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We are equivalent to pressure. Your body under alot of pressure you feel it. when you die pressure is released you go thank God and realize there was none. Or you go the other way and early pressurize yourself even more. Its up to you. You can be a pressure cooker with your lid stuck to the rest of the container or you can let go of the pressure. Right now you feel pressures of life and say thats me but its the air pushing against itself. The homecoming is when all pressure is released and you float to heaven. Spirituality is like brining the release of deep sleep into your real life. Like the pressure of a fart in Gods intestine the farting is the awakening.

@LordFall Yes the dullness is the illusion as you are never safe. The safety is a fiction we have created. The woman wont get dull if she is surviving. We are playing right now so the woman can get bored and she can go out and seek new opportunities and all this stuff can happen like wealth status fame.

If they were starving the woman will have to go with man who will give her food. Other men can take her food and do whatever they want to her. So she will go with a person that will protect her. The tech scenarios is just a distraction because she has food. If there was none she would find the one with toughness and protection better everytime. One holds more objectivity because the second one only exists because the 1st one is taken care of temporarily. The second one is an illusion over the 1st one. The second one is not real if the 1st one isnt there and its only there because of this society that has never existed ever in the history of animal species. If you are in a city and the city has a qualiative aspect to it compared to being in the wilderness. That is an illusion. Yours still in the wilderness its just paved and with buildings. Its a fake protective field over your conciousness. This is why man is special they are able to manipulate the qualia of the field of conciousness to make it feel different instead of wilderness. You can really notice it in small towns as you are in the wilderness then you enter the town and qualia of the field you are in changes to being protected. Then you leave the town again shortly and it goes away. If you enter the town and feel like you are in the wilderness you are witnessing the original field. This is what man can do for itself it can change the qualia of the field of conciousness. The fiction of not needing toughness and protection allows the woman to be able to go after the tech billionaire. Its made up by having the qualiatative field changing by the illusions that man creates. Once that goes the tech billionaire and his money is completely BS.

@LordFall Imo you must seperate. If you grow old you will not learn the important lesson of God taking away the most important thing to you. Its not about comfort its about giving yourself away and losing yourself and then finding yourself again. The appreciation of love comes after its gone. If you are looking to be comfortable then it is not the right idea for you. You arent looking for love with a woman you are looking for love with everything in the spiritual way. You cant do that unless you give yourself away and die when the thing you gave yourself too goes away. There may be other ways i dunno. But this way the thing will be gone and you can see its actually still there cause you are the thing you are looking for. THE ENTIRE TIME! Then goals and dreams fade as the most important thing to you and the only thing a man will surrender to that isnt himself, a woman, is not what you were looking for either. You were looking for the love and need the woman made you feel and its here right now. The woman is the tool to get the emotion thats locked inside of you.

Its a bait to get liberals to not vote.

Its not real. Reality takes place on one frame. When you get down to it when you are your death bed you will realize you were making up your life from the point of view of being on a deathbed looking at a picture the entire time. And the other frames you were remembering were just imaginings like you can use your imagination right now. You will start thought looping as reality gets to less and less frames repeating over an over again and you will be forced into one frozen frame. And reality will become a painting. The causations are taking place the same way you can imagine a random event happening and then imagine another random event happening. Did those two events happen at causily to eachother? A little bit cause you imagined them. Did they happen in a timeline? No cause theres no timeline in your imagination.

@LordFall Well falling in love with a woman is a goal that beats them all. Its the best thing for a man to experience in life. Its a special experience that God created. Working and goals are man made but God created man and woman falling in love. Nothing man made compares to what God created because God created the human body specifically for doing that. Its not special for the universe but its special specifically for human beings. God made human body so you can give your soul to someone and they can hold it. A cat cannot do this. You cant actually give them your soul but you can pretend you are doing it an its just as real. I would go so far as say the only reason you exist now as a man is so you can give yourself away to a woman. You cant do this with a checkbox to have sex with 100 woman. The only reason you want to have sex is to experience God. When you give yourself away to a woman you are left with God(nothing). Thats why you are a human man to experience that pleasure of knowing God but the dark side of it. When you see the dark side you can appreciate the light and love with no bounds. A man wont surrender to another man or thing he will only surrender to a woman that he is in love with.

His nosejob took the bump off his nose that made him look individualistic. Now its like oh a clone or a completely different person. Which is what he wanted but not what other people wanted. Thats where looksmaxxing will take you. You will take a peice of art that God put on you that makes you you and after you wont feel like you. Cause it was never the features. Its body dismorphia AKA Schizophrenia.

@LordFall Well first if you have a plan to sleep with 100 woman you gotta throw it away. You cant find a true love with a plan to sleep with 100 woman its not logical to the brain. You would have already labelled your true love as number 45 before my love or even a person. Often time you will fall in love with a person that you met randomly and didnt really think about. When you fall in love with a person they become beautiful.

