutely meaningless Illusion and real only make sense if we define a base construct, layer or substrate and compare or contrast other things against it, otherwise it makes no sense to speak about it

I have done ketamine over 1000+ times,, and towards end would usually combine with alcohol so I could go deeper into the k-hole as possible. I also combined it with psychedelics. I would be shocked if there is any type fo experience I have not had with this compound actually. Ive even used this compound to explore alot of the different facets of mind and subconciosuness, in deep incommunicable ways, but it never felt truly inegtrating,didnt feel healing in any aspect, although it could be fun at times. Its fundemtnally disocciating and escaping pain and reality in my humble opinion After all this experience, I would never recommend it to anyone for serious spiritual, emotional or concious work Entheogens seem much more deeply psychological integrative and healing, with more positive medium and long term benefits within my personal assesmment. They tend to open you up more directly to your repressed pain and emotions, and cut through all the games and bullshit. I havent got as much experience with Entheogens compared to ketamine, Ive only done maybe 50+ trips with entheogens, but I find them completely and utterly opposed to ketamine. Please dont let me put anyone off taking their own decisions on what and when to use each.

Yes I completely disagree actually. Ketamine is defiantely not an Entheogen to me at all. Its dissociative and an aneasthetic. It puts you mostly unconcious. It has severe and distinct effects from Entheogens. I have also never heard this classificaiton before, that would be akin to saying alcohol or cocaine is an entheogen or something

Interesting I see ketamine and entheogens as opposites in many ways, one reduces conciousness and the other increase it, it feels like this or something

Good overview @Keryo Koffa I am actually just returning from a ban for my post telling him hes stupid lol! Its clear the dudes an ego-maniac who overestimates his own intelligence and peoples need or desire for his opinion, calling him stupid seemed like an apt response

No I listed his most distinguishing aspects. I already said in the bottom of my post, no human is perfect, and everyone is self-cerving to some degree, but you totally ignored this as it doesnt fit your agenda

I read some of the thread and its bizarre. People make wild accusations about musk with minimal justifications. Im not the worlds biggest Musk expert, but where does he pretend to be something hes not etc? I dont see it He clearly is driven, ambitious, hardworking, and intelligent. He seems strategically brilliant in business so far. Literally no human on the planet cant be found to have had some self-serving tendencies at points in there life lol

You must be seriously stupid. Where did I write 'sex is a bad' thing - thats a complete lie. Thats the problem when people who lack basic intelligence use the internet

Yeah I find those comments wierd tbh, Ive had incredibly dark trips on weed after not smoking for ages and taking high doses. I didnt try 5meo yet, but will acquire some this month and report back.

Unlike you I have seen demons and looked them in there eyes, your poetic idyllic notions will be thrown at the window so fast if you ever genuinely visit hell or go near demons lol, thats the issue of people not speaking from direct experienc, it ends up in fantasy. You would beg for mercy if you find yourself close to any hells, and to think otherwise is serious delusion

Becuase the Godhead and Infinity are True, and everything else is lies and deceit to different degrees and are finite by definition. Finitude at some point has to die into infinitude by definiiton