Sugarcoat

At the end of the day, most people feel real. And they feel like others are real. And for most it stays like this throughout their whole life. And that’s what matters. Whether you are actually real or not, illusion or not, whether you believe in solipsism or not. Those things don’t really matter because they’re just ideas for you. It doesn’t change the fact that you feel real and you feel others are real. Now if you could actually change that sense of realness, maybe get a glimpse of non duality, then we are talking, then those things are no longer just concepts. See. Direct experience is what matters. Not what ideas you hold. So take it with a light heart when you’re playing around with these ideas, and be honest with yourself when it’s just ideas vs when your actual experience is starting to change. Sometimes maybe questioning things can alter your experience, then that’s what matters, how your experience changed. If it’s just on mind level it makes no real difference. Why freak out over a concept in your mind like solipsism when you still feel like others are real? See, it most likely didn’t change anything. Your reality remained the same.

You mean reality is infinite so includes the forms “objective reality, self and other”?

😂eheh

I swear. Like you really think you’re the only self illusion in all of reality

Lol

Nobody walked into a bar…. - Taoist saying

You and your questionable word choices

Ok I see you’re getting more self aware that’s a step in right direction

I was joking. But it could technically help in some case if someone really believes in it

I don’t know how you guys define solipsism. But to me that is if you believe you’re the only conscious experience. So that’s what I meant. I don’t know if you could “awaken” to that, then it means it must be true . But I don’t believe it’s true so I don’t believe you can awaken to it. That’s why I wrote “believe”. I get your point. I have developed a kind of opposite mindset of, “oh I’ll just do it in my next reincarnation, I have infinite reincarnation’s so I have a lot of time to do things”😂😂😂😂😂jk i don’t hold that mindset

That’s a different state than the idea of solipsism but I get your point

Solipsism is lowkey a cure to social anxiety and fear of rejection etc Like if you care what someone thinks, if you’re a guy afraid to approach women, if you just believe they’re actually brain dead and you’re the only conscious experience then what is it to fear

You just exposed a very fundamental part of human nature.

It’s like how people say “you only live once.” So they really think, in all of ETERNITY. Only one life will appear. And then before and after that will be eternal nothing forever. LOL. As if new form won’t appear sooner or later and “you” are born into it.

Why the fuck would reality limit itself to only create one self conscious being and the rest are not conscious? If reality is infinite it can create infinite self conscious beings, infinite illusions, why would there only be one (you) illusion of self.

I resonate with your writings in general. But it’s kind of like it’s more a resonance with you as a person, so with your self, your vibe. Your experiences of the limitless probably has affected you as a person, your self structure, perhaps softened it, so that contributes to your “vibe” that you give off. It seems to me you have directly “experienced” (not the best word but you get it) the limitless, and then when the self reappears and the mind comes back to normal, there is an interpretation of it, a mental framework about this “limitlessness” has been developed, and that’s where this writing comes from. Or do you also write when you are directly in the moment of being open to the limitless? Because then it’s like a writing directly from the “source”. Some very small YouTubers, and very few, who claim to have lost their self, the non dualists, they can sometimes seem to me they are directly speaking from this “limitless” place. And so I can resonate with that too. I find you write clearly. Some parts I struggle to understand such as the synchronization, “a reflection of itself”, “coherence” etc, when you talk about how reality works. It doesn’t matter though, I’m not the type that really seeks understanding so I’m content even if I don’t understand. I thought though, how do glimpses of the limitless lead to this kind of understanding of the “structure of reality”? If I have a glimpse, maybe it’s obvious, “oh this is infinite”, but all the other stuff, I don’t get how that understanding came about. Some other speakers don’t seem to have that understanding, they just say oh the self doesn’t exist. But they don’t talk about the structure of reality much, synchronized this and that

It abso fucking lutely does NOT what r u on

Yea maybe it sounded obvious. But basically this mapping of the opposite gender is unnecessary. Study yourself and you’ll know the other enough …

I think one of the safest ways to not fall for manipulation is just being very secure in yourself. You don’t have to study the other gender to not fall for it, just be so secure in yourself so you’re not needy of anyone and won’t settle. You’ll see things more clear from a grounded place

People just need to realize instead of pointing fingers at each other, it’s not men who are fcked , not women , this and that, it’s HUMANS. Ok (but maybe men are more to be honest)

”Female nature exposed” 😂

Omg yes! I noticed if I kept my mind really positive, or neutral. I could even feel good from seemingly bad food. It wasn’t until I dissolved most of my mind, dissolved all my beliefs, that I found true health. Health independent of mental judgements. One time something crazy to me happened. I was listening to a video of a woman talking about how the body detoxes. I felt this “whole body resonance” with her video, and suddenly my stomach rumbled and I had to go to the bathroom like twice and had diarrhea. It’s very odd . It’s like my body kickstarted some kind of detoxing by listening to her! I could elaborate more but I can’t come up with much at the moment .

Understood

I don’t know why I’m writing this. My current situation is that I feel I barely exist I feel severely disconnected from myself. It has been going on for about a year. I have no emotions, no libido, feel no romantic or sexual attraction, almost zero sense of joy, almost zero motivation to do anything, no sense of purpose, almost no desire to do anything Im not particularly depressed, only sometimes, I feel a little bit worse than neutral usually. I’m not particularly stressed too I have no desire to date or socialize. That’s why I am a virgin at 21 and have one friend, but I have no desire to hangout with her or my family. I barely talk at all, because I feel so disconnected from myself. I just do what I have to : work to earn money so I can eventually move out, hygiene, sleep, eat, look at my phone. Me and my family travel sometimes and I will travel this summer but I feel nothing about it. I wouldn’t mind staying alone at home. That shows how I don’t enjoy things others enjoy. I derive pretty much zero pleasure from anything. Despite all of this: this is me on a GOOD day. Today I’m having a good day, even if it’s like how I’ve described. That’s how my situation is What else could I write? I don’t know Im going to doctors and they put me on anti depressant and anti psychotic for a year now but they make zero difference except make me a little calmer which isn’t too bad I guess. I also have suicidal thoughts sometimes when I feel extra disconnected from myself.

Thanks for honesty. Only think about it if you want to