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https://www.kan.org.il/content/kan/kan-11/p-658949/684084/ A Must watch documentary about the Nova festival massacre. Although I knew all the dry facts, until watching it I couldn't fathom what happened there.

@Salvijus fair enough @cetus Thanks

@Salvijus what's the source for this advice? As a life coach / therapist, and from much work on my own, that sounds like bad advice for someone in her situation. It might be right in the logical sense, but it ignores the emotional wound. There is a little girl inside of her that is seeking healing and she can't just ignore her. IMO going beyond it would be to ignore it and resist it. and what you resist persist. @Judy2 It sounds that you understand, that the voice that asks these questions is a voice that is seeking healing. And the healing is by giving validation to yourself, by seeing the pain and validating the pain and giving it place. can you see the hurt girl inside of you? if you can, talk to her, validate her, ask her what she needs, hug her. be for her the benevolent parent that she lacked in her past.

@Leo Gura How would Israel act differently if it was a higher consciousness state? How would you act if you were the PM of Israel?

Because without suffering you could not feel and appreciate the opposite of suffering - comfort, openness, expansion, relaxation.

@Karmadhi Where are you from? do you think you country is more moral than Israel? if Israel is as moral as Russia, why does in this conflict its Russia who supports Hamas and Ukraine support Israel? It seems to me that @DawnC is presenting you with many valuable question to help you understand the situation, and it seems to me that you are not interested in understanding the situation but just hating Israel. What hurts you so much?

What's the source to that? If you adhere to this kind of logic of "my actions are justified by the past", you must also think that Israel's Response to the massacre is justified. Otherwise you are holding double standards.

Abducted Israeli soldier was freed by IDF from Hamas captivity https://www.ynetnews.com/article/bj0119lpz6

good job!

The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, Book by Sogyal Rinpoche

sounds good, I'm gonna try

@Leo Gura Would you trade all your knowledge, insights and spiritual experiences for good health?

@MihaiXx Oh shit that was painful to read. Too close to the similar experience I had and that I'm trying to forget Ignorant is truly bliss

If I'm God, and I have the ultimate unbounded freedom to create as I please, surely I can create other beings as myself, separated from me. Hence the world we live in with many different consciousnesses. Solipsism debunked?

Are there any video games that have deep, real spiritual/consciousness message to them? Isn't it the ideal medium (because of the element of choice you can implement) for showing and teaching the masses, especially the young about it? If there are no such games, why not create one? I think that may be my life purpose What should I study If would like to make such a project? all I have is a passion for spirituality, video games and a degree in physics

are they any good courses / channels for that stuff? TO be honest I want just to do the minimum to have a passable insta account.

@NoSelfSelf I don't mind putting effort to something if it's worth it. But right now I have other priorities. I'm looking for the 20% that brings 80% of the results. @LordFall Ok, You've convinced me to watch.

@museumoftrees but does it develop you? and what are the chances for becoming famous from Video games? I just want an IG to complement my cold approaches @LordFall This looks too advance, I'm looking just for the basics. Do you have a video recommendation for basic stuff?

You can join The "Israeli actualized.org fans" Whatsup group

send a message that it was nice to talk to her with your name. if she responds, ask what's up with her and chat abit , tell her something about your day for example. once you have a fun chill small talk, ask her what she is doing this week. after she answers, asks when she is free to meet this week and offer her to do something.

Deep down my intuition tells me my soul mate is out there looking for me. That my life purpose is to find her and love her. (In addition to my career life purpose). But as the days go and pass, and I am still by myself, I ask myself - maybe I'm just deluded? maybe there is a chance I will never find "her"? maybe I'll be by myself for the rest of my life, without a woman to love, without children to love? I think I work hard to become my best self and I do enjoy the process, I mostly do it for myself. And I'm quite a happy person and I do enjoy my life. I am blessed in many ways - I'm super healthy, smart, kind, have a good family all things considered, looks young, do things that I love, honest. But sometimes I have these moments - Wow I work hard for it, learn and study to be more attractive, practice many hours of pick up, and I never complain. I really feel like I do my best, but I haven't attracted a Girl (I can love) into my life. It just breaks my heart to see it - because I see the pure honest motivation that I have, just to love and do good (and I feel I have many gifts to give) but it feels as if the universe rejects it. I had a dream this night - I was walking in the hallway, half aware it is a dream, very confused, asking whom I see - why am I here? what is my purpose? I was so confused, so innocent, just wanting things to be ok, to do the right thing that everyone will be happy, feeling trapped myself. but I couldn't find the answer. waking up from this dream I started to cry and write this post.

Thanks guys for your perspectives! posting here always helps me seeing things more clear. I am thinking and contemplating the different ideas that you shared

Hold strong eye contact with her (right eye to her right her). escalate. have fun and do what you want!

@integral Mostly listening to her, reflecting her, giving her my perspective and understanding on what she shares. Asking questions to guide her to the root of stuff. Helping her see the positive, her resources, her greatness. Hugging and caressing her when she cries. sprinkling a bit of humor when appropriate. We also do things together for fun like cooking, going to the beach. @Raze Thanks, I'm watching! @Devin Possible. but even if that's the case I enjoy to invest in her right now. It does conflict a bit with other dating opportunities I have so I think If in the next 1-2 meetings the relationship remains platonic, I will open it up with up, make sure what she wants and if she is not interested in anything romantic or sexual - I think I will naturally start to invest more in other girls and less with her. Btw I have an important update, She said she is gonna bake me a pie level of investment over 9000! problem solved??