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Sugarcoat
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It happens too often
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If you manage to get through this it would be really cool
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People can’t have relationships without fighting because the way the human ego is structured. It has to judge, it has to be defensive, it has to dislike, it has to be in control, it’s all to ensure its own survival and proliferation. It’s built into us. You’d have to literally deconstruct yourself to rid to your self of these tendencies
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When something is emotionally triggering or loaded for us it warps our perception of the other person so you think you’re just listening to them but it’s being filtered through your own world view you’re attached to so you hear a biased version of it.
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Wow that you’re doing that. That must require crazy discipline. I’ve tried 3 hour meditations and I find that hard enough. Maybe if you face frustration and agitation from the boredom that will inevitably come, just know that it’s temporary and it’s like a wave that will pass, so if you pass that wave each time it’s like you go deeper and deeper. Your brain/mind getting more accustomed to the lack of stimuli, forcing it to rewire. I bet you’ll release a lot of emotion, anything that has been hidden has the opportunity to come up and be cleared out of your system. I bet it’s gonna do amazing things. You go man
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Sugarcoat replied to ActualizedJohn's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I remember when I took 5 Meo it was slightly uncomfortable. So maybe that’s the self resisting -
Sugarcoat replied to ActualizedJohn's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Every morning I wake up the self reappears. Seems to me like something the brain is doing like the brain is constantly imagining itself, is aware of itself, it’s a structure of the brain. That’s kinda what I experience. -
Sugarcoat replied to ActualizedJohn's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
It sounds like it would feel expansive. I’ve experienced when you shed layers to the ego it feels like a release and expansion. So what you describe would be a full expansion -
Very complex answer I like slaying zombies on minecraft
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Ok😹
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@Schizophonia What type of games are your favorite explained in a simple manner?
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Sugarcoat replied to ActualizedJohn's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Describe it -
Sugarcoat replied to Spiritual Warrior's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don’t agree that the human created the self rather the self was just created. But yes we are involved in maintaining the self so contributing to its structure or it’s deconstruction -
Sugarcoat replied to AION's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Ok understood -
Sugarcoat replied to AION's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Why did you tag me? -
hahah omg didn’t think of it
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Thanks
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Sugarcoat replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
But do you still feel like there’s a “you” trapped in eternity? -
Thanks
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Handsome fellas
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Sugarcoat replied to Spiritual Warrior's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
That’s a good idea. I tend to think about it myself. It could potentially aid in breaking it down. True , it requires self awareness so observing yourself, “your self” objectively, inward focus rather than outward focus -
Handsome dude . Bold of you to smile, it looks genuine
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Sugarcoat replied to Spiritual Warrior's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I wouldn’t say we construct our selves, rather it’s just spontaneously constructed, but then we have power in deconstructing it, I don’t know how you would structure a self yourself -
Yea I don’t really know why , it’s hard to get a genuine smile on pics then you have to somehow make yourself laugh. I’ll try that out thanks
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Hahah you’re funny