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@Leo GuraI heard a woman before say they gave it to man. They have a friend they arent attracted too a friend but feel bad that they are trying so hard so they do it. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1odbtg/is_pity_sex_real/ It seems to be a common topic in the subreddit dead bedrooms which is a whole other level of fked up. Woman give pity sex to thier husbands.

I work as a cleaner at my job I clean everything by hand. I have found that this is the most attractive thing for a woman by far. Beyond money beyond even attraction. If you want a life purpose that attracts woman its cleaning something, without tools, by hand. Its Akin to a woman selling a car and the man saying do you come with the car? The amount of times I've been asked will you come to my house and clean my walls is every single time I do it. Since it happens so often (every single day) i ask them why are women saying this to me so much? The answer is they have literally never seen a man do it before. Its not feminine to them and they find it extremely attractive in a masculine way.

Women feel superior over unattractive men. They actually dont even want to talk to unattractive men. Woman value is beauty if they find themselves more beautiful they feel more valuable. Then games over they are not interested they have control over the unattractive man. I have seen more woman bully ugly men then try to sleep with them. Saying ugly men have to be persistent basically is saying if men beg a woman for sex long enough then she can feel bad and give it to them. Pity sex and it wont happen twice. Be ready to swallow any pride you had.

Yes imo. Its the realization that you are a black hole and you cant die. You can see the black hole when you close your eyes and sleep. When you die you are just the black hole and youll be like why cant I move anymore. Joke is you never moved.

@Jannes very scary

You dont have free will to decide what to do you have free will to feel what you want about what is happening. When you feel like a victim you enter negative state when you accept you enter positive state. Remeber you dont have to explain anything to anyone about what you are doing or what is happening. Life will gaslight you into take sides. ( this is your free will) Woman will do this especially. For instance it has happened to me multiple times where I'm sitting there enjoying my life and the topic gets brought up that I'm rich cause I live alone and have no kids. I say im not rich I'm just chilling comfortably. I say if I had a wife then maybe we could save more together cause 1 income pretty much pays the bills and mortgage if I had 2 incomes maybe I'd be rich. Now they are telling me that I should find a wife and pick up more shifts to get more money. Do you see the gaslight? I never was thinking about any of that and I was sitting comfortably. People just started making problems out of nothing. Now I'm sitting there thinking that I should work harder or go look for a wife for no reason. ( its my free will) This happens alot more than you think. Another instance i want to fast 1 day. I go to lunch the people say oh you aren't eating? Are you on a diet? No I'm just not eating right now. Well you should eat. I don't want to im not eating right now. Then next meal suddenly you are on a diet. The next day you bring in food and the person says you aren't on a diet anymore? I never was you are gaslighting me into taking an identity. Its important to pay attention to these as they alter the free will you do have. You have the free will to control your ego thats it and people will try to take your free will from you.

When you fix mental problems in this dream it will go and transfer to your unconcious. Ie scared irl will make you scared and react when you dream. Sad irl you will be sad in dream. Annihilate all and you will dream and say im dreaming. Then wake up and say im dreaming. The Problems dissolve and you see you never really existed you were multiple povs of the same dreamer. If you meditate alot irl you will meditate in dream.

Yes like a dream Have you ever been confused on what to do in a dream? No you just do what you want or you do whatever it is you are doing. The problem is you think you have a problem.

Being a kid/teenager is the hard part. Its like a game that starts on hard.

Sad that it wasn't a conversation. You can clearly see sadhguru is gone mad. He talks about looping life patterns mean you are stuck when he's looping the entire conversation he's been looping the dame shit for 20 years.This would have been the interview to go into details but he just blundered the whole thing.

@Breakingthewall life is dead. Look at the flower theres nothing there.

If you like Bashar logical framework you can use AI to talk to him based on his framework. You can tell it to act like Bashar and go step by step thought process of what you want and it will tell you what to do. You can put your thought process in ( when you have friction) and it will tell you what you are doing wrong and how to change how you think. It said its as simple as changing a word you are using to a more positive word.

Its kinda like thinking why dont we just take all the silence out of music so we can take the raw data of the music. It ends up being just noise. The silence between beats makes the beat. I used to refuse to listen to indian gurus im like these guys are talking way too fking slow speed it up buddy.

Have your billboard say learn engrish and have the r crossed out to an l.

Thinking you know someone is enlightened is cringe af. You know of like .00000001 of the population. You know no one. You probably dont even know your neighbour.

@r0ckyreedIts like you using yourself to say you dont exist. It works cause who else is going to say it not ironic because no one else can do that you have to do it. Its almost ironic to think anything but logic can use logic to tell you it dosent exist.

