BlueOak

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  1. Good luck to you. The word you picked: Deal. Makes me want to say be easier on yourself, and be a good friend to yourself.
  2. Anything can be expanded in your mind to infinity and forever. Don't just think in terms of physical size, the reality you create to experience and understand is a lot more than a physical dimension of size. A quick example: This topic can be expanded forever or it can be ended by a moderator right after this post. Everything 'can be' infinite, because you are, it can also end because 'ending' is a concept in infinity that we've defined. So yes, whatever concept of god you want to label can be infinite, so can the emotion you are experiencing, or the business you want to run, your love for a sport, the relating you can do with someone or toward something, the ways to perceive a planet or the nature of the universe, understanding the living ocean, etc This is all done in your head. I am not pulling strings in your head. So it's in one mind. Yours
  3. Yes on the deepest level there is no life. If you do nothing, there is nothing but the experience and observation of it. The response above was great advice for how that person creates meaning in their life. So how will you create meaning, purpose, passion, experience, connection, significance **** insert the noun here, in yours? https://www.tonyrobbins.com/blog/do-you-need-to-feel-significant https://tealswan.com/resources/articles/relationships-and-the-six-human-needs Most of the time those six needs drive emotional reactions in us, and depending how well realised and chosen those behaviors/patterns we are running to achieve them are, dictates where we place on the emotional spectrum.
  4. I am not a human mind, I (we) are the universe focusing things into this human experience in an order I (we) can relay it in communication. It doesn't mean I am sitting here thinking through exactly what to say or completely winging it either (I do allow my ego to correct), I mean this all started unfolding years ago into place now from all the previous experiences we've had and all the things occurring right now around us. Its the same for you, us as a collective; if I call it a pattern I would draw a long curling line going through your/our life, that's the best way I can give you infinity right now in words. It's the connections in your mind from one subject to the next, from one distinction or experience you've had to the other. Changed exactly as intended by everyone else talking to you. A way to prepare someone for alien consciousness would be to continually put them in situations for which they had no or a limited frame of reference for. This is why drugs work, but so does meditation with allowance for whatever to happen, or just living life if you are not scared to go do things you've never done before. Free-flowing creation and art also works in this way, allowance for whatever happens to happen.
  5. Look at a problem you've solved in life and then find a way to sell how you did it. If you haven't solved any at all, think harder, if you still can't think of one then solve one!
  6. Its not hard to see the choice. They can fight on their own land and destroy their own cities, and if they go forward they hit heavily defended Russian lines. If they go back they are further in their own country. or They can fight on Russian land and destroy Russian cities, and if they go forward they hit conscripts with no defenses. If they go back they are still inside Russia Russia doesn't respond quickly or effectively to changes on the battlefield. It is however very sturdy and predictable once it has adapted, but that could take 6 months. They are also using a more western doctrine of mobility rather than trying to match the Russians shell for shell which is a far superior choice. Further it is much harder for the average Russian to bury their head in the sand as to what their own country is doing when their neighbors are now homeless. All in all, I was calling for this years ago now. Use Russia's insanely large landmass against them with mobility. They can keep the Russians guessing until they have to slow down, but now that the gloves are off they can go in any direction.
  7. Much of America loves Drama. Your media plays to your love of Drama to keep you watching. Your political process uses Drama to keep you interested Your corporations sell America the drama it loves. Etc. America has a very active psyche that seems to be operating at 110% all the time. He who shouts loudest gets listened to the most, is true in many places in the world, but its very true in America. Moreso when they engage people's love for a story, a narrative, a cause to feel good while simultaneously hating on the 'other', so they can feel like they've defined the problem and can see a solution. *They created the problem. *They created the solution. *They created the feeling. etc. I could keep editing this lol, you'll see countries like Russia love some of this too, as long its on state TV and they are being told who the bad guy is in simple terms. The hero, the villain, the victim. All well defined since childhood. (And yes they created the problem, solution and feeling too).
  8. X ------------------------------------ Y I'll consider this a letter distinction, a space distinction, a shape distinction, a form distinction, a position distinction, a direction distinction etc, etc. I'll consider this a shape, a drawing, an equation, typed lines on a page, a doodle, a silly anecdote by a blue tree,
  9. Everything is a construct. We can create distinctions out of anything. We can create infinite reasons for things existing, being constructed, created, or happening. Then we connected it all in our own map of what means what, how, and why. A collective understanding on fundamentals helps the world function, if we can agree what the fundamentals are: Spoiler we can't in totality and never will because infinite is never a fixed thing to model.
