Jay Brown

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  1. But even if we leave our own legacy the world is set to end, so whats the point?
  2. @Murtaza TV itself isnt real bruv, how can you expect ANYTHING it shows as legit. dont hate WWE it was good in them 10 years, now well no comments, I dont watch tv at all since the last 2 maybe 3 years
  3. @Endew good old trick, take a piece of paper and make 2 columns, then write all the good things in one and the bad things on the other, do this with your own judgement, and then work on the 1 2 or 10,000 things that you think are not good in you and just work on thing at a time, then whenever someone says that you no longer do that or you no longer say that and thats really nice, give them a nice smirk and when you get home cut that off keep doing this until you die or get over it. Hope it helps.
  4. @abrakamowse Clearly you don't, donate the worthless piece of crap
  5. @MattHayez Everything is fair in love and war, no harm no foul, As Ayla said you have done nothing wrong, I was in a relationship like that and our honeymoon phase lasted for a year until i figured she was too young and was getting excited and making decisions i thought which were not good at the time and had to cut things off. However in this case since you both have no reason to split, I would say you should spend more time with her maybe watch movies and go out for often maybe even tease her that "you bet i was checking that girl's ass" or anything to make feel sorta stupid (sorry) for overthinking so much and you should see for yourself how easily she gets back in the comfort zone you guys were in before she found them stupid photos. Hope it helps.
  6. @Sarah_Flagg Once you set your mind to something, you would be astonished with the possibilities of how you can make almost anything work in your favor, " you can be in 2 places at once"
  7. @Sarah_Flagg go for the greater cause, always
  8. Thank you for the video, I still smoke up everyday, but open to your take on the herb
  9. @An actualizer You die anyway, so either you can live selfish or devote your time breathing by helping others in any way you possible can. Stay motivated brother!
  10. @Caelis OCD?? alot of people have this habit of making tasks as that makes things easy to get done with good precision, i'd like to pick up on that habit
  11. @An actualizer I guess you need inspiration, if you cant see the benefits of self development, then you need motivation and a big one, find your idol. Hope this helps.
  12. @A Lone Wanderer Noted brother and thanks for the tip
  13. @Vaishnavi You value Excellence which is why you are not happy with yourself, and you should be! because not a lot of people think like you, they think if they are trying that is enough, Im like you too, i work in a target orientated job, and im always at war with competition making sure im the best, i get the confirmation when i see that my $$ are more than everyone else and you dont get to see that which is why you wanted confirmation,. anyways good to see someone like you ! good luck
  14. @A Lone Wanderer Your missing the point, The idea of self actualization is that to become a creator to live life to the fullest, sure you can live in mediocrity for the rest of your life its your call. And for all other prospectives you stated, they all have the same idea, to develop their kind to the fullest to get better and better sorta like the cycle of life.
  15. @Evilwave Heddy thats an interesting point, i agree with it - Heaven is when you are completely 100% satisfied with everything (enlightenment) and have no more desires for anything anymore
  16. @TruthSeeker You have to give up your ego to get inside heaven. but I'd like to see Leo's response on this
  17. @Anna Thank you for elaborating, it make more sense to me now when you say it could go south entirely, however i used to consume heroin and loved it but once i could see how fucked up it was i went cold turkey and now m clean 6 months and have no intentions of going back there, the way i look at it is "been there done that" get do new things all the time to learn from it, you fall you learn you get back up and next time you wont fall atleast not in the same pit, quitting should not be hard on anyone we are way fucking stronger than that
  18. @Stelka To be honest, I used to be exactly like your ex with one of my ex, however I understand what your going through cause i have been in your position too, the solution is very simple you just need to block all ways of you communicating or being able to see him pictures mutual friends etc anything stay happy with your new guy and go on a adventure have spontaneous sex be wild feel the rush, only too forget him not that you went crazy over night .. Hope it helps
  19. @Donald An Active can never by at any risk of self sabotage while reaching the upper limit.
  20. (Y) @Anna Point taken
  21. @Anna Cold Turkey works best, just stop everything. dont think about it dont talk about it, dont anything about it, much more easier. if you set a pace you are kinda setting limits and when you set limits you have already decided that you aint quiting till another year or so,
  22. I hate the fact my co worker copies what i do and then act like nothing is wrong with it, for example i order coffee, he'd be looking at it and then he wants to order it, i wear a sweatshirt he wears a sweatshirt but not the same day no cause then it would be a coincidence after he sees me, like m some sort of an idol for him but when we talk he brings his own intelligence in which is worthless to me, i dont want to be rude so i ignore his out of the blue questions and comments, he wants to look better than me in front of the seniors and i do the same but my problem is why the fuck does he copy me and when he does my blood boils, please tell me how do i stay calm and just do my work and get the fuck home.
  23. @Ayla Definitely Creator everything is just plain old boring, its fun to be the audience and enjoy the play made ONLY for you !
  24. I ate his sandwich today (manipulated him into giving it to me) Thanks everyone