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Weed hits me hard like a psychedelic as well. Twice, I fainted from smoking a few puffs of weed.

@Yeah Yeah What do you like to do? What would you be happy doing regardless of success?

@theoneandnone Bro, it's hard to face this truth. But if you are GOD and only you exist, you have infinite imagination. So whatever you imagine will become the truth. If you want others to be real, you can imagine it becomes reality, and it will. Ultimately, you versus others is a Duality that collapses like all dualities in the godhead. Solipsism and its opposite are also dualities, and Solipsism is in no way more true than others existing.

@Hojo Nice. I've never played these games, but I like spiritual games.

I recently discovered this song that feels like it validates some spiritual experiences and understandings I have. It made me cry the first few times I was listening to it. It has a solipsistic / Oneness flavor. The song is in Hebrew, and here's my AI-assisted translation: In truth, I’m really, really sorry. And why is it that I'm selling my soul to strangers? A Coward... How hard it is for me to say “I love you” Because I keep my broken heart to myself. An actress... Really, I’m so, so sorry And in the next life, I’ll come back different - To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune For years, I’ve been trying to touch the sky Make this sea split in two To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune I never told you —how afraid I am To speak with the little girl hiding inside of me What would happen if they looked into my eyes? They’d surely discover the secrets that I never told myself— Who am I? Really, I’m so, so sorry And in the next life, I’ll come back different To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune For years I’ve been trying to touch the sky Make this sea split in two To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune I entered the orchard—what have I done to myself? I tasted truth, and in the end, I was left alone Who will understand me? And there’s nothing to be done, this is my lesson Now it’s only me and the God within me Really, I’m so, so sorry And in the next life, I’ll come back different To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune For years, I’ve been trying to touch the sky Make this sea split in two To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune For years, I’ve been trying to touch the sky Make this sea split in two To ascend, to rise, to make amends I'll come back to keep playing the tune Share songs with lyrics that resonate with your spiritual experiences

Mindsets that I find useful: Learn not to take them too seriously. laugh at them. Whatever you can laugh at doesn't have power over you. Whenever you catch yourself identifying with the hurting thoughts, recognize how funny this whole situation is. You have to keep breaking your heart until it opens (Rumi). It fucking hurts, but it's ok. The pain is growing you. Understand that there isn't another option; you have to go through those rejections. So, might as well face them sooner rather than later.

@Xonas Pitfall Well said.

@Agrande It's tempting to believe there is an "easy" way out, but is there? I believe there isn't. I believe that even if you commit suicide, your energy/frequency continues to exist, and it will lead you to a "new dream" where you will have to overcome the same problems you face here. The only way forward is through your problems. The fastest way is to face things and resolve your shit. That's the purpose of Life.

@Never_give_up Maybe it's not so bad. Remember that you only need to be good at one thing to be successful. So one way to go about things is to focus on your strengths. Instead of trying to improve your deficiency, focus on what you're good at and max it out - that's how you can create massive value, and that will ultimately bring you a girlfriend.

@strangelooper hi there, Your suffering sounds great and respect the way you feel about it. I would like to offer you the following idea: what if you could, through the suffering, find meaning and beauty in life? Wouldn't that be intelligent worthy of GOD? You can read Viktor frankl, Marcus Aurelius to get inspired about finding meaning in the darkest places. wishing you the best bro.

@Leo Gura Haha yeah. My instinct is to get into my coaching role, but it's not useful in this situation. I could have also mirrored her body language and created rapport.

So I went for a walk with the intention of talking to girls that I saw, but I was in a bit of a low state, so I didn't force myself and ultimately decided to just enjoy my walk. But then I walked past a girl who caught my attention, and I noticed she was going through something emotional. I didn't approach her, but slowed my pace and noticed she was walking in my direction. I stopped for a moment and let her pass me, but decided that I should approach her. So I came and said Hi, and she seemed happy to talk to me. I saw she was crying. I started asking her questions about what she's going through, but she was kind of hesitant to really answer, besides saying stuff like "I lost myself, I feel alone". We sat somewhere, and I offered her a hug, which she accepted, but she wasn't answering my questions and I started to feel uncomfortable. After some time, she said she'd better be by herself, and we parted ways. I would have liked to support her better, in a selfless way, although of course I wouldn't mind gaining something from it as well, and wonder how I could have done so? I think I was trying to lead it to a logical place and try to understand instead of just supporting her - hugging her, maybe offering her to go eat ice cream and kinda forget a bit what she's going through? Or maybe being vulnerable myself to show her she can do the same? Boys, how would you approach this? Girls, how would you like to be approached in such a situation?

Let's define a superpower as something that you enjoy doing, is easy for you to do, and at which you feel that you're efficient What would be yours? How did you find out what it was? Context: The theory is that by honing your superpower, you can find a way to create value relatively easily and live from it. I struggle to find what my superpower is. Maybe it is listening to people.

@AlienGeometry Cool

@Vali2003 Thanks. I think I get it. @Jirh haha @Salvijus But attraction is a survival mechanism. How is it connected to the truth?