  10. I hid this initially, as I tend to agree with @Bjorn K Holmstrom it's the kind of test that will give everyone who takes it some form of disorder, and that to me, is a failing of the modern medical professional to over diagnose people. I would challenge someone to try and get a 0% to see if it's possible. I scored high on Schizoid 86% which I agree with because I've lived below the poverty line in an affluent area for 20+ years and adapted myself to it all my adult life. Few relationships outside of family and work, with a lot of alone time. Compulsive 50%, which I didn't agree with, as I'm not spontaneous and, if anything, too reserved. Some 43% negativistic and 57% depressive tendencies in there linked to the first point, which I agree with: Always the money. No matter how long you practice philosophy or spirituality (or anything else for that matter), if you are broke, life sucks. Dependent was sort of expected but i'd put it around 20% now, I've done a lot of work on it.
  11. I appreciate the similar life experiences shared and the solutions offered, gratitude to all of you
  12. I've noticed most of my life that I am looking for problems to solve, and it's a chronic state. Sometimes people love it because you are being useful to them or helping them out, but I've been working with a guy that's aware enough to tell me, you're always solving a problem, and that's something I've considered before in relationships, and such with women but never work. I don't engage much with life if I am not solving a problem of some kind. It's an odd dynamic currently, he keeps telling me to work less hard and relax, but all my life I've had people who want me flat out all day working, and that's when I feel like I have a job, or feel like I am living life or in a relationship. It's not that I can't or don't just switch off and relax, outside of work I am somewhat lazy I feel, but I don't feel like there is much to the day when I do.
  13. You are not in isolation. You are at the crest of a wave, and then it filters down. Your words, actions, energy and the ripples bring those realisations to all of us slowly. That's why it gets a bit easier for others to have awakenings and such as more people have them. Incidently that's why I don't like when you hold back information because we are not receiving it fully yet. I feel like saying: Well yeah obviously! That'll take more of the collective to have those experiences first.
  14. I don't have much of a flow with life. For me, that's a state I would experience sporadically when on a task. I have problems that come up and I solve them. When I don't have anything to do I have two choices usually, solve something or relax. As to why, that's my frame for life. When I am not doing that, I am wasting time or relaxing. This thread is another problem-solving thread, so it's even here . Specifically at work, I feel that's what work is about, solving problems, finding solutions, and assisting people. Examples: I exercise to solve the problem of my weight, possibly dating again, get my strength up, and keep me healthy through middle age. I work to pay my bills, start a business up again, maybe socialize and feed myself etc. When I have some spare money again I'll socialize to make friends, form connections, be there for someone etc, have some creative expression outside of work. I come on here to have meaningful conversations, see different points of view, raise my awareness and grow, help people out, and be helped sometimes. It's all either this is the problem or need etc, so this is what I do. OR I am choosing to relax right now. When I go through topics here, I skim for either questions or things I think I could help with and have some knowledge about. I like a mystery and miss the times when I thought they surrounded me, but I think I've solved most of them of consequence, and if not, I know they will come to me throughout my life (like this one).
  15. Thanks for the reply. I don't have a problem with that, I can give them some help and extract myself from a conversation easily enough. I used to have a problem fixing people's problems and then losing interest, and attracting people who liked the fact I was supporting them in that way, but that's resolved now. I used to feel that but I think I've gone too far with it. A part of me feels I am creating these problems to solve. Keeping this practical, this comes out in me looking for things to fix at work, I've had bosses that loved that I was proactive, but it becomes a problem when the rest of life feels less engaging as a result. Yeah we lose and change friends as we go through life and change ourselves. I agree I need to let some things go myself and not try and fix them so much. Its a healthier way to live.
  16. Sitting with room around you is usually okay, though I've heard people who get into deep states say kneeling with elbows resting on the bed is a good way, leaning slightly forward. For most of us a pillow or cushion under the knees will probably be more comfortable.
  17. Short version is there is no highest, no knowing, nothing aside from what is happening right now inside yourself that you are watching unfold. That doesn't mean dismiss things that come to mind, because that's part of the experience also.
  18. Self-Viewing: The Experience | Your mind as a Filter Retelling: The Experience | Your mind as a Filter | The listener's mind as a filter 2nd Hand Accounts in a book or video: The Experience | Viewer's mind as a filter | Writer's Mind |Reader's Mind Jury Duty for written statements: The Experience | Viewer's Mind as a filter | Writer's Mind (Officer) | Reader's Mind (Lawyer) | Listener's Mind (Jurior) | Anyone listening to the Jury in deliberation. Oneness: The Experience Importantly: The experience you are having is unique to you, it is framed by you within your beliefs or values, referenced and given meaning by you, and created by you, mass detail is unconsciously stored by you to be referenced later, potentially emotionally bonded or referenced by you, brought into alignment by all the connections you've made in life, the energy of the experience has a unique quality, the timing when it happens during your life etc. There is a lot of subtlety in experience, what you are currently generating to experience, and for why you are doing so. It is differently experienced in many ways, from person to person.
