Sugarcoat

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  1. Once again I don’t think it’s too common for them to want validation from others, it’s more just a way to boost the self image as I said, to post themselves looking good, doesn’t need others to tell them they look good necessarily although maybe it does happen in some cases and that I can’t answer for now if you look at a females comment section i think it’s more common to see replies from her female friends rather than men
  2. I don’t know how common that is, to post in order to attract other men I think in most cases it’s still for one’s own ego boost. Looking hot for a woman can be like an end in itself, doesn’t need men to confirm it
  3. I edited my answer to add on a point. I don’t think most girls who post sexy pics do it to attract men i think it’s mostly to boost their own self image. I don’t post so I can’t answer that
  4. a thought that came to my mind. Our society is heavily hypersexual here in the west, women get conditioned from a young age to value physical appearance highly, this contributes to this phenomena of sexy pics on social media. Which is to boost one’s own self image. I don’t think it’s to excite other men, it’s more ego centric than that, to boost the self image as I wrote.
  5. You’re still not living up to your bio. “End of desire” includes end of desire to change others😅
  6. Maybe it’s not possible for anyone to answer this question, but is it so that everything that one could think of and infinitely more exists for some conscious pov? So for example my current life but me wearing a different shirt right now exists for a conscious pov, every book we read, the story exists irl for some conscious pov? Etc etc. I say “for a conscious pov” in the sense that I , right now exist as a conscious pov, and I experience my little “bubble” of appearances, and in the same way there’s a conscious experiencer for all of the other “bubbles” of appearances. Or could there be appearances without a conscious experiencer perceiving them? If you get what I mean
  7. There’s probably many angles to look at this. But from my own experience I find that simply fully allowing the emotions to come up, not resisting, perhaps even triggering them to get them to come up, and having your full attention on them and the mental story around the emotion. Full embrace and allowance, as much as possible. Full neutral attention/concentration on it, creating that distance from it, this all can help in dissolving it and getting it to flow freely and unblock from your system
  8. How did you get to change your username lol? Your name is cool now yea
  9. That’s my guess
  10. 😂btw are you that one mariogabriel (spelled it wrong probably) guy with a changed username because you two have same profile pic and he used to write a lot of posts too. And I haven’t seen that username here for a while
  11. It’s funny reading this post then reading your bio underneath
  12. @LifeEnjoyer don’t know what second pic with the men is but yea 😂
  13. You’ll not even understand yourself anymore!
  14. @Rasheed you’ll never understand what he writes that I’ll say now, don’t even try
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  16. Isn’t sex just a thing one does for either pleasure or to have kids? How would it make you a more high quality man? Sure it could make you better in bed, but that could be gained with one girl too. Other than that I don’t see what it would do. edit: I see how sex can have other purpose too like deepening relationship, exploration whatever but I kept it simple here