Ramzi08

@aurum why do I look to you like I don't want a serious relationship? I do want a serious relationship with her.

my female best friend and I started flirting but when the question of a serious relationship between the two of us arose, she preferred to distance herself because I am a non-believer. It hurt me a lot. So my question is: does this constitute discrimination because of my ideas or just a matter of preference and taste?

@Felliks what do I want ? Haha , good question. I have mixed feelings towards her . I'm not 100% sure wether I want a relationship with her but in the same time I get jealous when I see her talking to another guy .

My female best friend( who I have been friends with for 3 years ) has started flirting with me lately. two weeks during which she told me that she would like us together and that we should get married immediately. I refused to flirt because I didn't really know if I wanted to be with her. as she saw that I was really not very interested, she asked me directly the following question: do you want us to get married? after I said it was a bad idea, she was a little bit disappointed and told me it was just a joke and that she would rather stay single all her life than be with me. The problem is that it's been a week since all this happened, and I feel a little regretful. Is it possible to win back a woman after such a story?

the problem is in the title, I am not respected neither by my friends (which I do not have) nor by my acquaintances. no one seems to be interested in talking with me. Every time I start a discussion with someone on social media, they either Ghost me, left me on "seen" or don't restart the discussion and respond dryly. This stuff happened to me 7 or 8 times with 7 or 8 different people in just 3 or 4 months! What I really don't understand is that there are people who are much less interesting than me, and much more shy than me, who manage to find a social circle and be respected. The only person I consider a "friend" is a girl I haven't managed to seduce and who kept me in the friendzone. If you have any ideas to suggest to me, go ahead.

@NoSelfSelf she's just a friend, I don't want to f*CK her .

a good female friend of mine posted a selfie of the two of us in which she wrote "when you're trying to get your shit together in life, but there's some people that won't leave you alone" how should I interpret this message? Did she label me as clingy and in the friend zone? Or should I take it as just a joke and stop overthinking? P.S : she was the one who wanted us to meet and who suggested a meeting

@Vrubel One post doesn't define a man.

@StarStruck your understanding of spiral dynamics is very limited and caricatural. Someone who's trying to develop his work ethic, is not necessarily a person who's stuck at stage blue and trying to move to orange. Spiral dynamics is about consciousness and values, not about personal traits and work ethic

@Extreme Z7 Well , first of all , I'd like to say that my circumstances don't deliberately bother me , but i really feel stuck and clueless on how to escape my current situation. I'm not energetic enough to work hard , to fight my victim mentality and to change my situation, this is why I feel demotivated. Regarding relationships : I'm an extroverted kinda guy who really enjoy meeting new interesting people . Unfortunately, i live in country where the odds are against you to meet like minded people.

@Blackhawk i couldn't agree more . Bravo

@Majed this is exactly the problem, not being able to start working hard and developing the skills needed in order to avoid becoming a wage slave ( because I'm still in uni ) is so depressing. One hour a day is a joke when I see other people working non stop . And regarding women and friendships , believe me bro, it's not easy at all to find someone at stage green in a country where 95 of its population is still in stage blue .

@Vrubel if we follow blindly your reasoning , we would assume that everyone of us is capable of working 16h per day to achieve his dream life . this is complete BS. I've tried to discipline my self but it doesn't work, unfortunately. and yeah, i resonate with green and yellow, what does it have to do with my age ?

@Leo Gura i live in Algeria. I watched your videos on escaping wage slavery, and your two parts " life advice for young people" and many others . Those videos are definitely life transforming for those of us who are willing to take action. But I feel demotivated by my mediocre environment, and betrayed by my lazy genes . Every time I try to take massive action, my body just doesn't follow. I've really tried to take action, I've really tried...

@Devin For me , this is complete demagogy. I'm a young man with a lot of energy, i want to experience intensive emotions, to dare mighty things , even though checkered by failure rather than simply enjoying " nature and water " maybe I'll do that once I satisfy my primary desires