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Out of curiosity how do you know what all your friends and lovers are Myers Briggs wise? Do you ask them to do the test or is this a popular thing in the US that everyone’s doing..

Maybe better question would be what does it mean to be in feminine (yin) essence ? The problem is assigning the yin/yang essence to physical gender. Another question is why can’t a human flow freely in whatever essence they want without societal pressure?Why does it matter what people want to do with their own personal lives? I don’t buy the ‘I’m concerned about them’ story. If that were true then you would let them be and relax your judgement.

Forget sugar daddies, sugar mommies are trending now

I think actually a person with a secure attachment is the best for going out with a ‘traumatised’ person. Because 1. They aren’t easily affected by manipulation tactics and can keep a clear mind during insecure ones ‘tantrums’ … they just don’t really let it effect them since they’re confident in themselves don’t take things too personally 2.they’re comfortable with being supportive and giving advice/guiding. They don’t withdraw or avoid situations from their partner. Being needed by a partner doesn’t scare them or push them away. 3. They have social awareness and strong sense of self to not be worn down easily and to know when to walk away when things become abusive or overly toxic. They’re usually also good judge of character and see the good in people. so yeah if you are a conscious person but have issues and insecurities that you’re consciously working on then a relationship with a secure person is one of the best ways to help you work on yourself. Basically by finding someone who is a rock and isn’t going to walk away at the first hurdle. worst relationship type will be with someone who is avoidant, that’s gonna prolong your troubles. If you’re avoidant you gotta work on not being avoidant lol.

Is your mother treat badly by another family member at all, like husband? Could be you learned to also treat her with disrespect? Or maybe you feel she’s always on at you about negative stuff and never gives you the positive attention that you crave so you end up lashing out. you might b harbouring resentment towards her over a known/unknown thing.

Whats funny is that people think women don’t also have these same desires. It’s just that they’ve been repressed into this role by society. Women also desire and fantasise about different men, just as men desire to find 1 woman to love and fuck deeply. Too much survival this and biology that. Women have desires, question is how repressed are they.

You should be aiming to make your partner feel as safe and protected as possible with you. To a certain extent their suffering becomes your suffering, because you feel sad to see them sad. Otherwise they will feel they they can’t trust you and will withdraw, if you give them the feeling like they are a ‘hindrance’ especially to someone who has traumas. one of the best things you can do is to just be there with them, being a rock. … by the way, if you find all of this hard to do, then you likely have some avoidant attachment going on, since people with a healthy and secure attachment have no difficulties with giving support to a partner.

By developing empathy and compassion

Quirky, moody, has own style, changes hair colour/cut often, humble, loving, down to earth, mysterious, eccentric, outsider, speaks mind, shy, shows different emotions, social but not too much, independent, likes nature, takes health seriously, into personal development, doesn’t follow others, creative, honest, notices stuff. Notices people. Silly and with sense of humour. *describing my gf*

Why just the emphasis on women? Regarding it being a social phenomenon, I think many people are genuine about it but now it seems more and more people are jumping on the bandwagon to be part of that crowd and fit in somewhere. I think obviously there are people who are serious about wanting to change gender and really feel they have been born into the wrong body. But I feel like yea some of it is about wanting to fit into a certain group, which anyone can do, any outcast without a friend group can announce themselves as gender neutral then they will be welcomed into the queer community. Which is fine, it’s survival, nothing new. But whilst there are genuine people there are also people making a social trend out of it, where everyone ends up looking and behaving the same so they can fit into that particular crowd. And you see this all the time with other crowds like goths or rockers for example.

Is it actually him or a troll account ?!

just because a girl is less attractive doesn’t mean she’s not self aware, has self respect and will want to be around a negative energy guy who wants to use her as a sex doll. Start treating people like human beings then maybe you’ll get somewhere

Good, I think with that attitude you shouldn’t even be around women

Just did a quick YouTube search and found her she has loads of workouts, for example doing these types of things every morning.

You need to add in core work and lower body. Start working you’re core every day even for 10 minutes. Planks, hip dips, side planks, Russian twists, mountain climbers. More full, body weight excercise needed just using machine weights not enough. Build a strong core.

