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Solipsism is lowkey a cure to social anxiety and fear of rejection etc Like if you care what someone thinks, if you’re a guy afraid to approach women, if you just believe they’re actually brain dead and you’re the only conscious experience then what is it to fear

You just exposed a very fundamental part of human nature.

It’s like how people say “you only live once.” So they really think, in all of ETERNITY. Only one life will appear. And then before and after that will be eternal nothing forever. LOL. As if new form won’t appear sooner or later and “you” are born into it.

Why the fuck would reality limit itself to only create one self conscious being and the rest are not conscious? If reality is infinite it can create infinite self conscious beings, infinite illusions, why would there only be one (you) illusion of self.

I resonate with your writings in general. But it’s kind of like it’s more a resonance with you as a person, so with your self, your vibe. Your experiences of the limitless probably has affected you as a person, your self structure, perhaps softened it, so that contributes to your “vibe” that you give off. It seems to me you have directly “experienced” (not the best word but you get it) the limitless, and then when the self reappears and the mind comes back to normal, there is an interpretation of it, a mental framework about this “limitlessness” has been developed, and that’s where this writing comes from. Or do you also write when you are directly in the moment of being open to the limitless? Because then it’s like a writing directly from the “source”. Some very small YouTubers, and very few, who claim to have lost their self, the non dualists, they can sometimes seem to me they are directly speaking from this “limitless” place. And so I can resonate with that too. I find you write clearly. Some parts I struggle to understand such as the synchronization, “a reflection of itself”, “coherence” etc, when you talk about how reality works. It doesn’t matter though, I’m not the type that really seeks understanding so I’m content even if I don’t understand. I thought though, how do glimpses of the limitless lead to this kind of understanding of the “structure of reality”? If I have a glimpse, maybe it’s obvious, “oh this is infinite”, but all the other stuff, I don’t get how that understanding came about. Some other speakers don’t seem to have that understanding, they just say oh the self doesn’t exist. But they don’t talk about the structure of reality much, synchronized this and that

It abso fucking lutely does NOT what r u on

Yea maybe it sounded obvious. But basically this mapping of the opposite gender is unnecessary. Study yourself and you’ll know the other enough …

I think one of the safest ways to not fall for manipulation is just being very secure in yourself. You don’t have to study the other gender to not fall for it, just be so secure in yourself so you’re not needy of anyone and won’t settle. You’ll see things more clear from a grounded place

People just need to realize instead of pointing fingers at each other, it’s not men who are fcked , not women , this and that, it’s HUMANS. Ok (but maybe men are more to be honest)

”Female nature exposed” 😂

Omg yes! I noticed if I kept my mind really positive, or neutral. I could even feel good from seemingly bad food. It wasn’t until I dissolved most of my mind, dissolved all my beliefs, that I found true health. Health independent of mental judgements. One time something crazy to me happened. I was listening to a video of a woman talking about how the body detoxes. I felt this “whole body resonance” with her video, and suddenly my stomach rumbled and I had to go to the bathroom like twice and had diarrhea. It’s very odd . It’s like my body kickstarted some kind of detoxing by listening to her! I could elaborate more but I can’t come up with much at the moment .

I’ve changed my meal frequency lately. So nowadays I eat two small meals a day, and one small snack Monday to Thursday. Then Friday to Sunday I only eat two small meals plus if I want, dessert. So I make space for the eventual dessert. I have been practicing portion control, meaning I’ve reduced my portion sizes to small. I also follow , when the food fits it, the plate model. It’s good for reducing the calories because you’re filling half the plate with non starchy vegetables. For example if I’m eating chicken, rice and veggies. Only a fourth of my plate is chicken, a fourth is rice, and half is veggies. I like the feeling when I eat less. I also like to feel light. I might incorporate fasting sometimes too. That’s something I could play around with too. I don’t know how much I believe in true breatharianism. Maybe one would need extreme self/body mastery/awareness to be able to sustain it

Because it’s frustrating being separate

Celebrating gods infinite lifetime

I’d like to receive infinity for my birthday

If you are healthy. If you are in the prime years of your health. If you have strong healthy digestive system. If you’re not sensitive, then you shouldn’t really feel a difference when you eat a little junk sometimes. If you do, if you feel it makes you slower, sluggish, affects your ability to think, bloated etc, it probably means you are sensitive, don’t have the best digestion, maybe have some chronic illness, aren’t in the prime years of your health etc. So don’t blame the food…. It’s your body that isn’t in the best shape: Because a healthy strong body should be able to handle some crap. I notice this in myself. I can eat a little crap sometimes and I feel no difference in my state. Because I’m top healthy so my body can handle it. Dont come on here thinking you got some exceptional interoceptive awareness making you notice the most subtle changes. Maybe it’s possible, but most people don’t have that so…

It takes a lot to overcome one’s problems. For example I had social anxiety and it took me like 4 years of consistent work and emotional labour to finally overcome it. The weird thing is that for me that required a certain degree of self dissolution. Because think about it, if you’re going to change something deep about yourself, something has to die off, and for me it looked like layers to my ego. So it’s a bit of a spiritual process too. If I were to break it down to its core, I’d say it’s important to observe yourself closely, so you can understand the mechanisms behind why you do like you do, the thought processes. Neutral observation also becomes like a practice of detachment. Observing literally means you’re stepping back and simply observing instead of being engaged and feeding. Understanding can help. It’s like a good foundation. Some problems literally survive out of UNawareness of them. Also exposing yourself to your fears, challenging yourself , with things you find difficult, gradually, so you’re not too overwhelmed and it backlashes instead. Also medication can help in some cases if you don’t already take them. In my case they didn’t help me, but I still believe in giving it a shot.

That’s a lot of time

I need to start masturbating so I can be this smart. That’s what I got from your reply

Damn that’s rough. Im also going through stuff, but very different Do you think they are genetic?

You don’t have to answer but what illness is it?

He tends to write in uncommon, complicated way with uncommon terms. Your English seems pretty good, English is also not my first but I’m still fluent in it. I agree. When I write I always try to write in a simple way that people can understand. And to make it shorter and more digestible is preferable too

Hahaahahah I swear. Do people read such long posts ever. (No offense, I’m impressed by such writing)

I haven’t read yet but damn did you write all that from your mind ?

What if you feel no emotions