Sugarcoat

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  1. Desperation is internal. It’s something you feel inside. What you do externally is not a direct indicator of that Wanting to meet a partner is one of the most natural things ever. It’s literally encoded in your psyche from evolution. Even feeling a little desperation is natural and doesn’t necessarily have to be a hindrance. I think it’s a matter of how you “own it” , own your feelings confidently, be confident in your desires and in the expression of them, and you’ll probably leave a good impression that can be attractive
  2. Alien pickup 😳
  3. Because realizing you’re consciousness is still a limit becuase then it’s you (consciousness) and the rest or? But that seems like a major first step at least
  4. I thought you were joking about oblivion as in unawareness 😂
  5. Is that a new kind of awakening?
  6. Cmon we are not that sensitive 😂 Jk you do as you please
  7. People can gain some happiness by achieving desirable results in whatever area
  8. I agree. That’s if you want results
  9. Hahaha I don’t mind pondering . You could ask the question, how? And get to know how through pondering
  10. When you say “with the mind” do you mean it’s only a intellectual realization for them? This reminds me of when I heard Rupert Spira say something along the lines of there being two steps to awakening. First you awaken to nothing/awareness, but it’s still separate from everything, then realization that awareness isn’t separate from everything so it merges with everything. Sounds a little like what you’re saying
  11. I think so too in a way . What do you mean by “with sufficient consciousness” you mean consciousness is the substance of everything and that it “dreams” realities?
  12. Yea I think I’ve read that too. Yea I understand. I’m not gonna get stuck on a detail
  13. Don’t know of either of those
  14. Why fear death? I get if someone is afraid of hell, because that would be scary asf, or some bad reincarnation (that has been my fear as a child), but void, nothingness, everlasting sleep, why would that be scary? Think about it, is it ever scary to fall asleep? No , then death (if it’s like that) won’t be scary. If you believe in reincarnation then that could even be positive, so the things you miss in this life might happen in your next life? Yay . lol just some thoughts.
  15. A new species of homo sapien has been discovered! The no self people!!! hahah but yea it’s hard to tell sometimes if someone is that or not. It’s kind of like the next step in the human evolution.
  16. Solipsism seems like the silliest idea to me to be honest. Why would reality be limited to only one sense of self? I enjoy pondering these things.
  17. Shouldn’t you have used the “look at this car” meme 😹
  18. Some non dualists like Jim Newman whom I like how he speaks, says something alone the lines of how continuity is a part of the “dream” , and that reality is actually chaotic, this is chaos. Something like that. It’s weird because for us reality seems very structured. But maybe they mean the total of reality
  19. I rarely eat sausage so I don’t know. But aren’t there some sausages with minimum ingredients that would be healthy? Thanks for the info. I didn’t know. I know that taste can correlate with what’s good/bad for us. So something poisonous probably tastes bad most of the time. But aren’t there many circumstances when it’s not the case that taste corresponds to if it’s good/bad for us. Also considering we are used to things like salt, oils, and heavily processed foods makes our taste buds more likely to dislike natural veggies. So whether we think something is tasty or not might not be a good indicator of it being good/bad for us in this day and age.
  20. Yea from the info I have it seems it all varies based on the vegetable. And yes I agree most important is to eat plants at all, and a variety of them. From a little research I’ve done science supports a predominantly plant based diet, so plants being the main part of the diet. So that aligns with what you wrote