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I saw the clip, which I think shows the true emotions of most anti-vaxxers. I think there is so much (justified) fear and change to normal life, that it makes sense that if you have these people promoting a way to seemingly have some control, scared people will take it. Anti-vax organisations have literally seen this pandemic as a way to increase influence

I get what you're saying here, ultimately women do want the underlying beast who's choosing not to act on that nature. I mean a great example is literally 'beauty and the beast', where she is initially scared of the beasts nature but then sees that he has a more tame side and those dualistic nature's are what sparks her love (despite the whole locking her and her dad up). With modern society every women is most likely attracted to the same thing it's just either they're to naive to know the difference or there are just not enough men with both sides integrated. But generally I get your point, I also think everyone's kinda saying the same thing just in different ways

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If you're talking about in dating terms which I'm guessing you are, it really comes down to who's attractive to the most amount of women, as in who's in the top 10 or 20%. High value denotes a scale of value so high value would have to be in this top bracket percentage. So it includes, financial resources, intelligence, masculine energy, being able to regulate one's emotions, can be good looks and good body. It also includes getting respect from other guys, having good social standing etc. In a nutshell girls want him and guys want to be him

Just watched some of the video, this guy just comes accross as full on scumbag lol

OK look I think I've kinda worked it out, it ties in to @Emerald s points. Women are attracted to strength, dominance etc in a man but if they don't know themselves well or don't understand the difference between good strength and toxic strength they can end up in toxic relationships with strong men. But the point is the strength part is a big factor and women will select on that initially and hope all falls in place later. On the other side, men tend to choose based on looks and again if they don't know themselves and don't have boundaries etc they can get into a toxic relationship as well. It's the sane thing they're selecting (the relationship) on a looks basis and hoping everything falls into place later.

There's no guy thats on the look at for a bitchy girlfriend. If a hot girl happens to be bitchy, she'll get a partner just on the basis of her looks and the guy will put up with it. If she's not good looking she's probably quite manipulative or dates guys she thinks are soft. If the guy has any self-esteem, boundaries or is of decent value and knows his value, he will not put up with bitchy, although he prob would have sex with them. Also a normal girl can turn bitchy toward the guy if she loses respect for the guy for whatever reason and doesn't break up.

I agree but this is not very clear as you say. Also they do tend to lie to themselves about what attracts them and maybe justify them being with a toxic, strong man. A good example is if a guy asked a women for advice on how to good with women, majority will say 'be nice, be respectful, be a gentleman', when in reality if you look at the womans previous partners, most likely they were none of what she advised was attractive.

Not saying Leo is 100% correct, but it is a common theme that some women will be adamant that theyre not attracted to someone and then they end up sleeping with them, or they say i dont like this type of person but end of with that type of person. Most romantic films literally start off with the woman not liking the arrogant, but good natured guy and then they end up with him and its 'true love'. This is a constant trope in media which is mostly consumed by women. Also if you ask what some women look for in a guy and then you get the attributes of their previous partners, the two are rarely matching. Im not saying women cant contemplate what attracts them, of course they can and if any women would they should include those on the forum. But most women dont, also im not saying men do either its just its far more simpler for them, but even then they probably dont know the root of it.

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It can be, but mostly it's how women want people to think that they think

Yeah its definitely tied to that but it doesnt change the fact that there isnt a mainstream male voice and there are several female ones. It wouldnt be so bad but the advice they give is usually terrible and panders to women, which could be a factor in why, some, female standards are so high. I wouldnt say they have little stakes in social dynamics, these are shows with literally millions of viewers everyday, these shows essentially shape peoples perception of the world, as with all mainstream media. Well apparently Genghis was the man and had a crazy lay count

Its true though, theres a number of serial killers that have many female fans, wasnt the boston bomber some kind of idol. You also get the phenomenon of women who write to convicts in prison to try and strike up a relationship

The problem is so many women are dysfunctional and so are attracted to this, so a lot of guys emulate this because they would do whatever they think is attractive to women. Also i you can still get women by putting on a persona, its a lot easier to do that than work on yourself and become a healthy strong man, especially when you have dysfunction yourself. People are always going to go for the easy option. But yes developing into a healthy, strong man is what men should be encouraged to do.