Have you heard of ‘EMS’ training ? I have a few friends who do it. It’s some kind of electric pulse that works out the muscles, you do it with a trainer. I know a few people who started doing it along with there usual workouts and they are happy with results

I do still eat meat on occasion if I’m eating out or someone else has prepared it for me. I don’t cook meat at home. And basically I have to ‘unconsciously’ eat it without thinking. If I consciously eat meat I just imagine blood, dead bodies and suffering. I then feel somewhat dirty after eating it and like I’ve absorbed the suffering into my body. I dunno, just doesn’t feel right.

Lol course it does. If women didn’t exist would you bother learning game? But actually, its also about men and proving yourself to other men, even more so perhaps.

The most annoying thing is when you want to be healthy and don’t wanna drink or eat bad but family and friends pressure you into it, or try guilt trip ya

Video evidence from unedited footage. documentary looks pretty dumb now after seeing these clips. I hope more footage is found.

I went to see the new Elvis movie at the cinema, thought it was pretty good. Austin Butler did a great job. I did find bits of it quite corny.. I also didn’t like that Tom Hanks was cast in the role of the manager, felt too cliche. I feel they just stuck him in there for the publicity, since the other characters were relatively unknown! Just found him really annoying especially with that accent he was putting on. Would have enjoyed it more if they used an up and coming actor for the role of Tom Parker too. I didn’t know much about Elvis’s personal story but I was shocked to find out he was financially controlled into staying in Las Vegas, and he never even left the USA even though he tried many times but his manager wouldn’t allow it. When he would try and leave his manager Parker would threaten him by saying you owe me millions of dollars, even though Parker was already getting 50% of everything Elvis made. Seems like nobody had Elvis’s back in that situation… Parker was an illegal immigrant with a fake identity and didn’t even have a passport. Elvis could have cut him off and said ‘so sue me’ …. Parker couldn’t have done it since that would risk him being exposed as an illegal. Like literally nobody did anything, why did no lawyers help get him out from under Parker’s claws? I’m assuming he had Stockholm syndrome, that’s the only explanation why he wouldn’t cut him off. it’s sad how he got so depressed, unhealthy and addicted to drugs, he was all bloated and slurring words - and people were still watching his shows and cheering and applauding. That’s pretty insane when you think about it, he was literally a carnival attraction. Did nobody notice? They only seemed to notice that he was ‘overweight’ which I believe was mostly down to water retention and swelling from all the medication he was being prescribed. Since his body didn’t look obese, he had mostly a swollen and puffy face. At first he was happy doing the concerts but after 100s of shows eventually he was being forced to play. 2 shows per day 7 days per week, for one month for 7 years. At one point Parker was dunking a comotosed Elvis in ice cold water, making sure he would be back on the stage later that night. this just wouldn’t happen today, there would be a ‘FREE ELVIS’ viral campaign going on. I’ve watched a few documentaries and you can see he was a good person, he was passionate and a gifted performer, it’s sad to think what he could have achieved if he had more control over his own life.

I saw sadhguru live show when he was doing his save the soil tour. He was surprisingly snappy and impatient when people were asking him questions. He also changes the subject a lot and beats around the bush when giving answers. For example, he talked about how damaged the soil is, but when people questioned with ‘what can we do’ he had no answers and just said something like ‘everyone write a letter to your local government’ which of course nobody would do. So it was just kinda like, ‘the soil is dying but not really anything we can do about it…*end of talk*’ the other thing I found annoying about the show was how it was supposed to be raising awareness about saving the earth but there were 1000s of paper flyers and stickers being handed out and all over the place. Like why all the paper advertising. I guess he was tired from all the travelling around, but I got an exhausted vibe from him, like he was seeming annoyed at everyone. Really seemed like he couldn’t be bothered to be there. I agree with what you’re saying though about other people testing you. edited: to add further comments

She shared this full unedited workshop on her channel. To me she seems like a typically moody and very feminine woman who openly expresses her darkness and compassion. She is wild and untamed and people don’t like that. women are expected to be ‘loving’ all the time and not be too emotional.

Imagine if we cut all the toxic comments and things Leo has said on this forum over the years and put them all together. It would paint a pretty toxic view of him also. Like this for everyone.

According to Teal the documentary was cut to make it look like they live in a commune. She said she lives with her partner, son and assistant in her own house.