They are coming from the space in front of you. Theres nothing in your body. Your body is like a clay sculpture theres nothing in it. You just make up that theres something inside of it its actually all out there. If you are dreaming does the inside of your body in the dream have anything in it? No its made up that inside a body exists. Its like a vr headset. The vr headset has a game mode that let's your thought seperste from reality cause you previously went bat shit crazy and totally lost control of the simulation. This is like a mini game where you can reset your psyche so when you go back into thoughts creating reality you can stop ✋ and go slowly. The sad part is people can play the mini game and go even more crazy. Meditation/conciousness work is a way to stop narrating whats happening. In dreams and in real life you get trapped in the narration and your mind goes absolutely nuts. These are tools to slow down. If you pay attention to your dreams you can see you are unconciously narrating the dream into existence. Unconciously the keyword. In reality we do the same thing we get into states of unconcious narration. You aren't in your body. There is nothing behind the light. You are nothing in the field in front of you.

@Talinn how old are you?

Imagine if you kill yourself you still are alive and you will feel the emotions you do on a regular basis but you are nothing while doing it. Think about all your fluctuations in emotions and the quality of the emotions you have on a daily basis. Do you want to lock yourself into the emotions you are experiencing for eternity? Do you want to be sick of bullshit for eternity? You will dissolve but you will still be there sick of bullshit and struggling. Heal yourself and maintain high emotions and then if you still want to do it go for it. But to do it out of frustration will be seen as a terrible terrible idea imo. You will just experience the same emotions over and over again 10 fold. Imagine your skull bounces back your own emotions to yourself so you can experience them. Now take the skull of self reflection away and your emotions expand into infinite and you cant stop it. Its obviously not noble or courageous its trying to end early. Is it noble or courageous to end a meditation early? To end work early cause you are sick of it? To stop a plank cause you are tired? No its not at all. Its noble and courageous to endure, you have no idea what will happen when you do. Tommorow all your frustrations and hatred could vanish for no fking reason. Life is like a seed. Right now you are the plant struggling to get out of the seed. Then the plant comes out of the seed it explodes and sees a new dimension of life it didnt see before that was always there. You arent stuck you are gaining strength to burst out of your seed and getting frustrated. If the seed ends its life cause its frustrated then its a complete waste and not noble at all. Would you think a king is noble cause he killed himself cause he was under too much pressure? No you would say thats not king. You need to endure to be king. There are outside plants that are actuvely sabotaging your growth into a plant because you will take more of their nutrients. Its not their decisions its Gods and God says you live and get nutrients. If you dont like where you are leave! God will take care of you. You not liking where you are is God telling you to leave. If you are too scared to leave then keep breaking the rules till you get kicked out. Now you have no option. All you have to do in life is get up and move. Everything else is not your problem.

@JannesIm not accurate on the timing of the karma its obviously completely up to the person I dont know about how long it stays it might stay forever.

@JannesFk

Whenever you have casual sex you will develop karma with the person. Think like each time you have casual sex you develop a year of karma ( memories) about that person. Or even longer. Its not worth it to cum. I have sex with 1 woman over 3000 times and I'm still karmically connected to the person after 10 years of not seeing the person. Imo casual sex is not worth it for this reason. It stops peace of mind. I have casual sex with another woman 1 time and it karmically connected me to the person for almost a year and I didn't even really like it. Karma being your body reminds you of the sex you had and you get horny and jerk off or react to the memory.

@HafizYou can fly. Its possible for a human to fly. You can get so happy that your body starts floating in the air. When you get happy and loving your body gets physically lighter. Tkae the happiest and most loving state youve been in and times it by 10 thousand and you will start to float in the air. Not flying necessarily flying like a bird but like floating and moving. I think youd have to know and feel 100 percent like you are in a dream. enlightenment might not make you fly but it will show you its possible.

When you are feeling upset for what you are, when you are it, and think that adding something over top of the identity will help, it is deeply misleading. You cant just change without erasing what you are first. When you are upset and thinking that changing your identity will help, it wont because you are actually adding more on top of the discomfort you already feel as a mask. The upset person is still under the new identity and it starts to boil even more. When you transition the person you were before transitioning is still there. Its like you have a house that you dont like and instead of tearing down the house you are adding more stories to it and then ignoring that the original house still exists. You can pretend its not there but your mind cant. This is an absolute disaster waiting to happen. When your identity collapses you are neither man or woman gay or straight or trans. The identity and the body dont have anything to do with eachother except for the fact that they are inhabiting one thing. The idea of trans is one thing arguing with itself that it isnt what it is. If you somehow erased the identity before transitioning theres no one there to want to transition. Its a very personal and complex issue that is being pushed by the government and politics as if its a game. It isnt a game its very serious. Its more serious than religious beliefs. There are many children that are being caught in the crossfire.