@AerisVahnEphelia This man has a serious problem. He needs to step back and regroup himself. You have no idea. If he chased a woman now he would fumble instantly. You dont chase people in an unhealthy mindset. His mindset needs to get off woman. First step is to disengage and stop identifying with it. Then he can come back after. If you notice his problem he is asking is not about how to chase woman its that he is overthinking about everything and fking it up. You cant overthink then chase that will ruin everything. Chasing is a game of play, this man is in no state to play hes taking it too seriously. He needs to stop overthinking, you do that by disengaging and letting the thoughts settle. He thinking about woman that arent there and the self dialogues and sex fantasies pile up over years of doing this. Thats why he cant look them in the eyes, because he is thinking dirty thoughts and dosent want them to know. I dont need to come up with another its right the first time. Life is hard for him cause hes lying to God about whats happening via imagination. If he stopped lying to God about fking woman and identifying with them he will be able to look them in the eye and talk to them normally. Then he can play. Then like Leo said he can realize that the hot ones are just as boring as the ugly ones. If he keeps going with fantasies and lies to himself about what is happening he will stay this way forever.

I saw the truth before seeking. It was survival after to figure out what happened.

Stop looking at them unless they are talking to you. In 1 week you will stop. Be around hot woman and don't look at them. What happens is you look at them and say I want that. You identify with it and your eyes will automatically look at it without you even doing it. Now you are trapped. Now you've made up a lie about reality. And you think about them when you jerk off and it fucks it up more. The woman find you more attractive when you act like you dont like them. If you act like you are over desperate they know you are jerking off to them mentally or physically. You are identifying with woman who have nothing to do with you cause they are hot. And you think if you say something different you will get them. Its not going to happen like that you have to de identify then be yourself. The easiest way to deidentify is to stop looking. You treat them special when they aren't. If you do this for one week around them you will notice a huge difference. They will talk to you.

Its weird that you have to relearn that you cant lose anything.

@Jirh I think it works like a cartoon. Like a kid can know that stepping on a dogs tail hurts it without knowing about the internal mechanisms. The intelligence is the kid knowing that. Like it just knows from the top down it can watch a cartoon and the dog comes before the internal mechanism. the internal mechanism is only observed after something is added onto what it is. Reality is more cartoon like than what science thinks it is. They are cutting open a cartoon character when they dont have too. Science is like rape of God. A man digging into something to see whats inside without consent. They wont find anything the same way you wont find a person in a human being. You can dig through and find guts and brain and bone but no person. You can mutilate your cartoon character and God will make up logical reasons for why the person exists but first comes the person and everything else is just an explanation for what it is. The after the fact analysis of whats happening and why is not real and not needed.

I remember when caring about your looks was gay for a guy to do. It was a better time. I used to make fun of people like this.

Ive seen interviews where mike tyson is eating handfuls of shrooms and he says he is doing it all day. And he act normal he a warrior in every sense. He not scared of anything but God. One time he said he was working out and died while working out and became God. He is a good case to look at where his intellect is too low to thoroughly speak about what he experienced but you know what he is talking about. God is beautiful in that you dont need to be intellectually smart to understand it. Anything a retard to a genius can see it and the way its expressed differently between the too is good to look at. This shows the intelligence of God it can speak to anything the same.

When you go outside take lawn chair and put it on the ground so the back is on the ground. And look at the universe like its an imax theater.

@cetus maybe my parents were my gurus. Or life itself.

If you look for it outside yourself you do not get it. Everytime you take your consciousness outside of your head to find something thats what you dont get. Cause you are saying its not here. Take your conciousness and feel how it feels to sit there and no one is there. You are sitting there inside your conciousness. Now there is a hot woman in front of you. Feel how you take your conciousness and move it to somewhere outside of your head and say I want that. Thats whats stopping you from having sex. If you approach keep your conciousness in your own head and don't make up that there is something there outside to get. If a king sit on his throne his conciousness never leaves his head because he is the most important thing. If 7 woman giving him a bj the kinds conciousness dosent move hes still the most important thing.

@Joseph Maynor A gift my mother and father gave me via abuse is I stopped narrating my life. I had no control and thinking only made it worse as they were insane and didn't make sense. Eventually I gave up talking to myself as nothing I did worked or was good enough. This is how abuse will awaken you as you will start to question where these feelings are coming from if you aren't narrating.

@LordFall Its a lie. People who are with you for your wealth state and fame are using you. If you think you can use them back you are only fooling yourself. They will take what you think is you and you will be left with what is really you. Its a bunch of people using eachother to get what they think they dont have.

@LordFall You dont need the term its made up. Wiping your own ass is not softmaxxing even if you say it is. Its not real. I am denying the fact that softmaxxing exists as we already have words for it. Just because a word is made up by someone dosent mean its real. Looksmaxxing however is real. Its like creating a word related to a mental illness to not make the mental illness seem real. If there is a fat ugly 700 pound man laying in his own filth and he decides to wipe the shit off his body according to this he is softmaxxing. It dosent make any sense. The word is boundless and has no meaning to it.

@LordFall Is wiping your ass soft looksmaxxing? You are just labelling things you do as a grand scheme towards something you can add anything in there and it fits your idea of what the word is. Its just making shit up. The word becomes completely redundant. The words you are using have no substance. You are negating the substance of your own terms and saying im doing it. You are being ambiguous to the what your words mean cause they dont have one you can just throw anything in there. To be part of a trend that is retarded in itself.

Softmaxxing isnt real, the word is a hypocrisy towards itself. Its called shaving and grooming we dont need a new word for shaving and grooming. Its not maxing, soft maxxing isnt maxxing. If you want to make up words to be right just know you are doing it.

Spiritual path is literally the opposite of looksmaxxing. The spiritual people make themselves less apealing and retarded on purpose. A punk is spiritual. They lay in the dirt and cut their hair to look like a retard. A looksmaxxer is a wussy baby. Looksmaxxing is like the epitome of maya.