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It’s because it’s hard finding the right girl. So this will be the case for most girls. Or humans in general. It’s very rare but I believe it’s possible to find a woman who also seeks “truth” similarly to you who you’d resonate with You can also think about how you prioritize in your life. As long as you have an ego your interactions with others will be on the ego/dream level. This you have to be honest with yourself about. So most of the time you’re living in the dream like everybody else. But you prioritize truth, and maybe that’s your highest priority, but you could also if you find it important, to make space for egoic desires. Like sex and relationships. And allow those to be on dream level so you don’t expect your partner to align with your truth seeking. It’s a matter of how you prioritize it in your life, a relationship won’t give you permanent bliss, nothing on the worldly level will, but you can still value the short term and more long term (yet still not permanent) happiness it can give. And since it’s on the dream level for you , you accept that your partner is operating on dream level. Then if you one day find the truth and things like relationships are no longer on dream level for you, that is something that has to happen within you, and once it happens nobody outside yourself can pull you back into the dream, so maybe it won’t matter if partner is in the dream because it won’t affect you

Who knows Same. I’m not here to prove myself

Luckily I have no sleep issues. The only thing is that I can sleep for a long time on weekends and it can feel like I’m wasting time People don’t notice without looking closely on fingers It can be but I feel clearly that I don’t have anxiety believe it or not

It’s the cafe called espresso house Yea i like it too

lol I thought this would happen I also felt like letting go of beliefs/attachments was a gradual process I like rustic vibe LOL I just started biting my nails😂I didn’t in the past. And I bite the skin around them too that I’ve done for years. Damn it doesn’t look good Im not anxious for me it’s just habit of biting and picking. Maybe it’s partly genetic because my mom does it very vigorously too

Illegal combo

I dont know because im not enlightened but maybe there is a difference between you could realize non duality, and thats the same as realizing nothingness (because nothing has no border) but then what’s missing is that everythingness, so the next step is to realize everything, oneness. Maybe I’m wrong as I said I don’t know but I’ve heard something along those lines

Ok I understand. Thanks

Are you asexual? I personally don’t care about not being able to have sex, date, be in relationships etc so Im okay with that. But I am not okay with my issues, if that makes sense. Like I’m not okay with the problems I have, but I am okay with one of the consequence of those problems being having no sexuality.

Yea I can’t be with anyone either so I understand

*hot feminine woman approaches valentin* Valentin : sorry I haven’t perfected my sleeping routine yet, so I haven’t actualized my full self yet so I am not deserving of your love

Just find a girl who is willing to suck your d and you just lay back and relax half asleep. tada problem solved. jk

You’re not living up to your signature.. Jokes aside we are in somewhat similar boat . Would you say you’re still hindered to this day or it was more a thing of the past

I’m not asexual because I’ve felt sexual before. It’s just that in the past year I’ve lost my libido due to certain reasons. It wasn’t uncalibrated, it was a good response. I just shared a perspective btw

Not from memory Honestly I don’t care about it

“Clairvoyance is a claimed ability to perceive or know about things that are not present to the senses”

I’m kinda in the same boat id say. There’s several mental problems I don’t have anymore, although one I still have

He always writes stuff that’s hard to comprehend… 😝

I wonder if that’s actually what happens to people. Like doesn’t direct experience tend to shatter one’s paradigm if it contradicts it?

@UnbornTao I edited my response

Thanks I will try Just out of sheer curiosity, have you had real experiences where you have experienced this or is it theoretical for you as of now? It’s still a valuable point regardless, I’ve heard it before

Cool idea but no I don’t have that desire Yea but we’re talking about sexual desire. I don’t have sexual desire so that’s why I don’t have sex It’s all my mind does kinda. It’s like an end to itself Yea

I think direct experience is the most obvious thing

Yea I see your point, exercise wasn’t the best example because most people don’t push themselves so hard they suffer from it . But I meant physical pain in general. Ok I’ll stop here

Go out on a track and run as hard as you can and see how slow time passes. Yea that might be self generated but it’s still a form of suffering . You cant enjoy suffering right? Because it goes against the very definition. Or is there a sort of mind trick I don’t know that makes it possible to enjoy suffering? I would like to know that mind trick then