Spook17

I'm 25. I've accomplished some personal goals but some still are not well developed. I judge myself because i haven't gotten into the habits I would like to. I advanced on those in small steps but I haven't stuck to them. In exercise: Now I have more strength because last year I was doing calisthenics at a small level, but since I had an injury at the gym last month I stopped to go. Now is difficult to return. Reading/Writing: I read more than last year but I haven't stick into the habit too. Reading more than last year means reading 1 book on 2 months. Finance: Having a new job boosted my finances. But still, I'm keeping wasting money on dumb things. Comparing with my last 2 years I advanced and now I'm more aware but that's not enough. Studying: Often I sit down and study technical things for my job. It's not quite regularly as I would like to. Friends and family: I cleaned my friendships and broke up with my gf (still healing for that) having more time for my real-friends and my family. I would like to do more for them but still trying. Spirituality: I stopped meditating every day. Last 4 years I had a regular meditation habit. I decided to quit to focus on myself and fix my life before getting into this. I don't know if I have to return. Health: I advanced in checking my health. But as with the other things above i've done small steps and not finished the entire procedure. Other stuff: As above, I advanced with conversational english, flirting skills, and soft skills. But as well not as I'd like to. Summary: I'm better than yesterday. But not as I would like. I think I'm not having relevant improvements and I have the fear of not getting habits that have a time-restriction to get (health/exercise/good diet/finance). Also, I still have bad habits like eating shit things once/twice a week or smoking cigarettes once/twice a week. I don't know how to start or how to prioritize them, because everything seems important to me. Also there are other fields that are not too relevant that I didn't put above. I'm 25 and I feel like if I don't fix this today I would get older and regret not doing it. I'd really appreciate some advice. Thanks in advance.

I've always seem that everythin is like a joke. I make and do things but I'm not get too serious about those. Should we take life more seriously? How to take your decisions and situatiosn more seriously? How to take spirituallity more seriously? How to stop chasing everything and focus on one thing in your free times. Does it worth it? How you prioritize between many things "to-do"?

@John Paul Thanks, I feel sometimes that is a lot of stuff that I want to do, but I'm not disciplined enough or not giving the necessary relevance to keep it doing it.

Yes, that is what I was thinking about. Thank you, I'll check the contract first to also check the withdrawal requirements, meanwhile keeping my job searching. ohno Good Quote, let me take it and put it on my whiteboard bro, thank you

I am looking for a job since last week, It will be my first job besides an internship and the market is kinda harsh on newcomers. So I was expecting to apply to Junior positions for three weeks more or less, without any hurries, and just keep learning for myself. The thing is that a company called me today for an intern position, offering me half of the salary that I was expecting for a Junior one. Right now, I am struggling between seizing the opportunity or having the patience to see the results of the effort that I am making to have a higher value-paid Job. I mean, I could survive without the money for more than a month, and is not like this job offered is too tempting to not take it, it's just normal for my learning path/requirements. Seeing this situation, I would like to read your perspectives. How do you see the difference between taking opportunities and being patient to see the results of your efforts? Is there any point that I have to evaluate before making a decision about it? Extra data: The position they are offering me will give me more practice with software that I want to use, but I could have the same learning and more at home. It's not too related to my professional goal but is in the path of it.