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@Leo Gura Do you have a specific clear vision of what you really want out of this work? Is there a perfect point where you are done? Is this all about understanding for pure understanding? I tend to think sometimes you're just running on circles or being lost in the maze. Deconstruction of the human paradigm is a highly energy consuming task. Assuming you will die as a human, what is it all about? Where are you going?

It is not. I found out a lot of people on the forum relate/perceive reality as a physical thing

Sure, I was not being cynical. It was just a rec

I got your point and you are right on that. I think you should study NLP. You will benefit even more on your investigations to get what is being communicated in whatever shape or form. https://nlptopcoach.com/meta-models-nlp/ Meta Model is a NLP tool to specify abstract language. The more abstract language (hypnotic language) one uses, more careful you should be on his actions, intentions and perspectives. The amount of abstract language here on this forum is astounding.

Chess is a great way to learn rationality through gamification.

Believe hardly until she sleeps with you.

Sure. You have to experience for yourself what this communication is pointing out. Doing everything with your on hands like a forceful miserable reality doesn't help either. Discover for yourself principles, passions, potentials, POVs, habits, knowledges that can help you master survival effectively. Belief is not an option.

Maybe. I see it through alignment. Align with principles, passions and potentials to live a abundant life in all areas. It is survival, of course. Enlightenment is not everything there is to life. Transformation/Mastery are deep aspects of the game 😉

Ok, then what? You transcend it all. And? There is no finish line.

What can I say? You know everything and your mind is already made. If you don't like survival or do not care to master survival, this is about you. Just remember that survival is also Consciousness. Money, status, looks, habits, mind, physiology, testosterone - all these factors will influence your life and truth-seeking.

Ok, fair enough.

You can't function properly in this planet if you don't believe in agency and free will. It can be a extreme illusion but you have to believe. God is not human-centric.

You are talking like a black pill incel. Of course you want to be paid, what is wrong with that? You can do charity also. So you just breath and do nothing all day? Do you expect God to push you? Do you believe in free will?

Actually, it is not about laziness. Be more nuanced. He is teaching alignment. Align with your greatest resources, energies, potentials, passions, flow state. Align with God/Infinite Intelligence. When you really love what you do, it is hard to stop doing it.

It is a discussion between access x embodiment. You can access profund states of Consciousness.... Can you embody it in your day to day routine? The most Awakened masters were humans at the end. This is why is extremely important to "raise" your baseline level of Consciousness because you live there 99% of the time.

What do you think about Wilber? I tend to suspect that Ralston/Wilber are on the same level of wisdom. (this is just an assessment)

Great. If this is working, keep doing it. The thing is: you don't want to lose your soul/fun side doing pickup, You have to find your own style. Fine

He is having more fun than 99% of guys out there.

Contemplate what overlaps pickup and stand-up comedy. What if your best way to approach dating is operating on a stand-up comedy paradigm? You are into flow, alive, not caring, funny, energetic, calm, you can play with yours words, experiment, talk, flirt, be serious. It is a completely vulnerable open experimental approach to meet people. You don't need to be a clown entertainer.

Contemplate what you wrote. I don't know about your experiences with pickup, What I know is that funny/easy going/into the flow state guys are magnets. You don't want to play Thommy Shelby or James Bond, this is not effective.

He is a master of comedy pickup. The guy is extremely easy going, fun and crazy. Read his book on daygame, see his infield videos. After months doing pickup, you lose the sparkle. You turn into a approach machine. He teaches you to sustain your sparkle for curiosity, adventure and fun doing pickup.

David DeAngelo (Eben Pagan) is great. Great guy. He is now much more advanced spiritually, married, has a child.