Haha well its good to a wide a wide variety of cultures, must give you an interesting perspective. Yes those shows are very female perspective talk shows, a lot of their topics are specifically about their opinions on men, ill post an example below. The male fronted shows that you mentioned are light entertainment or political shows, the equivalent would be something like Samantha Bee or Michelle Wolff which are also political shows but not necessarily giving an opinion on specific female issues or dating or anything like that. They may have masculine traits but its not a male perspective, many of the views are definitely not how a man would see things, either way its not a good source of male advice for boys and men watching. To save you a google search you wont find any similar male perspective shows, you will on youtube however, but its almost underground and doesnt feel like the views would be accepted in mainstream, there is also a lot of toxicity as its not mainstream. Heres the example - By the way imagine this clip with the roles reversed and men saying what they want to hear from women and how women should act on mainstream tv, whilst there being only 3 women in the audience to give their opinion under pressure. You wont see it

It is produced by men but it tends to be consumed more by women, at least when it comes to opinion shows and talk shows. Men as producers will still look at whats making them the most money and go with that. But i agree it both the female and masculine viewpoint need an equal platform. I dont believe its as you say that there are many shows that let men speak their truth freely to a mainstream audience but im happy to be corrected on it. In the UK we have Loose women, This Morning, Lorraine, in the USA theres the Real, The View, Wendy Williams, even the male talk show hosts like Steve Harvey and Dr Phil are usually skew toward a female point of view. All these shows the women can talk about how they truly feel and they are specifically female issues from a female point of view, so im not talking about shows like Jimmy fallon or Corden as these are entertainment shows they are not specific to male issues in the same way the female led shows ive mentioned are. So with that in mind can you name five or so male hosted shows that specifically talk about male issues in a free way, the male equivalent of the View for example?

Yeah I agree this is probably the main factor. It maybe controversial but i also think masculine, male opinions and voices are not heard that much in mainstream media, there are many shows like the view, the real etc etc where women talk about their issues but i dont think you get that much on the male side. What this leads to is a lot of young guys seeking this out and finding themselves down toxic youtube rabbit holes. I think it would be good to have more healthy mainstream male perspectives that are actually being real and can relate to other guys.

Yeah i think this is a good summary, the issue is there are limited good, strong men and theyre becoming scarcer, strength being such an important trait will mean women end up with sociopathic guys. Leading question but why do you think there are so many weak men nowadays?

At 5? What happened and do you think there's some trauma stemming from that?

Wow that escalated

Don't really like that guy, but on the question I would say a woman is more likely to cheat if she doesn't really respect the guy that she's with but stays with him for whatever reason.

OK so what this is called is an ad hominem argument, you havent addressed any of the points made and youve made no attempt to understand where im coming from, instead youve directly attacked me. Youve made a whole heap of assumptions about me and my experiences simply because my opinion differs from yours, which is an insane argument because what if youre wrong? Anyone that disagrees with you must have been hurt or theres a sob story, no my friend. Theres no sob story, ive had great intimate relationships with black women, ive heard their struggles first hand, my viewpoint incorporates all that experience and more, furthermore im mixed race myself. Im assuming youre not a black woman but somehow you speak for them, this is the problem i have with this green paradigm where its almost like a show of how much we're aware of other peoples issues, so much so we talk on forums and post blackout pictures on instagram and maybe even protest, until the next cool social issue. But most dont do anything or even have an idea of what the solution might be. Ive worked in charities, mentored young people and have talked about racism with many black women, its not enough just to say racism is bad, what are the solutions? Its not about waiting until people stop being unconsciously biased, there are real issues with lack of father figures and broken homes, which are creating new trauma in children. I can acknowledge black women are at the bottom of the racial totem pole, ok cool so whats your solution now?

Love this guy, his instagram vids are great where he'll meet random people on Omegle and just start rapping about them, really amazing to watch

Do you have to be speaking for someone? I dont understand your question to be honest, if im talking for anyone its black people as a whole, but as i said i try and look at things systematically, so its not about sides for me its more about sorting out problems.

I try and take an overall view, if I do mention myself it's just to make an overall point. I'm not for or against anyone, just trying to look at where the solution could be. There's loads of valid criticisms for anyone's behavior, we're just talking about specific group here