  19. Most of the land Russia takes is not strategically important, with a few important exceptions. This appears to be a similar land grab from Ukraine,and another is potentially starting in Belgorod now. Unless it's still a ruse of some kind which appears unlikely at this point. It appears that Russia has taught Ukraine and the west something about how to fight a war over very large mostly flat areas. Most people's egos will not allow them to see that truth however, on either side. Ukraine is using Russian strategy against them, by learning from it. By that I mean grab every field and every tree, because there is so much land, quantity over quality in this war in terms of terrain/resources/cover etc. *Hearing reports they are at 500 square km's now.
  20. Let me give this a shot. Hunger: Get Food: No Hunger. You call the being getting hungry YOU, and then you define what YOU means. But that definition doesn't exist anywhere, you can't point it out to me. There is just the experience of being hungry, and then eating, to not feel hungry. Then you see someone else and say other, then define what other means. You can point to a second body sure, but anything beyond the physical sensation of something in front of you is all made up in your head. You could say Me and You. Us. Them. Two People. Two entities. Begins. Pair. Group. etc. It would just be a label. We add so much that doesn't actually exist, and it tends to complicate life the more we add. The simpler we make it, the simpler life is. I use the words you and me because that's understood (and quite simple) in the experience, I realise I am talking to myself. I will take what you say give it meaning, and then react to myself, I know this logically and experience how I alter conversations along often predictable patterns. We can call them levels if it helps, I understand there is a level beyond that, I understand and experience emotion manifesting the flavor of the experience that's fairly easy to demonstrate to most people, but it also assists in creating even out of the blue changes, let alone altering the pattern being run. What you are experiencing is yourself. Always. The torus model runs forever, that's why it's quite useful for demonstration.
  21. Hopefully this helps: In various orders, but always together. The logical mind trying to draw circles where it is not is fun, but there are no circles, no mind, no individuals or collective either. Whatever model you focus on becomes your frame for reality. Truly there is just this. | | and this moment right here you are now having. Until leo or another part of me can convince me this moment doesn't exist, I will believe that now is all that exists. Consciousness would be a concept, yes but then so is everything else, including the words or implication (everything else). It's true that this is all bricks you put together to understand reality in the way you wish, but that changes nothing, it always has been.
  22. From my limited understanding, poker involves managing risk, reading people, taking chances, a good head for numbers and percentages, having a sharp memory, and at higher levels a detailed strategy. These things can help the population in life generally, but there are negatives: Addiction, financial problems, crime to pay bills/addictions, and the general social strain these things present in other areas, families, communities, etc. It can also support organized crime if people go too far into these traps, as they have to pay off people with significantly worse consequences.
  23. @Consept Britain has been invaded so many times that there has always been an assortment of cultures: The thumbnail here is a good start. Romans, Saxons, Normans, Danes, Celts, Beakers. Its the same reason we became so adept at warfare, a lot of warmongers settled here, and everyone else learned to keep up. It was a natural place for immigration, being a well-developed, rich island, which only diversified the culture more. The end result is regional cultures, exemplified by the number of accents, for example, rather than a national culture.
  24. Completely the opposite opinion. You can have 100 breakthroughs stacking shelves, walking your dog, and day to day life. You can also sit meditate and have a wild one. It's all you; you set it up and live it. I've never done DMT but then it's produced in my brain, so I never needed to, just shifting the focus from thought is enough. Listening to people like Leo can also be enough in itself, because Leo is also you. Getting in front of the right speakers, if only the retreats didn't cost so damned much. Grumble Grumble. I'd be doing that too. But the dog, the shelves, the day-to-day life. The guy telling me to relax at work more, me realizing he's too relaxed (and all the related connections those two states come with), the mother I'm caring for and realizing aspects of myself (and aspects of surrender, moving on), the father who is getting old and the parts of myself of forgiven on the micro/macro in forgiving him. Then words of wisdom from Leo, teal, sevan etc are enough. Some people can be unintelligent, simple and humble, and in perfect harmony with their life.
  25. Is anyone part of this effort, or do you have any experience with the individuals involved? https://integrallife.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@IntegralNaked/videos I discovered them a few weeks ago but I've been busy with work. *Possibly better in a different forum this question, but it crosses several.